Blowing off steam

kashi

Im not looking to get a "buddhist" response here i.e theres no self...let go...and whatnot...
Im going to just be a normal unenlightend being and have a small bitch fit because i simply feel like letting my ego have its way for a moment....

What? you thought I was about to blow up or something? LOL I actually have nothing to bitch about!!
:om:

BonsaiDoug

kashi said:

I actually have nothing to bitch about!!
:om:

Ain't life grand!?

kashi

Lol

Cinorjer

Would you like something? That seems to be the way my Wife works. First she gets in the mood to blow off steam, then she looks around to find a reason.

kashi

Stuff and things

person

kashi said:

Stuff and things

Whoa..WHOA... Take a few breaths and bring it down a notch. :buck:

SillyPutty

@kashi needs to write a letter like this (warning: VERY foul language):

kashi

As horrible as that was I still had a few laughs

JohnG

No problem with a bitch fest, as long as it's a bitch that you can fix. If not, be calm, and find a way to fix it; then have a bitch fit. :coffee:

kashi

Ok just for the hell of it.. ..

Women who think every single thing a guy does or says is actually code for "i want to get in your pants" pisses me the fuck off. I speak from personal experience. ...perhaps what I say.. ..is what i mean? Yeah just maybe

kashi

And to add.. .the same goes for what I do. WTF.. ..

federica

Men are stupid.

(*Lights blue touchpaper and stands well back*.....)

There you go - now rant away!

SillyPutty

kashi said:

Ok just for the hell of it.. ..

Women who think every single thing a guy does or says is actually code for "i want to get in your pants" pisses me the fuck off. I speak from personal experience. ...perhaps what I say.. ..is what i mean? Yeah just maybe

federica said:

Men are stupid.

(*Lights blue touchpaper and stands well back*.....)

There you go - now rant away!

Beej

heh. here's a buddhist response anyways: next time a woman says that you are only interested in what is in her pants, explain to her that EVERYTHING is mind, so when you are thinking about her goodies you are actually very attracted to mind.

kashi

Let's put all men in a box.. ..ok all men are stupid and all women are bitches. Rant away

Zero

kashi said:

Im going to just be a normal unenlightend being and have a small bitch fit because i simply feel like letting my ego have its way for a moment....

More likely, the '...because I feel like it...' and the 'real-you-in-charge vs evil-ego-in-charge' are the fictions - more likely, you are not dwelling in equanimity and one recurring result may be frustration verbalised.

kashi

yep...so it is

lamaramadingdong

A young man joined a monastic order that required a vow of silence at all times. Once every ten years the monks could come forward and speak with the head monk.
Ten years pass and the monk is able to speak. He says to the head monk, "The food here isn't very good."
Ten more years pass and when his time to speak comes he says, "My bed isn't very comfortable."
Finally, after 30 years have passed it comes his time to speak again and he says to the head monk, "I'm leaving."
The head monk replies, "I'm not surprised- all you've done since you got here is bitch."

kashi

Thats what this thread is for.

John_Spencer

kashi said:

Thats what this thread is for.

Although following this thread has been a bit of an emotional rollercoaster it has been kinda interesting @kashi.

At the same time I think you should change your screen name to @catamongthepigeons

kashi

Wow...today must be lets fucking bash kashi day. All ive gotten today is shit from you people, underlining name calling, and now a subtle threat that im about to be kicked off here?? (user not found)
did everyone wake up to find they pissed on themselves this morning? what is this crap?

John_Spencer

kashi said:

Wow...today must be lets fucking bash kashi day. All ive gotten today is shit from you people, underlining name calling, and now a subtle threat that im about to be kicked off here?? (user not found)
did everyone wake up to find they pissed on themselves this morning? what is this crap?

Dude - HONESTLY - my post was a compliment.

I like your cat among the pigeons energy.

Buddha: cat or pigeon?

Answer: cat

You are just having a bad day.

Hence your post I presume...

federica

kashi said:

Wow...today must be lets fucking bash kashi day. All ive gotten today is shit from you people, underlining name calling, and now a subtle threat that im about to be kicked off here?? (user not found)
did everyone wake up to find they pissed on themselves this morning? what is this crap?

@kashi,

Woah there, little buddy.... what "user not found"....?

I clicked your name and got a profile, so not sure what your gripe is - oh and, watch your language.

Che

“Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.”
Albert Einstein

kashi

@federica I was refereeing to @catamongthepigeons profile, based off the statement john made.
but he said he was giving me a compliant so it looks like this does not apply and not a threat after all.

kashi

I will say how interesting it is, whenever a guy has said something hurtful towards me, and let him know about it, Ive always gotten an apology. Not once from a female aside from my own mom. No women instead like to cowardly avoid saying sorry.

John_Spencer

kashi said:

@federica I was refereeing to @catamongthepigeons profile, based off the statement john made.
but he said he was giving me a compliant so it looks like this does not apply and not a threat after all.

Thanks for understanding that dude.

kashi

@Che
ive never been married but every chick ive been with tried to change me. If this is how women are im happy as can be to avoid marriage.

federica

Ok Kashi, I apologise, but I'm closing this thread.
I've received complaints about it, and the language used.
It is demonstrably turning into a gripe-fest, and to be honest, I don't personally appreciate your sexist and frankly inaccurate views.

Hope that brings an end to your gripes.