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What is anger? My suggestion is that it is a reaction to a comparison. E.g. you have a particular image of someone, parent, relative, partner, friend and expect them to act in a certain way (kindly, generous, understanding). Their behaviour falls below your expectation (they are mean, obtuse, unfeeling). Your reaction is to project a yang energy.
So the response should be to cultivate a yin energy (understanding, kindness, forgiving). The other thing to look at is that you are attached to a particular image of someone. This invokes the Second Noble Truth. So the thing to do is to always be objective in relationships, including your own part in the relationship. Always seek knowledge, life is a Gnostic journey.
Just a few thoughts of my own, not intended as a sermon and I would like to hear the views of others.