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A serious one for a change.
I don't think many people get complete enlightenment, I certainly won't this time around, but I do think it is possible to have mini-enlightenments that lead to greater compassion and understanding.
Example - a person dear to me, no names, no pack drill, has the habit of offering advice on any subject under the sun. No matter what you are doing, he wants to point you in the right direction, which, if you regard him as a thing separate from oneself, is annoying and leads you to think he is belittling your own skills or abilities.
BUT I had an insight (mini enlightenment) and realised that he is not belittling MY skills, he just wants to make sure that he doesn't lose sight of his OWN. He needs to feel needed. He wants to be appreciated. And the moment I realised that, the part of me that needs appreciating and needing reached out to him and I can now be perfectly happy with his behaviour.