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prayers?

edited March 2011 in Buddhism Basics
hey! I have recently found some pretty cool buddhist prayers online.
I am very big into getting a good start to my days, and love reading
inspirational and positive things in the mornings. I was just wondering
if anyone had any prayer suggestions or book of prayers that could
be recommended? Thank you so much!

:)

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  • Would you give me/us the link/s to those?

    Thanks.
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    Please can anyone explain why sites like that make my flesh creep?
    Really, I'm asking. It just makes me feel really uncomfortable....
  • edited March 2011
    I eat fish and fowl occasionally for health reasons (I tried but I can't do the 100% vegetarian thing).

    I generally visualize the animal and say thanks to it.

    Formally? Here's one.

    A prayer to say before eating meat:

    “Holy One of Love and all Good,
    Please bless the animal prepared as meal here for us with our gratitude, peace and love for the life given and nourishment received. Please extend this blessing to all relatives of this animal. We also call on your love and blessing to be upon the person who killed this animal and upon those involved in the keeping and care of this animal. We look now upon this beautiful meal with an understanding and reverence to it’s source and journey. We offer prayers of peace, love and blessing as our thanksgiving. Amen. “
  • I eat fish and fowl occasionally for health reasons (I tried but I can't do the 100% vegetarian thing).

    I generally visualize the animal and say thanks to it.

    Formally? Here's one.

    A prayer to say before eating meat:

    “Holy One of Love and all Good,
    Please bless the animal prepared as meal here for us with our gratitude, peace and love for the life given and nourishment received. Please extend this blessing to all relatives of this animal. We also call on your love and blessing to be upon the person who killed this animal and upon those involved in the keeping and care of this animal. We look now upon this beautiful meal with an understanding and reverence to it’s source and journey. We offer prayers of peace, love and blessing as our thanksgiving. Amen. “
    If you know that they were loved ones of the living beings' past lives, you would set them free and love them unconditionally. Is extremely sinful to claim in the name of God that animal is prepared as meal due to your ignorant. In the love of heavenly beings, earth has turned into a bloodshed because of your blind faith of God's love, and they disgusts to descend down earth because the smell of blood turned them away same as human does not love the smell of blood :cool:
  • Please can anyone explain why sites like that make my flesh creep?
    Really, I'm asking. It just makes me feel really uncomfortable....
    Fed- it's Pure Land. Surely you know Pure Land Buddhists pray. I pulled a quote off the site the other day, so I won't again, but it's a way to focus. I don't see anything about intercessory please-help-me-win-the-lottery prayer.

    Lots of Buddhists in the world, including Pure Land. To tell you the truth, after all these years of Vajrayana, I was looking at a nice Pure Land congregation in Florida USA to "retire" to from the Midwest USA. I say whatever floats your boat.

  • I personally have been looking for prayers
    because it does help give me focus, I am not
    really praying as in "wishing" for something.
    I basically enjoy the prayers that provide me a
    strong motivational path for the start of my day.
  • genkakugenkaku Northampton, Mass. U.S.A. Veteran
    edited March 2011
    An old Hindu quickie:

    Love and charity towards all beings,
    Contentment under all circumstances,
    Control of the senses and passions --
    The practice of these virtues leads to God.


    A graffito on a construction-site fence:

    Man without God is like a fish without a bicycle.

    And written on a rest room wall in Berlin:

    A kiss that lasts forever is a strange gift.

    Some things are more uplifting than others, I imagine.
  • ummary: A discussion about making pranidhanas, dedicating our punya and linking into the adhistana od the Buddhas.

    A student writes:

    "I am wondering if Pranidhanas are a dedication, a wish, or an invocation? It’s not clear to me."

    Lama Shenpen:

    They are most like a spell. You say something powerful and by that means make it happen. Like a curse - but this is like a positive spell - may this be or I swear to do this - that kind of thing.

    A dedication is a kind of pranidhana and an invocation is calling on some power to add power to our pranidhana

    Student:

    "I am also wondering if I am (dedicating, invoking, or wishing for) an intention to happen again or a result to happen again."

    Lama Shenpen:

    'Again'? It could be a pranidhana for both, ‘may I continue with this intention for life after life’ or, ‘may the results of this intention bear fruit forever until all beings are free from samsara’ - it could be either or both.

    Student:

    "Do I dedicate my wish? Do I wish for my dedication to be of benefit? This is all rather confusing."

    Lama Shenpen:

    Again we can dedicate the wish - because the wish is the source of all the good that flows from it - or we could dedicate all the good that flows from it - or both or either - depends on the inspiration of the moment!

    Student:

    "I thought I was making a pranidhana by saying, “may such and such benefit all beings”.

    Would I be dedicating something that has already happened or am I wishing for my intentions to benefit all beings?"

    Lama Shenpen:

    Well we can’t get too precise here because we don’t really understand what we are talking about - lets call it punya - what is that exactly?

    Maybe it is timeless - maybe it’s something to do with a timeless connection - but we express it in terms of time - we say it now and the result comes later - but it is easy to show that that kind of causality never happens.

    In time there can be no causality - what has gone cannot influence what has not arrived - so the reality behind the seeming reality of time must be quite mysterious and not something we can understand in time language.

    Nonetheless relatively speaking we can act as if what we do now influences the future and as if punya was something that we could give to others - and as if punya was some kind of power associated with the good deeds and intentions we have.

    It is like saying the sun rises each day - of course it doesn’t really - but for all practical purposes in terms of our daily life it does. If we act as if it does we won’t go far wrong.

    But if you then ask by what force is it projected up into the sky and why doesn’t it fall - well the answer is that it is stationary and the earth is turning on its axis - a completely unexpected answer coming from a quite different view of the world.

    The upshot is that we can dedicate punya from the past, present and future, and it can be from what we did, what we intend and what we will do and also the results of all that.

    Student:

    "What does it mean to link into the adhistana of the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas?"

    Lama Shenpen:

    Ah well, that could be understood on all sorts of levels.

    This could be the deepest question of them all, or it might just be a matter of intuitively feeling that somehow there is a sense that Awakened Beings don’t go anywhere and so somehow they are therefore here.

    That intuition can have quite a powerful effect right here and now - you might notice it beginning to happen and be quite surprised.
  • A student writes:

    I read a recent teaching with great interest; it could almost have been me that asked the question you replied to. You may not remember me, I came to see you at the Hermitage about a year ago, we talked about me going for refuge, and I expressed concerns about the rituals involved. I have since left the Sangha, and feel a bit adrift.

    However, I am feeling more positive that I have found the beginnings of my path. I have been reading a lot by Steven Batchelor and feel that a genuinely agnostic approach is right for me at this time.

    I do feel that the work you are doing is so good and I love the simple approach of Discovering the Heart of Buddhism, I started to get a bit concerned about some of the aspects of Trusting the Heart of Buddhism.

    Is there a place for someone like me within the Sangha, when, if I'm going to be true to myself, can't accept the rituals and prayers etc?

    Lama Shenpen replies:

    Yes I remember you. I hope you will find a place in the Sangha for yourself that feels right for you. The important quality that we all need is an open mind and deep respect for the Buddha's teaching. Then we listen to the teachings and ponder them for ourselves and notice where our sticking points are.

    If we have respect for the Buddha’s teachings and admit to ourselves that we do not as yet understand them, we can simply practise what we can understand and sometimes maybe open out a bit more to what we cannot. There is no need for us to force ourselves to do practices such as rituals just because everyone else does. Neither do we have to exclude ourselves from the Sangha just because there are rituals and practices that others - maybe the majority - do that we are not drawn to and which we cannot understand the point of. It may help you to know that many students come into Buddhism highly sceptical about teachings such as rebirth, karma and ritual (me included).

    My advice to you is not to limit yourself by deciding before you start to reduce the Buddha’s teaching to something you already think and believe …. somehow trying to push it into the straightjacket of your preconceived ideas. The Dharma is realised through giving up all 'views' which might perhaps be translated as preconceived ideas in this context. Just because in our modern western society it is regarded as normal to not believe in past and future lives, in the efficacy of rituals and in supernormal powers, beings outside the field of our senses and so on, doesn’t mean that these views are proven, true or even particularly rational. They are part of our conditioning..... that is why they seem so normal and sensible - that is why they are easier to accept.
  • edited March 2011

    If you know that they were loved ones of the living beings' past lives, you would set them free and love them unconditionally. Is extremely sinful to claim in the name of God that animal is prepared as meal due to your ignorant.
    OK. Good. I don't like the God reference, you are probably correct, in my amateur opinion, Thanks. Thanks for the wake up call. Why did they involve "god" in that!? It DOES seem very absurd like you said!

    Next time I see him, I will ask my (our) fully enlightened Tibetan Buddhist Master, AGAIN, how he justifies the McDonald's hamburgers he enjoyed during his early travels to the west and what he thinks of the prayer you so astutely criticized.

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  • Please can anyone explain why sites like that make my flesh creep?
    Really, I'm asking. It just makes me feel really uncomfortable....
    Federica, why? I thought the site was interesting. On the "prayer" page it says:

    "...The purpose of Buddhist prayer is to awaken our inherent inner capacities of strength, compassion and wisdom rather than to petition external forces based on fear, idolizing, and worldly and/or heavenly gain. Buddhist prayer is a form of meditation; it is a practice of inner reconditioning. Buddhist prayer replaces the negative with the virtuous and points us to the blessings of Life...."

    What's wrong with that, I don't get why it creeps you out?

  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    It smacks too much of evangelical God-Bothering.
    Maybe it's my catholic upbringing.
    Every time something happened at my convent school, the nuns would tell us to pray to god, we were so naughty....in fact, according to them, everything could be dealt with by praying to God.
    I guess it's just a little bit too Theistic-sounding to me.

    @Sherab, Thanks, I realise it's pure-land.... my own personal view is that there's a lot of saccharine sentiment there.... but that's just me. I don't take sugar in anything, and I have a strong and violent reaction to artificial sweeteners! (true!)
  • zombiegirlzombiegirl beating the drum of the lifeless in a dry wasteland Veteran
    i don't recite any prayers, but for some reason, reading the heart sutra gives me a very deep sense of peace.
  • Hi,

    I try to keep my prayers simple and from the heart.

    I say the Refuge Prayer thoughout the day and the "Dedication of Merit" to lock in any good deeds that I may have done. I also try to do as many Mani's ss I can.

    This has been a great help to me in dealing with stress

    Hope it helps.

    Dan
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