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This isn't a new thing but I have found myself questioning my motivations for doing certain things lately. It appears that I am constantly trying to seek the attention of women.
I know for a hetro guy that is nothing abnormal but It goes deeper then just wanting to be around them, I want validation from them. I think I am seeking approval or something. Thankfully I have gotten better since I deleted Facebook but I remember just posting endless bs in a bid to get certain girls to comment on it.
I feel I have a strong desire to be noticed when I am at my best by girls I'm interested in for instance when I am happy and laughing I start to wish I am being noticed by them.
Is that something I can aim to change or is that just the human condition? Another form of desire.