Oh I am so sorry!!!! I just now saw your message to me regarding Gil Fronsdal! Ages ago, via iTunes I think (?) I heard a few dharma talks he gave, but that was so long ago. Me and my poor memory aren't going to be much help, I'm afraid. --I just wish I had seen your message to me sooner--I don't always spot the wee notifications right!
Hope you haven't spent too much shopping at Lark in the Morning ;) I may take a look at xiao flutes tonight...
Didn't want to derail a thread--and maybe you are already aware of this--but Gil Fronsdal comes from a Zen background but also has experience in Theravada also. Since you are in a similar 'crossover' situation, he might be worth looking into (I heard a few talks somewhere a couple years ago). It just occurred to me that there might be some helpful insights that would be beneficial to you....