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The only person who can make you happy is you. No one else (including a wife / gf) can do it for you. it is unfair on both them and you to think that they can.
Instead of worrying about whether someone else needs you, concentrate on yourself for a while and find what brings you happiness inside.
Perhaps the leaders and lobbyists for the NRA should be made to meet with the families of those killed in these massacres? Or have to attend the autopsies?
All beings are the owner of their actions, heir to their actions, born of their actions, related through their actions, and live dependent on their actions. Whatever they do, for good or for evil, to that will they fall heir. - AN 5.57