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  • Re: Keeping track of practice

    @Carlita said:

    Headspace is a mobile app for meditation. It’s secular, but the creator Andy Puddicombe is an ordained monk in the Tibetan tradition, and the techniques he teaches are all derived from there. I really like it. It’s how I came to Buddhism in the first place. There are courses on many topics: health issues like anxiety/depression, and general qualities like kindness and patience. He teaches noting techniques, and also visualisation which I recognise as metta bhavana.

    It’s subscription based, but has been well worth it for me.

  • Re: Keeping track of practice

    I’m trying to get to the 90-day goal on the Headspace app. Sometimes I wonder if this is the right thing to do, as “goals” don’t seem to apply very well to meditation. But as @lobster once said here, the only bad meditation is the one we don’t do. So if goals help me to get on the cushion, then good. I think the same probably applies to this.

    Whatever helps you. Best of luck!

  • Re: Reading Lists

    Well then I hope you enjoy them!

  • Re: What Are My Intentions for Today?

    @Vastmind said:
    On behalf of myself and all beings,
    I intend to refrain from consciously hurting anyone.
    I intend to refrain from overtly or covertly taking what is not mine.
    I intend to be sure that my speech is kind as well as true.
    I intend to refrain from addictive behaviors that confuse my mind and lead to heedlessness.

    So do I. Thank you for this :)

  • Re: Is meditation alone enough to obtain peace?

    Hello @BoatS :)

    I don't really have wisdom to offer you. I just wanted to let you know, even though I haven't been practising for a year yet, I already find the slowness of the progress frustrating. At times, that is.

    At night, I try to find examples in my day which suggest I have grown calmer. Times when I could have reacted from a place of judgement, but haven't. I hold on to these moments, like talismans against self-doubt.

    My other strategy, when I'm unimpressed with my "good moments", is to go out and create them. Smile and thank the checkout worker in the supermarket, or wish the postman a good day. And then I can be proud of that interaction.

    I was told: If you find a peaceful state in your meditation, but can't in daily life, then try throughout the day to remember how you felt in meditation. Simply bringing it to mind can help.

    But I really answered this question because I also find it difficult. So good luck, and metta =)