I like to suffer as much as the next lay bodhi.
However I prefer choice dukkha. We can choose to unveil our samsaric unfolding to reveal the unrumpled enlightenment. That is how we make a path/dharma friendship.
The Shakyamuni Bodhisattva was a great exemplar. Living and leading into less dukkha and positive being.
Do we choose better quality dukkha as we enable progress?