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  • Re: Enlightenment

    @federica said:
    Guys.... get a room....


    I am with you.

  • Re: There is no such thing as truth?

    @Shoshin said:

    There is no such thing as truth?

    Is that true ???

    I can't say it's true. Can't say it's not. Can't say it's both, can't say it's neither. It is not all of the above, nor is it none of the above.

    See, I just became the Nagarjuna of Nagarjunas. Lol.

  • Re: Love - shaped hole in Buddhism?

    @Kerome said:
    It’s interesting @shadowleaver because we seem to have been thinking along similar lines. I too feel that Buddhism is somehow incomplete without addressing love more thoroughly.

    For me it goes back to my teenage years in the Osho communes, at the tail end of the flower power movement. Osho once hung a banner up at one of his meditation camps which said “come to me and I will transform you,” and there was certainly some truth to that - the people who came to his communes were transformed by love, openness, and a transcendent attitude towards work, meditation and togetherness.

    Love was a very central theme back then, in several different forms and often accompanied by letting go gracefully when it ended. The ideal was to be total in it while it was there, and to recognise that for some people that was longer than others. My mother and stepfather met there and have been together ever since in a loving relationship, 35 years and counting.

    Buddhism after that experience seems somewhat solipsistic and individual. It doesn’t encourage close relationships, it instead sets as an ideal the life of a monk, and it gives monks these rules which encourage celibacy. Given that many monks go on to become teachers, it is not unexpected that these attitudes trickle down, from the celibate monk to the lay public who try to learn a lay version of Buddhism.

    With all due respect, most people in this world know only the love that comes from playboy. Not real love, AGAPE love. So maybe that's why B doesn't encourage 'love'.

  • Re: What is mind?

    Is there a mind at all, or is there only a brain?

    Food for thought.

  • Re: Let's ease off on the "metta", please

    @Linc said:

    I've seen too many Buddhist communities where folks stab each other and then write "Metta" like that makes it OK.

    Metta is the Buddhist version of 'No offense, dude.'