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What are some ways a Buddhist would deal with depression?
I have trouble stabilizing my moods, and I also have trouble being happy in general.
This has been occurring for the past year.
Partly because of circumstance, but now I see it occurring even without certain situational influences..
What would a Buddhist do to treat mild to major depression.
Thanks.
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I saw a counsellor about 10 times. Expensive but useful.
I took prozac, but that sucked, so I changed to paroxetine.
So, meditation, medication, and therapy.
Worked for me.
Now I'm better, and I'm off the pills, but I still manage to meditate twice a day, it's a habit now.
People who are diagnosed with depression actually have chemical imbalances that keep them in that state of depression. To ignore medical information is irresponsible and ignorant.
@Ravkes, as Mountains quite accurately states, Buddhism is neither a cure nor a substitute for proper professional management of a condition of this kind, to whatever degree.
By all means study, meditate and try to take in Buddhist teachings on Taming the Mind, and the lessons on suffering. But see someone professionally. We are, by and large, not professional therapists, and few of us have medical background or training in this specific sphere.
See your doctor, and tackle it form both sides.
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindful-Way-Through-Depression-Unhappiness/dp/1593851286
Mindfulness is pretty mainstream cognitive behavioural therapy when it comes to treating depression these days.
However, and as the link I put up says, if your depression is really bad, you need to see a doctor. However, for depression relapse prevention, Buddhist stuff can be really helpful.
And like anything, you only get out what you put in.
Hope this has been some 'elp!
Depression is not a medical problem in spite of what a doctor may say in exchange for a fee. Nothing can be more professional than following Buddhist dictate of seeing oneself clearly because that by itself is the cure, as rightly mentioned by Tikal2012.
See a doctor and a therapist. Depending on the severity of the depression, open to the possibility of medication.
*hugs* I've been depressed before, as well. Your body is telling you that something is amiss. Be kind to yourself.
If you're in the pits of depression, it's going to be hard to get out of bed, never mind starting to investigate Buddhism, find something useful, and utilise it.
The problem with people believing it is, is that when they are faced with some of the challenges and teachings of Buddhism - Dependent Origination and Emptiness, self/Not-self - it can become so daunting, so seemingly negative (Buddhism has often mistakenly been referred to as a negative religion, with depressing overtones, by those ignorant of in-depth teachings) that applied incorrectly, I would surmise it might even make matters worse.
If such teachings are difficult for a person, free of mental issues, to learn - pity the poor person whose mind is muddled, muddied, mixed-up and depressed.
And if you really believe Depression is not a medical problem, then I suggest you do some research and learn about it a little more, because, contrary to your belief, it's not about the fee.
People used to be tortured, executed and ostracised by society, and put into mental institutions, for issues we now recognise as standard medical conditions.
Fortunately, we're a bit more educated now.
I suggest you broaden your knowledge-base a little.
examine why you cling to one mood or another. who is it that clings to this or that?
sit with it all. last night i was meditating and i went through hell and heaven in one sitting. though the bliss was pleasurable, it wasn't mine. though the fear was not enjoyable, it wasn't mine.
nothing is mine because everything comes and goes as it pleases. just energy.
in buddhism the buddha found freedom from suffering. he did this by sitting in meditation. you can too.
Sun is so important. I wish I could get more of it. It's amazing the effect it has. Grey weather weighs me down so much.. and it's the norm where I live (Wales). I have a SAD lamp but it's nothing like the real thing. I'd like to move (pref to Asia) but it ain't gonna happen soon.
meditation
exercise
selfless service/charity
proper diet is also huge if you're not already eating well. i should add also that i believe some depression IS purely biochemical and can be partially-totally cured through medication or herbs.
Secondly, modern psychiatry would have persons such as this take poisonous medications as an attempt to alleviate the issue. These medications are not productive at all, and if fact, only serve to worsen the attachment to the emotional states, and thus increase the prominence of said emotional states.
Buddhism on the other hand does not require such poisonous medications, and if put into practice, can completely eliminate all of these negative states of mind, and in a relatively short period of time. Not only that, but it is also capable of achieving this with no negative side effects.
I would have to say that my opinion was indeed voiced responsibly, and not only that, but it was most certainly constructive in that the advise it contained, if put into practice, would most certainly lead to the well being of the reader.
The issue that you raise with Buddhism coming across as a pessimistic religion is that the teachings of the Buddha are being taught incorrectly. The core message of the Buddha is about transcendence of pain. That surely is an optimistic message.
Depression is not a medical issue. Breaking your arm is a medical issue. Depression is simply the gross manifestation of ignorance (which every human being on earth has), and this is how it works:
1) Mental contact occurs.
2) Unpleasant feeling arises.
3) Craving (dislike) of feeling arises.
4) Clinging to doctrine of self, and/ or clinging to views (opinions, theories, concepts) arise.
The truth is that this is happening all the time, for every human being on the planet, the different kind of feelings, different kind of craving, and different kind of clinging (there are also clinging to sensuality (sex), and clinging to rites and rituals (which is happening in a lot of "Buddhist" traditions in the world today).
The only difference between most people, and people who are depressed is that most people don't get caught up on the same small thing, over, and over, and turn it into such a HUGE deal. However, a person who suffers from "depression," will take the same small thing every day, and blow it way out of proportion, and make a really big hindrance out of it. Then they carry that hindrance around with them every where they go, and with everything they do, and that's why it has so many effects on the life of a person with this condition.
And at that point they can do 1 of 3 things.
1) They can continue to become upset about the same thing over and over again, which they do most of the time. This is feeding the process.
2) They can become upset about the fact that their mind is continuously reacting to it, and try to suppress it, which they probably do most of the time. This would be fighting the process.
Both of the first two options involve clinging to the reaction (craving and clinging), because in order to feed that anger with thoughts, you have to say "this is MY anger," and ... all the thoughts arise. And in order to try and push the anger down, and say "WHY am "I" angry!!?!?!" You have to see that anger as yourself.
3) Last, but certainly not least, you can OPEN UP to the entire experience. No matter what happens you can simply let it go, and say THAT'S OK!!! Has an unpleasant feeling arose?? "OK, that's cool!!" Has my mind started to react to this feeling?? "OK, that's cool!!" Why?? Because when you do that you let go of that big attachment to the concept of "I AM THIS." And when you let go of that, the depression stops arising. Why? Because it has no more fuel. The cause of the depression was the identification with it. Now that the identification is gone, the depression will no longer arise.
For those who wish to insist that mental issues are not medical, I would further suggest that such advice in this day and age, is both dangerous and misguided.
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