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We are all aware of the precepts for the lay follower, and they are there to guide who ever may choose to follow them for a reason. I was sat not doing a whole lot earlier contemlating a few things, and something sprung to mind that I want to put out there in newbuddhist.
Before I start I am by no means saying that any violation of the precepts is just or that I live my life breaking them daily. I first came to think about the act of lying, a verbal violation. If one tells a lie to a person, that is going against a precept. Now, of course it depends on the lie and many variables, but even if the lie was not found out, how exactly does it have a negative effect on you as a person? I considered that it may mentally chip away at you, but some people have the ability to lie as if they were breathing.
Then I thought about the act of sexual misconduct. If someone were to have sex with a person outside of their relationship, it would cause suffering if they were found out to your partner, subsequently yourself and maybe others, but if it were to be found out, how would that have a negative effect on you as a person? With all of these violation situations they are mental because that is where the violation remains. If you are a person who has little or no care, I can only see it having a negative effect in the form of karma.
Would anybody care to add anything, their opinion or help me out here?
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As buddhists, we care.
That's why we practice.
Let's take lies. When you lie to someone, you have to justify why you are doing it in your mind. There is the rare time when the lie is spoken from compassion, but mostly it's because you're trying to hide something you did, or take advantage of someone, or any of a number of selfish reasons. You are only reinforcing the selfish desires that cause your own suffering.
So you might "get away with it" when you act selfishly, but you're only continuing to feed your Dukkha.
This puts it well I think.
Unlike the theory of linear causality — which led the Vedists and Jains to see the relationship between an act and its result as predictable and tit-for-tat — the principle of this/that conditionality makes that relationship inherently complex. The results of kamma experienced at any one point in time come not only from past kamma, but also from present kamma. This means that, although there are general patterns relating habitual acts to corresponding results [§9], there is no set one-for-one, tit-for-tat, relationship between a particular action and its results. Instead, the results are determined by the context of the act, both in terms of actions that preceded or followed it [§11] and in terms one's state of mind at the time of acting or experiencing the result [§13]. As we noted in the Introduction, the feedback loops inherent in this/that conditionality mean that the working out of any particular cause-effect relationship can be very complex indeed. This explains why the Buddha says in §12 that the results of kamma are imponderable. Only a person who has developed the mental range of a Buddha — another imponderable itself — would be able to trace the intricacies of the kammic network. The basic premise of kamma is simple — that skillful intentions lead to favorable results, and unskillful ones to unfavorable results — but the process by which those results work themselves out is so intricate that it cannot be fully mapped.
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/thanissaro/wings/part1.html#part1-b
Keeping the Precepts is sort of like that. Do I ever lie? Yes. Pretty rarely, but there are times I justify it. But, before I do, I really do think about it very carefully...I try to be mindful of what I am about to do, and the reasons behind it...and then sometimes I decide, yes this is one time to lie or adjust the truth...other times I decide, no, this isn't worth it.
You've got to keep those spiritual muscles toned as much as possible.
I chose to address the question, not make assumptions or tangential presumptions....therefore, I was addressing the OP's post.
anything else would be off-topic.
When you have an affair, you worry you're going to get caught having one. You're worried about your mobile phone being checked and you've forgotten to delete 'evidence', or phone records, you're worried about smelling of perfume, you're worried about a lipstick mark, you're worried about having someone else's hair on your clothes, you're worried about your alibis for 'time' getting found out to be wrong, you're worried about STDs, you're worried about emotional attachment that you may not want, you're worried about the consequences of getting found out too.
And because you're worried about 'this', it will have an effect on 'that'; it will affect other areas of your life, for example your concentration at work, or your mood, and your personal relationships in general.
I've never been found out, but I have learnt there are consequences to sexual misconduct, whether you're caught or not, the hard way.
And the Buddha does not.
Example of Kamma in action. You lie, feel bad about lying, more likely to trip.
Example 2: you drink alcohol, hung over the next day. Cause and Effect.
Example 3: You don't study for an exam, you fail.
Example 4: you insult someone -> they may beat up or spread bad news about you
I do not know who said it, but I once read that it is wise to learn from your own mistakes, but wiser to learn from other people's mistakes as well.
I posted this topic because I am starting to investigate the mind more in the sense of how it operates and is effected by actions or arising factors. Seeing as everything is within the mind and that is where cultivation happens, I consider it a good place to begin investgating :P