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What if I dont believe in Rebirth?
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This forum gets OP's on this topic every few months, when newbies join. The spirit on the forum has always been flexible and welcoming toward those who don't accept rebirth, no matter the opinion of a few individual members who disagree. It's in keeping with the Buddha's teachings to test the teachings, so it's ok to reject rebirth until experience or meditation or some other eventuality might motivate someone to change their position.
However, again I state that there are respected Dharma leaders who maintain an agnostic attitude toward rebirth, and like it or not, they're part of the Dharma community, they're here to stay. Funny how some people say there's no dogma in Buddhism, and yet people who don't accept rebirth right off the bat are made to feel unwelcome.
Those who would reject a new member for not believing in rebirth can discuss it with Brian or Lincoln. This forum was created for newbies (see Brian's statement in the "NewBuddhist" category), so as long as they're here in the spirit of respectful engagement and genuine inquiry, they're welcome, and they're NewBuddhists. Capiche?
Kalama Sutta was addressed to a group of unbelievers and it is not always that Buddha talks 'both ways'. In fact I think that was the only case.
@Dakini its about making sure people aren't coming in already predisposed to rejecting something that is basically the reason for Buddha seeking Liberation, Wrong views are not fine they are damaging to Dharma practice if people come in with an open mind they will discover that Rebirth also has resembling mind states as well. Buddhism being a religion of the mind you eventually discover that this human life is simply an appearance to mind as well, if you have trouble accepting Buddha's teachings you put them on the self and make an effort to understand them however out of hand rejecting them as some do will result in little to no results from their practice.
Second, even if someone rejects rebirth, what gives someone the right to say they are not Buddhist? As I explained before the term "Buddhist" doesn't say a lot anyway. If it says anything, it is someone who on the path. And for being on the path it doesn't matter what points of view you start out with about life after death. A big part of our suffering can be seen and dealt with right here in this life.
I think everybody who benefits from the Buddha's teaching is of course welcome on this board and also welcome to call themselves a Buddhist, if they want to. Also, as Thich Nhat Hahn wisely said: "In Buddhism, all views are wrong views." Think about that one.
With metta,
Sabre
he's just wondering what would be his position of he can't bring himself to a point where he believes it.
And in Buddhism- he's not alone.
But I do think it is essential to be honest with ourselves. We should really figure out what it is we believe in our hearts. We shouldn’t be afraid of facing our doubts, nor of expressing them.
Practice is not about keeping things polite or about avoiding (inner or outer) confrontations.
So if someone tells us he doesn’t believe in rebirth that’s a good thing.
Honest doubts are better than fake convictions.
I think there may be a challenge in introducing this to Western practioners.
AFAIK, the dalai lama even encourages people to stick to their own religion while they research Buddhist teaching. I find that very refreshing.
Those who expect full acceptance from the start need to understand that you *cannot make* someone believe -- it's a process, obviously.
For all the supposed tolerance in Buddhism, the number of traditionalists and dogmatic thinkers is astounding, from what I can tell, and sadly, he attitude of "I'm right and you're wrong" seems to be as common as in other belief systems.
All I can say is the farther along the path the less important that the belief in literal Rebirth is to me.
Beliefs are based on past conditioning and future projections. To live in harmony with the present moment requires acceptance and detachment. It does not require beliefs.
The present has no past to project as a future, so there is no expectation. Whatever appears is always new, surprising, obvious, and exactly what is needed. Inter-dependently originated, without dualistic separation. This is the reality of what is. Beliefs just detract from what reality is. Without projecting a future, what happens to attachment?
There is wisdom in not needing to know and not having to project. In other words beliefs are optional.
Best Wishes
I'd like to think that rebirth is a very advanced thing to understand and it is unnecessary to understand it for a buddhist to lead a good and happy life. So I think it's ok that you don't believe. There are plenty of other Buddhist teachings that can be easily tested and will be very beneficial for you.
its weird now im 26 and I cant drink alcohol (im allergic to it)
hope this helps.
now i am not asserting my explanation is the only explanation but i am refuting, without any doubt, your claim about what the quote "obviously" talks about :rolleyes:
the reality of karmic result in your sutta quote is always true. but when & where it happens is your personal interpretation of words ['body' and 'death'] that can have two meanings
http://newbuddhist.com/discussion/14880/are-nihilism-the-sphere-of-nothingness-different-or-the-same#Item_24
please note the words 'para loka' means 'other worlds' rather than 'next world'. that said, although MN 60 includes the stock phrase, MN 60 only makes claims to the actuality of 'other worlds' (hell, heaven, hungry ghost, animal, etc), karma and causality
all the best
This interpretation of dependent origination isn't consistent with the way the nidanas are actually described in the suttas. See MN9 and SN12.2 for example.
Karma is just causation... The way things go. If I step into a busy street and get hit by a car, it isn't my karma from a past life catching up with me, it's my karma from not being mindful right now.
From my view, even if the certain individuals do not reincarnate, since there is no true seperation we would all kind of be reincarnations of the entire universe.
This isn't something I got from the Dharma, it is just something I've thought about... It may even mix Hinduism in there, kinda, sorta... However, if I had to dictate the way of reincarnation, I would have the whole split into all aspects and then have each of those aspects reincarnate until all aspects become awakened to our true nature through different "lifetimes".
Ok, now I'm just killing time before I have to go. I'm actually kind of excited to be here.
Thanks guys.
There are many similar descriptions of how karma works in the suttas.
Here is one from the Samannaphala Sutta:
Recollection of Past Lives
"With his mind thus concentrated, purified, and bright, unblemished, free from defects, pliant, malleable, steady, and attained to imperturbability, he directs and inclines it to knowledge of the recollection of past lives (lit: previous homes). He recollects his manifold past lives, i.e., one birth, two births, three births, four, five, ten, twenty, thirty, forty, fifty, one hundred, one thousand, one hundred thousand, many aeons of cosmic contraction, many aeons of cosmic expansion, many aeons of cosmic contraction and expansion, [recollecting], 'There I had such a name, belonged to such a clan, had such an appearance......Passing away from that state, I re-arose here.'
Thus he recollects his manifold past lives in their modes and details. Just as if a man were to go from his home village to another village, and then from that village to yet another village, and then from that village back to his home village. The thought would occur to him, 'I went from my home village to that village over there. There I stood in such a way, sat in such a way, talked in such a way, and remained silent in such a way. From that village I went to that village over there, and there I stood in such a way, sat in such a way, talked in such a way, and remained silent in such a way. "
But not believing is an inability to belief anything, simply because one does not have the right evidence or faith for it. But it doesn't reject something as being impossible, nor is it based on that.
Huge difference.
Or in the sentence: "I do not belief superman can fly.", is obviously not the same as "I reject superman can fly". The second doesn't leave any room for doubt while the first does.
So there is a continuum: disbelief.....agnostic/don't know.......belief
An agnostic is open to possible existence.
I don't believe in ghosts because I have insufficient evidence they exist. But I am open-minded about it. I can be convinced.
Same with aliens.
I personally believe in God, but have no concrete evidence of that.
So now that you are changing your POV to saying there is a continuum...well, that's different than equating disbelief and rejecting, and closer to reality.
I suspect this distinction often gets lost in debates about rebirth.
I have my own ideas about reincarnation and they don't conform exactly with any doctrine except my own if I were to bother having any faith in them.
This is why I will always be non-sectarian.
I don't think having faith in reincarnation is the same as having faith in the Dharma because to have faith in the Dharma means it makes sense and we can see it working so we trust it.
In my honest opinion, Buddha didn't want us to take his word on faith, he wanted us to have faith that we would understand the truth within us that he could only point to.