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all,
i have a discussion with my friend a few days ago, in short he said that buddhism way in getting rid of suffering is by avoiding desires, but desire is needed to make people work hard to reach their dreams(dreams/goal is part of the desire,he said).if the desire cease to exist than people wont be working hard,in other words they become lazy people.of course i dont agree with his opinion, i told him if his theory is true than countries with buddhist majority are unproductive nations, i took thailand as an example. he said thailand doesnt practice the teaching of buddhism purely,legalizing prostitution for example.so what's your opinion?thanks
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It is not about avoiding desire, it is about abandoning desire.
Desire itself plays an important part, but it is a skillful desire.
Sincerely,
Jason
Personally, I am more productive when I am practicing well and properly than when I am not. I get more done, and I am more efficient and a better manager of others as well.
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So you're saying desire and attachment are different? They're both made of the same cloth, imho.
Palzang
metta
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I think that the whole 'economic productivity' thing is about what we are prepared to do with our time. If we choose to sell it to an employer, we get money and someone else disposing of our time and attention. If, however, we prefer to exchange time for something else, 'enlightenement' or 'making art', we shall live differently. It is the real problem of an age where we are compelled, by economic necessity and resource hoarding by the wealthy, to work longer to house, feed and clothe ourselves than in, say, the Bronze Age.
When Gautama walked Northern India, more options existed for that part of the population which wanted to dispose of their time in non-money-making ways. Blending the duties of householder and Dharma practitioner today is a real challenge.
I agree
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Palzang
If your friend really thinks that the Buddhism leads to laziness, then perhaps he or she might benefit from taking the time to read the suttas. Not only will they see that the Noble Eightfold Path helps to abandon laziness and arouse energy (AN 8.80), but they will also read countless stories about the Buddha and his disciples before and after their awakenings. I can guarantee you that they were not lazy or unproductive by any means.
The Buddha himself began his quest to discover the end of suffering when he was twenty nine years old. That in itself was his dream. He relentlessly studied and practiced until he finally attained release at the age of thirty five. After that, he spent the next forty years traveling across what is now Nepal and India (barefoot mind you) in order to teach this discovery to the world. That certainly does not sound like a lazy person to me.
Best wishes,
Jason
and ummm i think that theory is about as gd.. as my friend aaron the super christians amazing theory
of GOD GIVES THE BEST CHRISTIAN NATIONS WEALTH and non christians shite.. look at africa.. clearly bad christans.. .america clearly the best christians of all..
russia.. clearly bad christians .. they followed orthodox.. this prooves its wrong cus they're poor
need i continue?
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what?
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Palzang
My father is a retired cattle rancher and other than going to church for an hour on Sunday he would think sitting in meditation was a waste of time and being very lazy.
I've never thought about this before...........If ppl are like my father......he was a workaholic, they might see Buddhism as being lazy if they knew some one that meditated for a very long period of time. In my fathers case 1/2 to an hour would be considered lazy..........
Check out page 17 (the last page at the moment) of Samahita's thread "Daily Dhamma Drops" and you'll have everything you need to counter your friend's argument.
Nice to see you, by the way. It's been a little while. I hope everything is going well in your life and that you are in good health.
Your friend,
Brigid
When Britain ruled a great empire, that was taken as showing that God favoured the British. Now that the USA is wealthy and powerful, the same applies. The syllogism seems self-evident:
- God shows favour by giving wealth and power;
- This or that nation have or have not got wealth and power;
- The nation's favour with God is determined by GNP.
It is obvious, when put like that, that it is cr*p! If it were the case, the God in question certainly moves favour about a bit over the years.different ppl.. its more ur life.. and whats happened during it.. these theories are usually founded or thought up by ppl with too much time.. and absolutely no knowledge of how economics work.. and no knowledge of any countries previous history..
I've not had much ambition for long time.. and it takes a girl to do that for me.. or something to fight for.. this has little to do with religious stuff.. its more to do with lack of motivation. and personal issues..
to me everyone simply is as they are.. there no underlying magic chimpanzee with a billboard attached to him saying Buddhist winding ur cogs... (sorry dave ur a buddhist.. you don't have enough cogs for me to wind up your motivation, you'll have to be lazy)
thank you for your opinions, i think i dont want to discuss this anymore with my friend,unless he asks for it.i think it's useless to try to change his view,i know he is very adamant about everything.and yes he only studies buddhism a bit here and a bit there,just like the blinds who touch the elephant. i just told him maybe buddhism is not suitable for him.
brigid and all, nice to see you too.actually i always drop by in spirit,i mean not logged in.