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Fast food workers are people too.

Hello friends,

I have seen around me, especially recently, of various examples of people "taking it out" on people who other people view as "in a lesser occupation or social strata".
For example, I work as a construction electrician. One of the things I see constantly is coworkers abusing apprentices and other trades people, especially minorities and laborers. It's not just enough for us, meaning Buddhists as a community, to not only not fall to such a level, but to stick up for these people.
I see people verbally abusing fast food workers, grocery store clerks, walmart greeters, janitors, blah blah. Don't fall to that level.

Peace,

Levi

Comments

  • edited February 2010
    Here Here!!! I hate it when people yell at waiters. I was at an ihop the other day and a customer screamed at the waiteress because his food was too hot. Appearantly he told her to chill something and when she didn't he thought he had the right to treat her like dirt. She was crying and really upset.

    When we finished breakfast my mother went over to the manager and told him that the waitress was ours as well and that we thought she was great.

    I wish I knew what happened to her.
  • Quiet_witnessQuiet_witness Veteran
    edited February 2010
    Very true, it takes courage to stand up for what is right. You never know why someone does the job they are doing. A year ago I was really bored (I broke my back and could not do the sports and hobbies I love) so I took a second job as a Valet driver one day a week. People treated me like I was the dumbest person on the planet and reitereated all instructions two to three times for a remedial task of taking care of their car. What is funny is I probably made more money and had more education than most of the people's car I was parking. You never know who someone is right off the bat so look for the best in all people.
  • edited February 2010
    I was at an ihop the other day...

    I wish I knew what happened to her.

    YOU HAVE AN IHOP WHERE YOU LIVE :eek:

    I live in England and have heard many great things about the legendary International House Of Pancakes

    Sorry to get off topic, i agree with the OP wholeheartedly, its an unfortunate all to common aspect of human nature to abuse power and to look down on those "below" us.

    With metta, Jack
  • edited February 2010
    I see this from both sides..I completely agree that everyone deserves courtesy; what they do for a living has nothing to do with that.

    However, I work as an engineer at a facility that has line workers and tech's, and see a fair amount of unnecessary backbiting. Up and down a corporate chain-of-command, there seems to be a need to "be mad at the Man!". Line workers are convinced that managers and engineers do nothing (or do nothing right), and managers and engineers think the workers are lazy and unaccountable.

    I try to stay out of it. :p
  • edited February 2010
    Why cant we just hurry it up with the personal monkey butlers?
  • Quiet_witnessQuiet_witness Veteran
    edited February 2010
    Good point Ray, I see that all the time. To be honest though, I hear the same things too. I manage physicians and the nurses always complain that they do all the work, the CNAs make the same complaint about the nurses, and the doctors complain that administration are money hungry yada yada yada.

    My job is to manage this mess so I don't have the pleasure of staying out of it.
  • AllbuddhaBoundAllbuddhaBound Veteran
    edited February 2010
    It reminds me of a time when I worked in security part time as I was making my way through school. I was assigned a job at a school board building and a journalism student was covering a council meeting. He must have been bored or something, so he spent some time baiting me over my need for power and control since I had that job.

    First, he started questioning me if I thought I should have a gun in a job like that. LOL He was talking about the dangers of the job and how important it would be to be protected. This was in a school board council meeting in the afternoon years and years ago with none of the present dangers that have surfaced.

    I told him if I had to carry a gun, I wouldn't want this job. That seemed to disappoint him a lot. Ego is a funny thing.
  • edited February 2010
    Many people have an aversion to authority. I've mentioned it on here before, but I'm an Admin at a car forum, where the casual poster is a lot younger and much more brash than the folks here. I wind up being the "bad guy" as I enforce the forum rules, (which I didn't make!), and I get a lot of accusations and insults thrown my way. After a lot of time and mistakes, I've gotten pretty good at "smiling them down". They're still mad, but they give up if they find that they can't phase me.
  • edited February 2010
    Many people have an aversion to authority.

    As so they should! Authority is not a good thing, we are just conditioned to accept it:)
  • edited February 2010
    That's why this world we live in is called the Saha world. If everyone was a practicing buddhist we wouldn't have these problems. What we need to do is figure out how to show everyone else that is attached to all sorts of things that that really isn't the way to go.
  • edited February 2010
    MatSalted wrote: »
    As so they should! Authority is not a good thing, we are just conditioned to accept it:)

    Oh sure, by no means should people just automatically accept someone as an authority figure on face value.

    The car forum thing is a bit different..when they sign up for it, part of the process is that they agree to abide by a set of rules designed to create a pleasant forum environment. It's a private forum owned by an individual; he can make whatever rules he likes. People who would reject the authority of a moderator/admin to enforce those rules are free to either not sign up, or not participate. They're free to petition the owner to change the rules, too, but he's been pretty consistent over the last 9 years. :rolleyes:
  • RenGalskapRenGalskap Veteran
    edited February 2010
    I've mentioned it on here before, but I'm an Admin at a car forum, where the casual poster is a lot younger and much more brash than the folks here. I wind up being the "bad guy" as I enforce the forum rules, (which I didn't make!), and I get a lot of accusations and insults thrown my way.
    My experience is that happens regardless of age. Being a moderator is excellent training for a Buddhist. :-)
  • edited February 2010
    RenGalskap wrote: »
    My experience is that happens regardless of age. Being a moderator is excellent training for a Buddhist. :-)

    I completely agree...along with being a parent. I guess it's all a part of my path. :D
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited February 2010
    Have you noticed how the two (possibly) toughest jobs in the world (being a parent, and being a Moderator :p) are both unpaid? :rolleyes: :D

    See... we do it for the love of it.
    we do it because it teaches us about people, what makes them tick, and how it can ultimately make us better people, in our position.

    We make decisions with the best tools we have at the time, and hope we've done the right thing.

    Indubitably, we get it wrong sometimes.
    indubitably, we lose the plot on occasions, say the wrong thing, and carry out a wrong action.
    But hopefully, in the general run of things, we don't do any lasting irreparable damage.

    We're responsible. we have to take the lead because others depend on us, to do that.
    We don't do it to be popular, we do it because it's what we do.
    But if we can act out of Kindness and compassion, and remember that our end-game is to try at least to keep things stable and on an even keel, sometimes, when life comes up trumps, the rewards for a job well done, are priceless.

    The bottom line is simple:
    Do as you would be done by.

    Then, the responses you will receive can only be positive. If they aren't, they still can't get to you.
    because in matters of principle, you haven't shifted.
    And it's all worth the Effort, in the end.
  • edited February 2010
    Jackus wrote: »
    YOU HAVE AN IHOP WHERE YOU LIVE :eek:

    I live in England and have heard many great things about the legendary International House Of Pancakes

    I have been 'over the pond' several times and YES, the rumors are true!!!
    Blueberry Pancakes........:thumbsup:

    Anyhoo, I have never understood people who abuse the workers in fast food places, after all they handle your FOOD! :zombie:
  • edited February 2010
    federica wrote: »
    Have you noticed how the two (possibly) toughest jobs in the world (being a parent, and being a Moderator :p) are both unpaid? :rolleyes: :D

    I have noticed that!!
  • edited February 2010
    I have been 'over the pond' several times and YES, the rumors are true!!!
    Blueberry Pancakes........:thumbsup:

    NOOOOOOOO! Jovial Prankster you have only added to my greed and longing! If i never reach Nibbana now i'll now why... :p
  • BrigidBrigid Veteran
    edited February 2010
    Erik wrote: »
    That's why this world we live in is called the Saha world. If everyone was a practicing buddhist we wouldn't have these problems. What we need to do is figure out how to show everyone else that is attached to all sorts of things that that really isn't the way to go.
    I must disagree somewhat with this. I think we need to work on ourselves and leave others to their own work.
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