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So I heard something about Zen Buddism, and was wondering: What is the difference between Zen and regular? (if there is one)
The thing I heard was something to do with being able to uptain nervina in this life, and not being/beliving in reincarnation, do you know if thats true?
(I have so many questions..
But thats ok!)
A couple more things!
Are people, if buddists, able to get married?
And what are the looks on gays in buddhism? Like is it wrong? I really have no idea why I ask, its just some relgions think its completly wrong, some don't care, don't don't have rules on sexual relationships and some thing that sex is wrong except for reproducting. (thats how buddism is right? That what I read)
I'm a very question full girl...
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As for homosexuality, this is again, up to the individual.....you examine the 8Fold path, which outlines different aspects of Life and how you approach them (Right View, Right Intention, Right Speech, etc....) and furthermore, the third of the five precepts advises refraining from sexual misconduct.... But it would largely depend on you what you would interpret that to be.... and you'd perhaps determine that by examining the 8Fold path....
Buddhism is not a religion. It is a set of instructions on how to achieve perfection.
Therefore, there is no moral authority saying this-and-that are right or wrong. That is not for any person to decide but yourself. By virtue of having to make that choice in every moment of your life, you are becoming closer to your buddha-nature. Therefore, if the choice is taken away from you, and you are told "do this, don't do that" then how can you become perfect? Someone else has told you what to do!
You are responsible for your own actions and the consequences that they bring.
Whoever told you, or wherever you read, that buddhists believe that sex is "wrong" unless for reproduction, is ignorant and incorrect.
Homosexuality, sexual intercourse, marriage, what to eat for breakfast, what movie you watched, what music you are about to put in your CD player - these are meaningless conventions that are dictated by an infinite variety of variables. They have really nothing to do with your search for the end of suffering, do they?
Buddhism is a guide. Buddha says, "you want to become perfect? you must let go of everything - all attachments" for attachment to things that are ultimately impermenant is what causes us to remain heavily burdened with all this suffering!
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To Pick up on Elohim's post.... what do you "Perceive" to be 'regular'?
There are many different schools of Buddhism; But I heard them described more as different ingredients to a cake than different utensils in a kitchen.... The Buddha is at the Heart of every Buddhist Train of Thought. The Foundation to Buddhsim was - and I'm open to correction, please - the Four Noble Truths, followed by careful attention to the Eightfold Path. This is the 'regular' Buddhism... everything that follows will be like looking at a sparkling diamond through the different facets... colours, shine, clarity, brilliance - but always pure, no matter the angle....
Homosexuality is a big YES. Why try to kill yourself with that naughty gene of yours which shouts for same-sex sexuality when Buddhism stresses on Middle Way. If you force yourself to be a heterosexual you are simply hurting the other sex. If you try to curb all sexuality that's even worse. You hurt yourself.
Marriage is an anything. The main reason why some schools of Buddhism ban marriage in their sanghas is because of the need of celibacy and less attachments. But I think that well, if you can resist the urge for attachment, go ahead. No one tells you you can't mate like a rabbit and have 400 children but still survive a week without sex.
I don't think there is any "regular" Buddhism. Instead, there are many different paths up the same mountain. Each takes a slightly different approach and covers different terrain up the mountain. Each form of Buddhism has a different emphasis and a different focus on different practices, but the goal seems to be the same. And, I think in the last 10 to 20 years there has been a lot more connecting of different paths. This has particularly happened in the west because people there are exploring different traditions and bringing together methods that traditionally had never been practiced together. This connecting is also happening between Buddhism and other religions, such as Christianity, Judaism and Islam.
Zen puts a lot of emphasis on meditation. There is study, but probably less than in some other forms of Buddhism. The approach in Zen is much more focused on directly meeting experience and the moment. Also, Zen meditation is different in that you meditate with your eyes open and you don't meditate on anything in particular. You just sit and face your mind. This is what the original Buddha did, so Zen believes. Zen isn't about escaping from the world, but rather about realizing that you are one with it, that in fact you can't be other than one with it.
I hope this helps you understand.
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Hope this helps some.
-bf