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Some more questions

edited May 2010 in Buddhism Basics
So Buddhism is..Well Buddhism.

So what is Dharma and Sangha? Are these separate religions?

Or is it like different books of the bible to Christians?


Is a Buddhist ultimate goal to become a Buddha, or Buddha (enlightened) ?

What is the difference between a Buddhist and a Buddhist monk?

What is the oldest form of Buddhism?

Do Buddhist encourage a healthy sexual relationship with there spouse? or is it simply to reproduce?

Are Buddhist monks allow to marry?

If you are already married but wanted to go from a Buddhist to a Buddhist monk, can you? or would you have to leave your wife?

Do Buddhists believe in divorce?


To become a Buddha or reach the stage of Buddha do you have to be a Buddhist monk?


And If anyone can reach the stage of Buddha and be called a Buddha, then which one of these enlightened ones are people talking about when they say "This is what Buddha would say"

Comments

  • edited May 2010
    I suggest you start with the book Joyful Wisdom by Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche.
  • FoibleFullFoibleFull Canada Veteran
    edited May 2010
    So what is Dharma and Sangha? Are these separate religions?
    Dharma is the body of teachings (the Truth).
    Sangha refers to those who practice Buddhism (on one level it is those who have attained enlightenment, on another level it is those you meet with to practice and learn from)

    Or is it like different books of the bible to Christians?
    No


    Is a Buddhist ultimate goal to become a Buddha, or Buddha (enlightened)?
    Yes. To become an awakened one.

    What is the difference between a Buddhist and a Buddhist monk?
    A Buddhist is anyone who practices Buddhism.
    The monk (or nun) has taken a set of vows which follow the rules for practice and living (what to do, what not to do).

    What is the oldest form of Buddhism?
    Not Tibetan Buddhism (which is what I follow).

    Do Buddhist encourage a healthy sexual relationship with there spouse? or is it simply to reproduce?
    Buddhists don't think like Christians. Sex is not a problem, as long as you are not hurting other people in any way with it, and as long as you are not a monk or nun (sex would be breaking their vows).

    Are Buddhist monks allow to marry?
    No. If they want to marry, they won't become monks. If they want to become monks, they won't marry.

    If you are already married but wanted to go from a Buddhist to a Buddhist monk, can you? or would you have to leave your wife?
    I don't see how you could take the vows if you were married.

    Do Buddhists believe in divorce?
    Buddhism does not tell you how to live ... unless you want to be a monk or nun. For the rest of us, it only suggests what might be useful (or not) in helping you achieve enlightenment.

    To become a Buddha or reach the stage of Buddha do you have to be a Buddhist monk?
    No.

    And If anyone can reach the stage of Buddha and be called a Buddha, then which one of these enlightened ones are people talking about when they say "This is what Buddha would say".
    Exactly so ... "Buddha" refers to a state-of-being. THE Buddha you are thinking of was a prince named Siddhartha Gautama who became a Buddha, and whose advice we follow so that we may become a Buddha also.
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited May 2010
    mikaakim wrote: »
    So what is Dharma and Sangha? Are these separate religions?
    Dharma is the truth; the laws of nature; such as the law of karma (action & result); the Four Noble Truth about suffering & its causes; impermanence; etc.

    Sangha is the community of the Buddha's enlightened disciples.

    So the Buddha discovered & taught the Dhamma to those who are or became the Sangha.
    Is a Buddhist ultimate goal to become a Buddha, or Buddha (enlightened)?
    Ideally, yes. But this depends on the choice of individuals.
    Do Buddhist encourage a healthy sexual relationship with there spouse? or is it simply to reproduce?
    Healthy sexual relationship. See the Samajivina Sutta.
    Are Buddhist monks allow to marry?
    Definitely not.
    If you are already married but wanted to go from a Buddhist to a Buddhist monk, can you? or would you have to leave your wife?
    Yes.
    Do Buddhists believe in divorce?
    There are no written rules because the Buddha understood the human condition. The Buddha said there were both suitable & unsuitable partners. But his teachings encourage non-divorce however this can only be acheived by developing virtue. See the Samajivina Sutta. The Buddha taught if both or one partner/s do not abide by the five precepts, their marriage will be problematic (AN 4.53).
    To become a Buddha or reach the stage of Buddha do you have to be a Buddhist monk?
    Not in form but in mode of living, generally, yes.

    :smilec:
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited May 2010
    mikaakim wrote: »
    And If anyone can reach the stage of Buddha and be called a Buddha, then which one of these enlightened ones are people talking about when they say "This is what Buddha would say"
    A genuine Buddha would agree with what the original Buddha had to say about things. This is standard in the scriptures, as follows:
    Past Buddhas,
    future Buddhas,
    & he who is the Buddha now,
    removing the sorrow of many —
    all have dwelt, will dwell, he dwells,
    revering the true Dhamma.
    This, for Buddhas, is a natural law.

    Therefore one who desires his own good,
    aspiring for greatness,
    should respect the true Dhamma,
    recollecting the Buddhas' Teaching.

    Garava Sutta
    When this was said, the Blessed One said to him, "Dhammadinna the nun is wise, Visakha, a woman of great discernment. If you had asked me those things, I would have answered you in the same way she did."

    Culavedalla Sutta

    :smilec:
  • thickpaperthickpaper Veteran
    edited May 2010
    mikaakim wrote: »
    So Buddhism is..Well Buddhism.

    So what is Dharma and Sangha? Are these separate religions?

    Buddhism is a practice. culture and doctrine that tries to follow and speread Dharma. Sanga is the people who do this, as community in some loose or formal sense.
    What is the oldest form of Buddhism?

    We just don't know. At best we have the schools that started centuries after the time of the buddha.
    Do Buddhist encourage a healthy sexual relationship with there spouse?

    I dont know about all buddhists but Dharma certainly does:)
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