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Karma defense against knife attack

On a visit to London, while you are walking you get lost and find yourself walking through an unknown suberb.

Unknown to you, the area that you are about to enter is a very rough no go area known for violent crimes commited by young unemployed territory obsessed drug dealers. People who glorify and enjoy violence and distruction.

As you walk around a corner, a couple of hooded youths slip behind you and pull knives out, ready to stab you for coming into their territory.

No talking to them will calm them or change their mind as to what cause of action to take. They are going to stab you in the back and leave you to bleed to death with out a second thought.

What do you do.
Embrace your Karma?
Meditate?
Prey to Buddha to forgive them?
Ignore them, and hope they will disappear?

Will your spiritual beliefs protect you from the knives?
Are you a bulletproof monk?
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  • thickpaperthickpaper Veteran
    edited October 2010
    Be humble and hopeful and then run?
  • edited October 2010
    Dont walk through an unknown suburb rule 1. But if you do leg it as fast as you can and hope they loose interest.
  • edited October 2010
    Meditate instead of creating imaginary scenarios in your mind !

    It might never happen.:buck:




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  • edited October 2010
    Thank you to everyone for the advice.

    The imaginary scenario was created in order to get people to realize that some places in Samsara are dangerous and in some circumstances meditating and being nice will not be enough to save your life (thus losing out on your opportunity of enlightenment)

    However, being practical is.
  • seeker242seeker242 Zen Florida, USA Veteran
    edited October 2010
    Will your spiritual beliefs protect you from the knives?

    Yes, because your spiritual beliefs will tell you to run away. (unless you happen to know kung fu) :)
    in some circumstances meditating and being nice will not be enough to save your life
    However, being practical is.

    Why do you separate them into 2 different things?
  • edited October 2010
    Well, they are not always separate, however, for some they are.
    Spiritual people can sometimes wear "rose tinted" spectacles, and hold the belief that because they live a faultless life, no harm can come to them.
    This is foolish thinking, in my opinion, and people need to be conscious how dangerous Samsara is so that they can take precautions.
    I am trying to help people protect themselves by getting them to be aware that there are people in this life that are intentionally bad who can and will hurt them if they get the opportunity.
  • edited October 2010
    Spiritual people can sometimes wear "rose tinted" spectacles, and hold the belief that because they live a faultless life, no harm can come to them.

    I don't care how spiritual I may become I don't think I will ever regard it as wise to go around kissing cobras.
  • ZaylZayl Veteran
    edited October 2010
    Well, I'd try to talk them out of it. failing that, I'd book it towards the nearest safe place possible. However if they pursued me (and I am a horrible runner, always have been) They'd probably catch up to me. If that happened, I'd grab the biggest heaviest blunt object within reach and defend myself as needed.

    I'm a pacifist, sure. But I'll still defend myself and others if the situation arises, but I always do whatever I can to avoid such a situation. And if it cannot be avoided, and no one else is as risk other than myself then I just try to remove myself from said situation if possible.
  • ChrysalidChrysalid Veteran
    edited October 2010
    Zayl wrote: »
    Well, I'd try to talk them out of it. failing that, I'd book it towards the nearest safe place possible. However if they pursued me (and I am a horrible runner, always have been) They'd probably catch up to me. If that happened, I'd grab the biggest heaviest blunt object within reach and defend myself as needed.
    I used to live in a rough area when I was at uni, so I learned a few things. Something that is counter-intuitive is that, much like with dogs or bears, if you run you're not only going to send the hoody into hunt mode, but you're going to attract the attention of others which results in a whole pack of them chasing you. Running is the last thing you want to do.
    In reality, even though they are mentally disfigured with hatred and violence, they're still human. If you don't act scared, but also don't act tough, apologise for being in their "hood" and explain you're lost, then they'll more than likely just mug you and let you leave.
  • edited October 2010
    In my part of the world, the advice of the police is: stay calm, listen to the criminals, and just do what they tell you to do. In most instances, the criminals carry firearms, sometimes, even the deadly armour-piercing AK47 rifles. So, it might be risky to run, try out your martial arts, try to reason with them, or try to ignore them, like staying silent if they ask you something. But, if you heed the advice of the police, at least you have some chance of coming out alive from the ordeal.

    I really don't know what I'll do if I'm in London and confronted by some knife-wielding thugs.
  • edited October 2010
    Personally, MY karmic defense is not making the decision to enter such an area in the first place. If my karma is "good", I will conciously or not choose another way to get where I wish to go.
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited October 2010
    On a visit to London, while you are walking you get lost and find yourself walking through an unknown suberb. Unknown to you, the area that you are about to enter is a very rough no go area known for violent crimes commited by young unemployed territory obsessed drug dealers. People who glorify and enjoy violence and distruction.

    I lived in London for 27 years, and this has never happened to me, either in daylight or after dark either in the city or the suburbs...
    London is actually quite a safe place.
    Where in London would you think this would happen?
    Do you live near somewhere with a dangerous, violent and sinister reputation?
    I'd move if I were you, and pre-empt any possible such scenario....


    As you walk around a corner, a couple of hooded youths slip behind you and pull knives out, ready to stab you for coming into their territory.
    Boy, you sure do mix with some nice neighbours!
    No talking to them will calm them or change their mind as to what cause of action to take. They are going to stab you in the back and leave you to bleed to death with out a second thought.
    Ok, so it's curtains....
    What do you do.
    Embrace your Karma?
    I have a choice....?
    First of all, I'd turn on them and begin yelling at the top of my voice, and advance on them angrily. That always unnerves them. They don't expect this....
    Meditate?
    When are you not meditating? :winkc:
    Prey to Buddha to forgive them?

    Why would I pray to Buddha to forgive them?
    Buddha isn't god, and he's dead, so i don't think praying to buddha to forgive them is a logical option.
    Better to pray you can forgive them...
    Ignore them, and hope they will disappear?
    yeah, that's likely to happen. Who am I, Derren Brown?
    Will your spiritual beliefs protect you from the knives?
    Of course not. That's utterly ridiculous. did Gandhi's spiritual beliefs protect him from the bullet?
    Spiritual beliefs protect you from your own unskillfulness. They protect you from Straying from the Eightfold path. Your spiritual beliefs keep you in the Right frame of Mind in such situations.
    Are you a bulletproof monk?

    have you been reading my CV again.....??:D



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  • Invincible_summerInvincible_summer Heavy Metal Dhamma We(s)t coast, Canada Veteran
    edited October 2010
    Thank you to everyone for the advice.

    The imaginary scenario was created in order to get people to realize that some places in Samsara are dangerous and in some circumstances meditating and being nice will not be enough to save your life (thus losing out on your opportunity of enlightenment)

    However, being practical is.

    Thanks for the.... umm... advice?
  • edited October 2010

    No talking to them will calm them or change their mind as to what cause of action to take. They are going to stab you in the back and leave you to bleed to death with out a second thought.

    What do you do.

    Depends, are their heads shaved?
  • edited October 2010
    federica wrote: »
    I lived in London for 27 years, and this has never happened to me, either in daylight or after dark either in the city or the suburbs...
    London is actually quite a safe place.
    Where in London would you think this would happen?
    Do you live near somewhere with a dangerous, violent and sinister reputation?
    I'd move if I were you, and pre-empt any possible such scenario....

    It seems to me that London being the location of this incident is just as hypothetical as the incident itself. There's no need to respond as if de_void was attacking London or intentionally stereotyping it.

    Hypothetical questions usually require a little suspension of disbelief. Admittedly, it is highly unlikely and a bit extreme, but it does illustrate the Middle Path.
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited October 2010
    It seems to me that London being the location of this incident is just as hypothetical as the incident itself. There's no need to respond as if de_void was attacking London or intentionally stereotyping it.

    Hypothetical questions usually require a little suspension of disbelief. Admittedly, it is highly unlikely and a bit extreme, but it does illustrate the Middle Path.

    Then why mention any city at all?

    London has garnered a poor reputation for being one of the worst hot-spots for violence, and muggings and nothing could be further from the Truth. Out of 100 cities, London came fairly low on the list....
    Europe's most dangerous cities -- Milan, Athens and Rome -- still placed in the top 100, despite relatively high crime levels. London scored 100 and tied with New York for the 64th slot.

    I merely objected to the singular example. As an erstwhile inhabitant, I think I have a right to make that point.

    :)
  • edited October 2010

    What do you do.
    Embrace your Karma?
    Meditate?
    Prey to Buddha to forgive them?
    Ignore them, and hope they will disappear?

    Will your spiritual beliefs protect you from the knives?
    Are you a bulletproof monk?

    I fight.
    It has nothing to do with karma.
    I meditate when I get home after successfully defending myself.
    I pray when I get home afterwords.
    My spiritual beliefs wont protect me from knives but hopefully my self-defense skills will.
    There is nothing wrong with defending yourself.
    Just because we are Buddhists doesnt mean we have to be willing victims or doormats.
  • edited October 2010
    federica wrote: »
    I lived in London for 27 years, and this has never happened to me, either in daylight or after dark either in the city or the suburbs...
    London is actually quite a safe place.
    Where in London would you think this would happen?
    Do you live near somewhere with a dangerous, violent and sinister reputation?
    .
    The UK is now ahead of the US for violent crime, especially knife crime.
    Knifings happen regularly on a weekly basis in some area's and are often unprovoked and achieved by the use of stealth (criminal method of sneeking up on people to stab, usually in the back as easy to fight someone who doesn't know your there and can not see you).

    Croydon has had a bit of a reputation for a few years.
    I think that people are generally getting more violent as the years roll by.
    Even in Jersey Channel Islands, it is no longer unheard of to hear of a stabbing, a glassing or a serious assault when perhaps 20 years a go, this would be unheard of.

    I also lived in Liverpool for 3 years, which could be a bit dicey at times and some areas had a bad reputation too.
  • edited October 2010
    I wonder if peoples replies would be the same if the question was asked by a famous Lama, say the Dalai Lama for example.

    Not that I think I am Lama or anything.
    I think that some of members would reply differently.
    Just shows you the nature of prejudice.
  • edited October 2010
    I think that some of members would reply differently.

    In what way?
  • edited October 2010
    As with other questions on this forum, I think that some members, if being questioned by some one of authority, would not get so caught up on micro details and would answer to their best ability.

    I imagine that people wouldn't start arguing about miniscule detail, which to me looks like arguing for the sake of arguing which to some extent takes away from the essence of the activity.

    No offense towards yourself.
  • edited October 2010
    As with other questions on this forum, I think that some members, if being questioned by some one of authority, would not get so caught up on micro details and would answer to their best ability.

    There certainly wouldn't be any intentional prejudice, rudeness or nastiness as found in some other posts.

    Makes me wonder why some people even bother.
    No offense towards yourself.

    No offense taken. I was just curious.
    I agree with the rude aspect but I think a lot of people would try to give the most accurate answer with the details if its within their capacity. I know I would.
  • Invincible_summerInvincible_summer Heavy Metal Dhamma We(s)t coast, Canada Veteran
    edited October 2010
    I wonder if peoples replies would be the same if the question was asked by a famous Lama, say the Dalai Lama for example.

    Not that I think I am Lama or anything.
    I think that some of members would reply differently.
    Just shows you the nature of prejudice.

    Obvious facts are obvious, and the cynic in me will raise an eyebrow at anyone who makes any sort of absurd claim such as karma/beliefs protecting oneself from physical harm, no matter their "authority." Authority is constructed and not absolute or inherent.


    This is sort of unrelated, and I'm not saying you're doing this, but the whole thing about "spiritual beliefs giving powers" reminds me of the Falun Gong believe that if practitioners can harness qi enough, they can perform incredible energy feats. Think Dragonball Z or something. But they're not allowed to actually show anyone, or it would violate their Falun Gong ethics or something.
  • ValtielValtiel Veteran
    edited October 2010
    I wonder if peoples replies would be the same if the question was asked by a famous Lama, say the Dalai Lama for example.

    Not that I think I am Lama or anything.
    I think that some of members would reply differently.
    Just shows you the nature of prejudice.

    What's the answer you wanted to hear? Frankly I think running, defending yourself, etc. are rather good responses. A person who would sit there and let someone attack them thinking "ah well must be karma wtf can ya do" or who would pray to the Buddha instead of kicking the weapon-wielding violent attacker in the nuts is, quite flatly, a moron. :skeptical

    While some here may have outwardly responded differently had Teh Boodah asked this question, I would imagine they'd all still be WTFing inwardly.
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited October 2010
    I wonder if peoples replies would be the same if the question was asked by a famous Lama, say the Dalai Lama for example.

    I entirely doubt that the Dalai Lama would even ask such a question, frankly.
    Why would he?

    Not that I think I am Lama or anything.
    I think that some of members would reply differently.
    Just shows you the nature of prejudice.

    I don'r see why you should look upon this as prejudice.

    Could you point out where you feel prejudice has been demonstrated against you?
    One could say you are showing prejudice against London, couldn't one?

    I personally took the question and evaluated it, and gave it an answer.
    One must expect a diversity of responses according to perception.
    I think you have a good cross-selection of replies.
  • edited October 2010
    the flame of ündún will not avail you, knife-wielding thugs of london!!!!!
  • FyreShamanFyreShaman Veteran
    edited October 2010
    I occasionally teach knife defence.

    Someone skilled will conceal the weapon and stab before anyone has time to react.

    Thankfully, most attackers are not skilled.

    Once one has the skill to defend against a knife, I teach that the motivation must be to do what is best in order to cause the least harrm to both attacker and attacked.

    As a Buddhist, I do not want the bad karma of damaging someone else, nor do I want them to create bad karma through injuring or possibly killing me.
  • ZaylZayl Veteran
    edited October 2010
    Valtiel wrote: »
    What's the answer you wanted to hear? Frankly I think running, defending yourself, etc. are rather good responses. A person who would sit there and let someone attack them thinking "ah well must be karma wtf can ya do" or who would pray to the Buddha instead of kicking the weapon-wielding violent attacker in the nuts is, quite flatly, a moron. :skeptical

    While some here may have outwardly responded differently had Teh Boodah asked this question, I would imagine they'd all still be WTFing inwardly.

    If The Buddha (Siddhartha Gautama) appeared before me and asked this question I'm fairly certain I'd have 5-6 wtf moments instantaneously. Then I'd give the best answer I could and invite him to tea. I think an important thing to remember is that we willingly read these threads and then willingly respond to them. If they OP does not interest you, then there is no reason to respond. Responding in a negative manner only cause undue suffering.
  • ValtielValtiel Veteran
    edited October 2010
    If it did not interest me, I wouldn't respond.

    I am genuinely curious to hear what answer the OP thought would be appropriate to his question.
  • GuyCGuyC Veteran
    edited October 2010
    the flame of ündún will not avail you, knife-wielding thugs of london!!!!!

    :dunce: YOU SHALL NOT PASS!!! :rarr:
  • JeffreyJeffrey Veteran
    edited October 2010
    If I won initiative I would pull out my wand of color spray and then I would shoot color spray into their eyes and blind them. Then while they were blind I would summon my broom stick and fly away but first put a tracer curse on them so they can be rounded up by the Aurors.

    Seriously the Dharma doesn't say you will never come to harm. What if you are in a traffic accident or have cancer? I would remember my guru and make wishes to come to safety then run if they only have knives. And do what they say if they have guns unless they will abuse me and then maybe just charge them and die.
  • Mr_SerenityMr_Serenity Veteran
    edited October 2010
    Yeshe wrote: »
    I occasionally teach knife defence.

    Someone skilled will conceal the weapon and stab before anyone has time to react.

    Thankfully, most attackers are not skilled.

    Once one has the skill to defend against a knife, I teach that the motivation must be to do what is best in order to cause the least harrm to both attacker and attacked.

    As a Buddhist, I do not want the bad karma of damaging someone else, nor do I want them to create bad karma through injuring or possibly killing me.

    I have learned knife defense too. Some techniques come from Ninjutsu, some from Krav Maga, all very useful and efficient. But here is the problem I see with your philosophy. Self defense against a weapon isn't Buddhist philosophy. In all the attacks I learned, once you disarm your opponent you grab the knife and you use it on your attacker. What happens if you don't? They will probably continue to fight, because they don't want to be arrested, and possibly injure you more, or kill you.

    If you have to strike someone in self defense you should strike them the hardest you can, so they don't get up. That is why you should never strike someone. But if you do have to, and you hesitate, they win because they had no intention to hesitate. When someone has a knife and is going to attack you they won't hesitate to kill you. So hesitating to think about karma and safety of your opponent is something that would weaken a the potential efficiency of your defense.

    I know gang members, so it's easy for me to put myself in their state of mind. If I was robbing someone with a knife and they didn't kill me I would either take their money or kill them for resisting for sure. That is the state of mind of someone trying to rob you with a knife.
    The best defense is actually to run. But for those who can't run well, you must be more potentially fierce than your attacker, as they have the intention to rob you at all costs. You must have the intention to stop them at all costs.

    I walk alone at night, in gang filled streets, but I think they all know already that trying to rob me would get them no where lol. As I am a tough fight and I barely have any money. They tend to go after easy prey.
  • GuyCGuyC Veteran
    edited October 2010
    Perhaps the best preventative measure to confrontation that we can take on a day to day basis is the development and cultivation of Metta:
    "Monks, for one whose awareness-release through good will is cultivated, developed, pursued, handed the reins and taken as a basis, given a grounding, steadied, consolidated, and well-undertaken, eleven benefits can be expected. Which eleven?

    "One sleeps easily, wakes easily, dreams no evil dreams. One is dear to human beings, dear to non-human beings. The devas protect one. Neither fire, poison, nor weapons can touch one. One's mind gains concentration quickly. One's complexion is bright. One dies unconfused and — if penetrating no higher — is headed for the Brahma worlds.

    "These are the eleven benefits that can be expected for one whose awareness-release through good will is cultivated, developed, pursued, handed the reins and taken as a basis, given a grounding, steadied, consolidated, and well-undertaken."

    "Metta (Mettanisamsa) Sutta: Good Will" (AN 11.16), translated from the Pali by Thanissaro Bhikkhu. Access to Insight, July 4, 2010, http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an11/an11.016.than.html

    Even if you are killed at least you will "die unconfused" and be reborn in the Brahma realms.
  • Invincible_summerInvincible_summer Heavy Metal Dhamma We(s)t coast, Canada Veteran
    edited October 2010
    the flame of ündún will not avail you, knife-wielding thugs of london!!!!!

    The quote is actually "The dark fire will not avail you, flame of Udûn!"

    Gandalf is talking to the Balrog... unless you were trying to say that the Balrog will not avail knife-wielding hoodies
  • LincLinc Site owner Detroit Moderator
    edited October 2010
    I like several of the responses. My order of operations is:

    1) Don't be there in the first place
    2) Comply with demands unless you're rationally convinced they plan to maim/kill you (unlikely since they gain nothing)
    3) Run
    4) Break them

    I don't buy the notion that defending your body sacrifices enlightenment.
  • GuyCGuyC Veteran
    edited October 2010
    Is it just me, or is there a strong correlation between Lord of The Rings nerds and Dhamma practitioners?
  • ThailandTomThailandTom Veteran
    edited October 2010
    This is unlikely as if you are out of town and not somebody who belongs to a postcard gang such as 'e3' or whatever, then you will probably just get mugged or laughed at by these people. Youths who stab people in london normally know the people they are stabbing are from such and such street/area code, if not they often ask where you are from and act accordingly.

    Also, some evidence which is undeniable is the fact that 97% of these knife crimes in london are committed by african americans. I am not beign racist as I am one of the least racist people alive, it is just statistics. If you are a caucasian or of another origin and walk through a London borough you will either get mugged, laughed at or left alone. Maybe ruffed up a little but they wouldn't just stab you like that for no reason what so ever.

    Personally if I was stupid enough to get the tube and walk around the boroughs of east London and I got approached, I would tell them I am from bristol where I was brought up and then hand over my stuff pronto.

    Knife crime in London got loads of press coverage last year, the spotlight seems to have been taken away a little now. I assume it is still as bad though. These kids need some direction in life, education and stimulation is needed to take them off the streets and out of these post card gangs
  • edited October 2010
    GuyC wrote: »
    Is it just me, or is there a strong correlation between Lord of The Rings nerds and Dhamma practitioners?

    It's certainly not me. Never read the books and tried to watch one of the movies, but fell asleep about 20 minutes in. :(
  • edited October 2010

    Also, some evidence which is undeniable is the fact that 97% of these knife crimes in london are committed by african americans.

    Wouldn't they be African Europeans? If they are in the US then they are African American, but I don't think too many vacation in London so they can stab folks for pocket change :lol:
  • ThailandTomThailandTom Veteran
    edited October 2010
    yea yea yea, African European whatever. I have never actually heard any other term used for black people than African American, I assumed that was just the term and applied to all black people. Never really gave it much thought tbh. Silly me
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited October 2010
    This is stereotyping.
    I have two very good on-line buddies who live in America and are furious they keep being referred to as 'African American' when they actually hail from Trinidad.

    In fact, they aren't even first-generation Trinidadians.... they were born in America, as was their mother. They consider themselves to be 100% Americans, but just of a different colour to others, due to ancestry.
    All this "African American" rubbish is brainless. Most people with African ancestry in America have never even seen Africa, let alone come from there.

    The majority of knife crime in London is black on black, and usually it's of West-Indian making.

    The other problem is that an awful lot of young west-indian and Asian lads are torn apart by stringent tradition at home, vs liberal hyper-relaxed attitudes "on the street." They're pulled apart by two cultures, and they're neither one thing nor the other.
    They have a chip on their shoulder, and a bad "you owe me" attitude.

    It's a huge inter-gang problem, more than one which poses problems to the ordinary citizen.
  • FyreShamanFyreShaman Veteran
    edited October 2010
    If you disarm someone and then stab them with the knife you took, expect prison.
    If you claim to have martial arts skills and stab them when they are unarmed, expect to be in prison even longer.

    In my experience, a disarmed person who is not too damaged by your defence will run.
    You have their knife. Guys on PCP or otherwise feeling no pain, must be disabled, but stabbing them is never necessary. My only exception would be if attacked by more than one person.

    Kids in the UK often have this notion that carrying a knife will protect them somehow - it can end up with them being stabbed with their own knife. Some now carry meat cleavers, actually easier to defend against IMHO. Here's a gentle intro about gang kids in Manchester:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqyU2z-FJr8

    Kids with knives is a nationwide problem. The law is crazy - they'll confiscate a middle aged guy's pocket knife because it has a lock and treat him the same as a kid with a machette. They have knife amnesties with grannies handing in their kitchen knives - strangely, I'm told few gang members pop into the police station to hand in their weapons. Gangs are everywhere, even in the rural towns. I've taken sharps and also drug paraphernalia from kids in rural schools.

    Causing the least damage possible is not only good in terms of karma, but also in terms of the law. We must remember that stopping these kids from harming us is not only protecting them from bad karma, but from a long stay in jail where they are likely to meet more drugs and violence etc.
  • andyrobynandyrobyn Veteran
    edited October 2010
    federica wrote: »
    This is stereotyping.
    I have two very good on-line buddies who live in America and are furious they keep being referred to as 'African American' when they actually hail from Trinidad.

    In fact, they aren't even first-generation Trinidadians.... they were born in America, as was their mother. They consider themselves to be 100% Americans, but just of a different colour to others, due to ancestry.
    All this "African American" rubbish is brainless. Most people with African ancestry in America have never even seen Africa, let alone come from there.

    The majority of knife crime in London is black on black, and usually it's of West-Indian making.

    The other problem is that an awful lot of young west-indian and Asian lads are torn apart by stringent tradition at home, vs liberal hyper-relaxed attitudes "on the street." They're pulled apart by two cultures, and they're neither one thing nor the other.
    They have a chip on their shoulder, and a bad "you owe me" attitude.

    It's a huge inter-gang problem, more than one which poses problems to the ordinary citizen.

    In Australia in the popular media this evening, Sudanese community leaders were quoted as calling for less leniency towards offenders who have been convicted of engaging in intra racial gang fighting here in Adelaide ( small Australian city which now has a significant Sudanese community as part of our multicultural society ) in favour of a commitment to address the factors which lead to the problem ie. identity and social issues, cultural expression and undertsanding of the culture within wider society.
  • ThailandTomThailandTom Veteran
    edited October 2010
    If you disarm someone and then stab them with the knife you took, expect prison.

    lol, In the UK if it is your first offense and you happen to murder this person, you can expect 15 years and serve half of that and be out back on the streets
  • edited October 2010
    federica wrote:
    The other problem is that an awful lot of young west-indian and Asian lads are torn apart by stringent tradition at home, vs liberal hyper-relaxed attitudes "on the street." They're pulled apart by two cultures, and they're neither one thing nor the other.
    They have a chip on their shoulder, and a bad "you owe me" attitude

    This hasn't been my experience as a teacher with inner city black or mixed race teenagers. Quite often they come from one-parent families where the fathers have refused to take any responsibility for their sons. The (western-cultural preferences with little Caribbean influence)mothers are often stressed and worn out from doing 2 jobs to keep the family going -and are unable to influence their sons. As was already mentioned, a lot of kids carry weapons for 'protection'.

    Having worked with many adorable 'tough' inner-city teenagers with emotional and behavioral problems, as well as having in-depth chats with mothers and families, I can say that there are many causes and conditions which make them the way they are - and most certainly not necessarily a 'chip on the shoulder' or 'you owe me' attitude.


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  • FyreShamanFyreShaman Veteran
    edited October 2010
    lol, In the UK if it is your first offense and you happen to murder this person, you can expect 15 years and serve half of that and be out back on the streets

    Why the 'lol' - laugh out loud?

    If you're 16 and get 7 or 8 years in jail then when you emerge at 24 you have spent a third of your life in jail and have a bleak future. Not quite sure why you find that funny - seems like a punishment to avoid.

    If you are defending yourself and disarm someone, stabbing them once they are unarmed is just plain daft. And we are discussing karma here - why turn a good act, preventing harm, into a karmic catastrophe? Obviously, you don't have time to consider such things, but good training helps - police restraining people who they have disarmed don't need to stab them as they have rendered them incapable of continuing the attack. Now they have tasers, which have been a great help.

    Of course, in an inter-gang situation, it also makes the likely retaliation more serious. Nowadays, guns are replacing knives for such retaliation.

    Here's a bit of London context:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4YH0LUt8R2k&feature=related
  • ThailandTomThailandTom Veteran
    edited October 2010
    Because I laugh at everything, it is a habit I have adopted somewhere along the way. It does not always mean I find the situation funny or amusing. LOL
  • Love-N-PeaceLove-N-Peace Veteran
    edited November 2010
    Because I laugh at everything, it is a habit I have adopted somewhere along the way. It does not always mean I find the situation funny or amusing. LOL

    LOL, if you can't laugh at the world God help us
  • ThailandTomThailandTom Veteran
    edited November 2010
    Yes god, almighty holy god! He/She can help us, let us pray until our hands are sore and our words mean nothing :)
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