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Similarities between Buddhism and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
Seven years ago, I was treated for major depression and anxiety using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. Two years ago, I started learning Buddhism. I am amazed by the similarity between the two.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy is based on the fact, that how we think affects how we feel. For example, irrational thoughts, like everyone must like me will cause us to feel upset, every time, we confront a person who reacts negatively to us, we feel upset. Cognitive Behavioural therapy also operates on the idea, that it is our unrealistic expectations that causes much suffering. For example, I must be rich, I must always have many friends etc. Cognitive Behavioural therapy is about thinking realistically and rationally.
Buddhism says the same thing, but in a different way. Buddhism uses the word, desire instead of expectations and Buddhism too is about thinking realistically, that is, impermanence, law of causes, conditions and effects, suffering etc. Buddhism emphasizes wisdom which is similar to rational thinking promoted by Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.
What are your thoughts on this?
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You make a good point. Since, in this world, no two people are exactly alike, some people will respond well to Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, other people will require Buddhism or other methods. I agree with you, that our emotions often precedes the thoughts, however, there will be exceptions to this. For example, people are different, different circumstances etc. Also, a criticism of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy is that it tends to focus on our own self thoughts rather our relationships with others. The cause of some emotional problems tend to come from our relationships. Buddhism is useful because it teaches us to let go of our thoughts and not be influenced by them. After all, they are just thoughts. They cannot hurt us, useless we allow them to.
Yours in the Dhamma/Dharma,
Todd
I agree. Despite limited resources such as no technology, text books, internet etc, the Buddha was able to discover how the mind works. It is also interesting that a cause of depression is unhealthy selfishness, hence, confirming, the Buddha's discovery that unhealthy selfishness is the cause of suffering.
It has allot to do with our inner parent and our inner critic.
Our inner parent is all of the limitations and negative thoughts our parents imposed on us and we adopted subconsciously.
Our Inner critic is all of the negative thoughts and limitations we have adopted through our experience in the world.
Much of learning to cope with emotional problems has to do with modifying how our inner critic and inner parent work through becoming aware of what they are telling us and arguing against the negative criticisms and limitations by creating positive arguments. Over time our inner critic can actually be turned into a positive voice that reassures us. Much of this thinking takes place on an almost subconscious level so we need to be very mindful of our thoughts to see it and change it.
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Well said. Judith Beck, a contributor to Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, said this, "just because we think something, does not necessarily mean it is true". This also applies to our inner critic. I agree that to overcome our inner critic, we need to be like lawyers and argue against the inner critic. One diffference between Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Buddhism, although, there is some overlap, is that Cognitive Behavioural Therapy focuses on the content of the thought, whereas Buddhism through mindfulness and meditation concentrates more on watching the thoughts rise and fall and not attaching to them.
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