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Someone to Be My Guide

edited November 2010 in Buddhism Basics
Namaste, my name is Julienne.
I'm converting from Roman Catholic to Mahayana Buddhism. I', not sure how to do this correctly. So my question for any Buddhist who will answer it is, Who will take me under their wing and be my guide?

Comments

  • MountainsMountains Veteran
    edited October 2010
    Welcome Julienne. Don't sweat it too much. You don't have to "convert" to Buddhism. It's not a club. And I'd be slow about deciding what branch of Buddhism you're going to follow until you've experienced it a little. I've been at it for several years, and I have no idea myself. Which is fine - you don't have to "declare" in Buddhism. You can simply follow the Noble Eightfold Path and get along quite nicely.

    My advice is: get some books and read, read, read. Then meditate, meditate, meditate. Everything else will follow naturally from there.

    Good luck on your path!
  • edited October 2010
    Where are you located?
  • shanyinshanyin Novice Yogin Sault Ontario Veteran
    edited October 2010
    What I recomend you do is take my advice and watch this interview with a zen Buddhist monk. It's about 30 minutes. The three reasons why I think you should watch it are:

    The American monk was himself raised Roman Catholic.

    The monk points out what he considers 'the entire practice'and then he is asked what the first step is for someone who wants to 'take a run at buddhism, learn more about it, experience it' and gives an answer.

    This could answer some questions you may be having.

    Then I would suggest you:

    read + meditate

    and for guidance, find a Buddhist monastery in your town and find a teacher (I have no such place in my town so I don't know much about it)
  • CloudCloud Veteran
    edited October 2010
    Heeeeyyyyy man, I want to watch that interview too but like, there's no link... please?
  • edited November 2010
    shanyin wrote: »
    What I recomend you do is take my advice and watch this interview with a zen Buddhist monk. It's about 30 minutes. The three reasons why I think you should watch it are:

    The American monk was himself raised Roman Catholic.

    The monk points out what he considers 'the entire practice'and then he is asked what the first step is for someone who wants to 'take a run at buddhism, learn more about it, experience it' and gives an answer.

    This could answer some questions you may be having.

    Then I would suggest you:

    read + meditate

    and for guidance, find a Buddhist monastery in your town and find a teacher (I have no such place in my town so I don't know much about it)

    Yes! We Need the link! Thank You!
  • DaltheJigsawDaltheJigsaw Mountain View Veteran
    edited November 2010
    Yes, the link, or the name of that interview?
  • edited November 2010
    shanyin wrote: »
    What I recomend you do is take my advice and watch this interview with a zen Buddhist monk. It's about 30 minutes. The three reasons why I think you should watch it are:

    The American monk was himself raised Roman Catholic.

    The monk points out what he considers 'the entire practice'and then he is asked what the first step is for someone who wants to 'take a run at buddhism, learn more about it, experience it' and gives an answer.

    This could answer some questions you may be having.

    Then I would suggest you:

    read + meditate

    and for guidance, find a Buddhist monastery in your town and find a teacher (I have no such place in my town so I don't know much about it)
    I really want to watch this video! I just need a link, thank you so very much!
  • edited November 2010
    Buddhism cannot be thought to you by someone else.

    It is an intuitional self-discovery.

    The scriptures and eightfold path are, more or less, conscious driven guides that strenghten thinking patterns that make you hang on more than letting go.

    Anything that promotes conscious thinking, action/reaction...dualist thinking is not buddhism - it is attachement, it's complete opposite.

    Listen to none but your own voice and own energy.

    Interviews will take away you farther from this.

    Other's opinion's will too. It is becoming self-sufficient. Thus, get off these forums.

    As always,

    I remain baffled by the stupidity I find on this forum.

    :o

    There is nothing but humour in buddhist life, though, and thus why; I keep coming back for more.

    Stupidity is like food for the soul.

    nomnomnom
  • qohelethqoheleth Explorer
    edited November 2010
    I'm going to take a stab here and guess that shanyin recommended THIS interview:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PTCogarppGs
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DIba3ZTQZl8&feature=related
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8v9irjs70ws&feature=related

    He's an American, Roman Catholic 'convert' to Korean Zen (Seon) Buddhism, and the interview in 3 parts is about 30 minutes. If I'm wrong, sorry shinyan... but it's a great interview nonetheless, and may prove helpful to you.

    All the best.
  • HumbleHumble Explorer
    edited November 2010
    Please search this directory to find a local community

    http://www.buddhanet.info/wbd/index.php

    Buddhanet also has a useful e- library

    http://www.buddhanet.net/e-learning/index.htm

    Buddhist forums are a wonderful supplement to a local sangha and books are also useful. I highly suggest "The Heart of the Buddha's Teachings"

    http://www.amazon.com/Heart-Buddhas-Teaching-Thich-Nhat/dp/0767903692
  • edited November 2010
    Eric L wrote: »
    Buddhism cannot be thought to you by someone else.

    It is an intuitional self-discovery.

    The scriptures and eightfold path are, more or less, conscious driven guides that strenghten thinking patterns that make you hang on more than letting go.

    Anything that promotes conscious thinking, action/reaction...dualist thinking is not buddhism - it is attachement, it's complete opposite.

    Listen to none but your own voice and own energy.

    Interviews will take away you farther from this.

    Other's opinion's will too. It is becoming self-sufficient. Thus, get off these forums.

    As always,

    I remain baffled by the stupidity I find on this forum.

    :o

    There is nothing but humour in buddhist life, though, and thus why; I keep coming back for more.

    Stupidity is like food for the soul.

    nomnomnom

    Ultimately we are all we can rely on. However, that doesn't mean help isn't beneficial. Sure, maybe you could figure out everything there is to figure out in this lifetime. But don't you think it would be a lot more effecient figuring it out if you have help and hear from others who are/were trying to figure it out?
  • qohelethqoheleth Explorer
    edited November 2010
    TheJourney wrote: »
    Ultimately we are all we can rely on. However, that doesn't mean help isn't beneficial. Sure, maybe you could figure out everything there is to figure out in this lifetime. But don't you think it would be a lot more effecient figuring it out if you have help and hear from others who are/were trying to figure it out?

    Help is beneficial. Spiritual friends are important. The Buddhist traditions house incredible wisdom and the testimonies of practitioners on the spiritual path. Ultimately, by calling people stupid, and suggesting to a beginner that the eight-fold path and Buddhist scriptures just reinforce thinking patterns and thus should be abandoned at the offset, is really not helpful at all, and could turn an interested would-be Buddhist away, or at least start them off in the wrong direction.

    At least that is my humble opinion.
  • LincLinc Site owner Detroit Moderator
    edited November 2010
    Eric L wrote: »
    I remain baffled by the stupidity I find on this forum.
    Me too. I've quoted some for reference.
  • DaltheJigsawDaltheJigsaw Mountain View Veteran
    edited November 2010
    qoheleth wrote: »
    I'm going to take a stab here and guess that shanyin recommended THIS interview:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PTCogarppGs
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DIba3ZTQZl8&feature=related
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8v9irjs70ws&feature=related

    He's an American, Roman Catholic 'convert' to Korean Zen (Seon) Buddhism, and the interview in 3 parts is about 30 minutes. If I'm wrong, sorry shinyan... but it's a great interview nonetheless, and may prove helpful to you.

    All the best.

    Thank you very much!
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