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I feel like a loser
Things are going better eversince Ive been out of the hospital and taking the meds but there is one thing that I think about alot. At school there is this girl I talk to everyday and I made a note for her expressing how im crazy about her but im afraid to give it to her. The idea of giving it to her scares me to death.
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'He who deliberates fully before taking each step will spend his entire life on one leg'.
Sometimes you just have to take your courage in both hands and "plunge it into the Heart of Fear". And if she accepts you, fine. if she rejects you, also fine. At least the unknown will be gone. And then you can move on. Faint heart ne'er won fair lady..... Go for it. and if she says no, it's her loss.
Magwang....Your Avatar......!!
See of it this way.If you never try,you got 0 chance of getting accpeted.But if you try you got half a chance of getting accepted.
If you make a mess of things you get a quarter of a chance,you go up there like a pro,she is yours,average,maybe around 3/4 you get accepted.
Am I confusing you?Because I myself is confused..
:thumbsup: Good Luck!Tell me the outcome..:)
Keep us posted on how things go for you!
Here are some great pick up lines that you might want to incorporate into your poem. I've loved using thse - although I'm still having a hard time figuring out why I'm single even when using these gems.
-bf
Are you from Tennessee? Because you're the only ten I see!
Did you clean your pants with Windex? I can practically see myself in them
Do you want to see something swell?
Hi, will you help me find my lost puppy? I think he went into this cheap motel room across the street.
Are those space pants? Cuz your ass is out of this world!
Hey baby, let's play house, you can be the door and I'll slam you!
How do you like your eggs cooked? Why? Well I just wanted know what to make for you in the morning!
I like your butt, can I wear it as a hat?
I think I could fall madly in bed with you.
That's a nice shirt, it would go great with my floor.
Are those lumber jack pants your wearing? They are giving me a wood.
I have a six inch tongue and I can breath through my ears.
Hey I'm looking for treasure, Can I look around your chest?
If you're going to regret this in the morning, we can sleep in until the afternoon.
So, are you going to give me your phone number, or am I going to have to stalk you?
Do you know how to use a whip?
You any of these you wish to.
-bf
Yours was included, my friend.
-bf
-bf
The Flight of the Pheonix
You sparkle with a radiance like the heavenly streets of gold as it reflects the light of glory in the heavens, Your beauty is like cherry blossoms swaying in the breeze, Beautiful yet mysterious like a cool Autumn day As It fades from Autumn to ashes like a majestic pheonix consumed by fire only to rise again with a shining angelic glow as it treads the sky with ease and fades into the twilight never to geace the presence of mortal eyes as I gaze into your eyes I remmeber the smouldering embers of the reamins of the pheonix and the ashes of itss wake from the dead but nothing is immortal, as beautiful as the pheonix is it cannot stop the cold icy grip of death as the reaper sharpens his sythe the pheonix takes flight, but does not escape its gruesome demise as it gets shot down and plunges into the depths of Infinity. As this happens the angels cry seeing that a creation of God has died, but fear not, for it is said that if a person finds love on a cool autumn day they might just see the pheonix take flight.
I'm going to have to let the girls here answer this one.
I love the prose and the imagery it creates.
I'm just thinking she might not dig the whole Reaper thing and the bird getting whacked.
Unless she has a really shiny car that birds keep flying over and then pooping on right after it's been washed. Then, I can totally see the Reaper thing.
Okay... enough deep thought for me. I know I've been laying some pretty heavy things on everyone here today - so I'll give yer brains a rest.
-bf
Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate:
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
And summer's lease hath all too short a date:
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dimmed,
And every fair from fair sometime declines,
By chance, or nature's changing course untrimmed:
But thy eternal summer shall not fade,
Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow'st,
Nor shall death brag thou wander'st in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st,
So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see,
So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.
(Sonnet 18)
This Flesh A Tomb by Atreyu
I feel eyelashes on my cheek
And they lacerate my flesh
A pain so good
Put your hand in mine
Never let go
Never wake up 'cause I'm done with promises
I'm taking blood oaths
Feels likes you could kiss my imperfections
My imperfections away
And I would stand
Stand by your side until the sun turns the sky
All the colors I see in your eyes
I'll never need to see the sun again
There's enough light in your eyes to light up our little world
So take me, take my away
Kill me slowly, I'll never be the same
I swear to you, on everything I am
And I dedicare to you all that I have
And I promise you that I will stand right by your side
Forever and always until the day I die
The bite marks on my neck never felt so good
I'm losing control and it's all that I can do
Not to blackout and fall into lust with you
Your kisses infect me
The dark gift is loving you
And I feel immortal and I want to make you feel the same
So stand by me as we immulate
We can burn in each other's arms
Yeah I know the song is kind of bizarre I might take it out of the note but Im still deciding.
and then therere are little bits that basically tell her how I feel about her that are scattered throughout the note in paragraphs.
Here's little advice for ya...
If you two have been hanging out together and having a good time. Little, happy touches here and there (on the shoulder or the arm), eyes meeting every once in awhile, you call her, she calls you, she goes out of her way to see you, you go out of your way to see her...
I think you can feel somewhat secure that she's diggin' you too.
You can also do something as simple as - look her in the eye when there is a quiet moment between you (or you can even do this on the phone) and just say, "I really like you. I like the time we spend together."
Nobody is putting too much on the line in case both parties aren't seeing things the same way.
Plus, you can tell her you really like her boobies. Or, if you want to be a little more "suave" you could refer to them as her:
Knockers
Hooters
Fun Bags
Lung Warts
Ta Ta's
Jugs
Man Toys
T'maters
Melons
It's your pick - whatever you feel comfortable calling them.
But... my friend... you pick up something sharp again with bad intent and I will find out where you live, come over there and kick yer ass.
PM me! I'll give you an email address! I'll give you a phone number! You give me a phone number! I'll give you my instant messenger addy - just stop with the cutting! Call me if you need something to help you focus!
I'm serious. Knock it off. It upsets me.
Yer Pal,
-bf
I like what Buddhafoot said when he wrote: "You can also do something as simple as - look her in the eye when there is a quiet moment between you (or you can even do this on the phone) and just say, "I really like you. I like the time we spend together."
Maybe it's just me, but guys writing me long poems before they even really knew me, pretty much freaked me out more than anything. I would go with what Buddhafoot said and save the poems for further into the relationship.
Just ask Yodamama how painful it can be just talking to me.
-bf
It's more painful than childbirth!!
And messier!
-bf
P.S. I missed this one.
if any man can tell you the secret you request - he won't know what he's talking about - !!:scratch:
Women - can't live with them...pass the beer nuts!!
...
Had me laughing for ages!
NN, sorry I didn't realise this topic sooner! First of all, ignore all of buddhafoot's advice - but buddhafott, keep posting it, just for laughs!
My advice, go for it, especially with Sonnet No. 18, then, if you are rejected (which I'm sure you won't!) you can give her my poem - Love's Spite (see Poet's Corner) which is based on Sonnet 18!
But seriously, just go for it!
I didn't see that as going for it. Hence my reply.
Her friend doesn't know her feelings, her emotions. Ask the girl herself.
Amen.
At least it doesn't seem like men are in the dark. You could almost take it from this reply that women don't even know what they want. Hence the dark and dangerous dance of love that we play.
Kind of like mating praying mantises or black widow spiders - when they love ya, they want to be with you - when they are tired of you - they eat you.
-bf
Keep posting it!
lol
if you love someone,
Set her free ....
If she ever comes back, she's yours,
If she doesn't, hunt her down and marry your mother.
Optimist:
If you love someone,
Set her free ....
Don't worry, she will come back.
Suspicious:
If you love someone,
Set her free ....
If she ever comes back, ask her why.
Impatient:
If you love someone,
Set her free ....
If she doesn't comes back within some time forget
her.
Patient:
IF you love someone,
Set her free ....
If she doesn't come back, continue to wait until
she comes back.
Playful:
If you love someone,
Set her free ....
*If she comes back, and if you love her still,
set her free again, repeat*
C++ Programmer:
if(you-love(m_she))
m_she.free()
if(m_she == NULL)
m_she= new CShe;
Lawyers:
If you love someone,
Set her free,
Clause 1a of Paragraph 13a-1 in the second amendment of the
Matrimonial Freedom Act clearly states that....
Bill Gates:
If you love someone,Set her free,
If she comes back, I think we can charge her for
re-installation fees but tell her that she's also going to get an upgrade.
Biologist:
If you love someone,
Set her free, She'll evolve.
Statisticians:
If you love someone, Set her free,
If she loves you, the probability of her coming
back is high If she doesn't, the Weibull
distribution and your relation was improbable anyway.
Salesman:
If you love someone,
Set her free ....
If she ever comes back, deal!
If she doesn't, so what! "NEXT".
Schwarzenegger's fans:
If you love someone,
Set her free,
SHE'LL BE BACK!
Insurance agent:
If you love someone,
Show her the plan ....
If she ever comes back, sign her up,
If she doesn't, keep follow up with her and never give up!
Physician:
If you love someone,
Set her free ....
If she ever comes back, it's the law of gravity,
If she doesn't, either there's friction higher than the force or the angle
of collision between two objects did not synchronize at the right angle.
Mathematician:
If you love someone,
Set her free ....
If she ever comes back, 1 + 1 = 2 (peanut!),
If she doesn't, Y = 2X - log(0.46Y^2 + (cos(52/34X)) x 5Y^(-0.5)c) where c
is the infinite constant of no turning point.
Nowadays' style:
If You Love Someone,
Set it free,
If It Comes Back, It is Yours
If It Doesn't, Hunt it Down and Kill It...!!! OR
PERHAPS REPORT TO IMMIGRATION THAT SHE/HE IS AN ILLEGAL
If you love someone
WHY IN THE FIRST PLACE SET HER FREE???
CARELESS IDIOT!!!
-bf
LMAO!
Admittedly, in my opinion, people bandy this word around too much, and it's meaning has become fuzzy-edged, to say the least....
For example, there's a world of difference between the Love Romeo had for his Juliet, that they died for it, and the fact that some people really love their cars... but we use the same word.... like I love olives, and Nick loves driving...
So don't read too much into it... let things just flow.... OK?
Also the "love" thing, I wouldn't think too much of it. I recieved over 100 xmas cards (I don't know why - everyone knows I hate the things because the stay ina pile on my shelf until february, maybe they just like winding me up?) and almost every single one that was from a girl was signed "love...."
BTW, I have a lot of friends who are/were cutters. The elastic band works really well. Some people don't understand it very well but I do. It's totally logical to me. For the benefit of others who may not be familiar; put simply it's about the inability to express and get rid of deep emotional stress/pain so one turns it into physical pain which is more simple and easier to cope with. It's really not that difficult to treat. And it's temporary. And it's much more common than people realize. You're not alone, you know that, right? And you have someone you're talking to, right? Because overcoming cutting with a professional is one of the very best ways to develop emotional intelligence. You're going to come out of it way ahead of a lot of other people your age. Seize this opportunity. You're already an absolute darling and I'm proud of you for what you've already accomplished. Just hang on. It's going to get SO much better! Trust me on this.
Buddhafoot, I'm laughing so hard you're giving me abs of steel!!