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Shamelessness and no fear of wrongdoing
If there is an absence of disgust at bodily and verbal misconduct this is an unwholesome state of mind called shamelessness and can also manifest itself as no fear or even pride demonstrated in the face of wrongdoing.
Sometimes this makes me curious, if we don't feel disgust and or fear at wrongdoing then do we think what we're doing isn't wrong or even that wrongdoing is right?
If people won't adhere to the precepts which declare non-harming the way to distinguish right from wrong, then how do you think we can know what is right or wrong without these emotional aversions?
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I'd say disgust and shame are an awful indicator of right and wrong. People can feel disgust and shame when it's completely uncalled for. Overall, emotions alone shouldn't be the guide for... well anything really.
How do we know what's right and what's wrong without emotional cues? I was about to say empathy and mirror neurons, but then realised that's an emotional cue. My second answer is looking at the likely outcome. Reflect on the dangers of your actions. If you're likely to get negative karma for it, then it's wrong, otherwise it's either neutral of good.
It's VERY rare for people to do what they think is wrong and think it's the right thing to do. People normally convince themselves that what they are doing is right or for the greater good. Studying Zimbardo's Stanford prison experiment is a great way to get insight into how 'good people' do 'wrong things' and how society's roles and power can shape our sense of right and wrong.
So if you feel shamelessness is something to consider then it is good to consider it, but I think it would be harmful to project this outwards as it then becomes just another tool for the ego to discredit others and thereby lead the person involved astray.
"Look within for your answers" is something that I've read again and again and is probably the most important point in Buddhism.
Cheers, WK
The mind is good at giving excuses for ourselves. We always like to judge and dislike others but will always forgive ourselves for our own defilements.
Bodhisattvas do not fear wrong doings, they fear not realising wrong doings and stop the cause.
i didn't knew, but... we need the 8FP to travel the stream... in a "boat", we will not be swimming this stream.
Thich Nhat Hanh explains:
Here "nirvana" is defined as:
1. to have realized in practice the teachings of no self ("the holy life has been lived; what needs to be done has been done")
2. to arrive at right understanding ("the truth of things as they are is known").
3. to be able to put and end to the cycle of birth and death
("Such a person is no longer troubled by birth and death").
4. To have no fear ("he has no fear")
Thank you.
[1] my teacher said becoming a hearer was a wonderful accomplishment
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i just proposed a symple project.
an anågåmin goes to Sudavasa Vihara, and then comes back to help others attain nirvåna.
my past life was in:
10) Devas Delighting in Creation (nimmanarati deva)*
These devas delight in the sense objects of their own creation.
my next life, i will like it to be here:
(27) Peerless devas (akanittha deva)
Fourth jhana. (See, e.g., AN 4.123.)
(26) Clear-sighted devas (sudassi deva)
Fourth jhana.
(25) Beautiful devas (sudassa deva)
Fourth jhana.
(24) Untroubled devas (atappa deva)
Fourth jhana.
Then, i want to return to this World (Earth) to help in a better way.
*according to scientific cosmology it was here: