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The culture I was brought up in was rather macho, you know men were real men....taking the kids out meant going to the pub and leaving them outside with a coke n a bag of crisps (chips). I was the bright sensitive kid with the posh parents (well I got a slap if I didn't speak properly).
Although I've moved on....I read The Guardian (slightly left wing broadsheet arty fart paper) rather than The Sun (Rupert Murdoch owned...nuff said) I'm still a bit of a comedian. It was better to make the hard men laugh rather than to fight them
The way I show affection is to "take the p**s", I like naughty jokes and I'm not very politically correct.
One of the Ordained members of my Sangha once commented "you're quite different to the typical Buddhist Mr Spock and it is impossible to dislike you... your intentions are good but you'll never become enlightened with a humour like yours".
I like being me though. People are warm to me and I make people laugh. I think far too many Buddhists take life too seriously and don't laugh enough.
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Does that make me a bad person? hee hee
I know there are 'tough' people out there too but that doesn't mean they're spontaneously going to go nuts on a random person. A lot of that is just a front though.
Perhaps your humour makes other people feel at ease? ok so we have general banter for this. (The -pub- banter I can think of does not always make people feel at ease however). If people want a serious discussion let em at it.
Me, I'll put a joke in anywhere sometimes in order to make a point but a lot of the time it just sounded too sarcastic and made me look a pompous ass. I like to think of myself of a comedian, but you know it's really hard to be pro and please an audience (I would imagine).
Not sure what he meant by 'you'll never become enlightened with a humour like yours', when he sees, that your intentions are good. o_O