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Hi everyone,
I have a few questions about the women in spiritual pursuits and hope to hear your thoughts about this please
1) Is Bhikkhuni (female monks) ordination done in any country? I know there are some countries with female monasteries and female monks but most of these "monks" are just nuns attaining to the 10 SILs and not really monks. They are not fully ordained. Why has this privilege been rejected for women?
2) I have gone through the Bhikkhuni Vinaya (the disciplines of the female monks) which the Buddha had enforced and it seems pretty aligned with the "male dominated" system they had in the ancient society. It has always made me wonder why the Buddha, being the person who was against discrimination, disregarded the casts and creeds, made the Vinaya in such a way that the female sangha was "second" to the male sangha.
It is also said that the Buddha refused Bhikkhuni ordination three times even when his step mother made a request for it. I wonder why
Any thoughts?
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I dont know about other traditions, but in Tibet the Bhikkhuni lineage simply never arrived.... Its not that women ordination has been rejected, its just that, when buddhism arrived in Tibet, the bhikkhune ordination apparently wasnt able to go along for some reason.
I dont know if its because the sangha who brought buddhism to Tibet, was only or mostly male, but it just kinda got "left behind"
Women in the tibetan traditions, are more than welcome to receive the full Bhikkhuni ordination from the Chinese schools, and i read recently that actions are being taken to encourage tibetan nun to go and take the Bhikkhuni ordination in the chinese Dharmagupta lineage, in order to fix the obvious hole in the "tibetan package"
Much love
Allan
Bhikkunis - or the first nuns, would half the length of his teachings?
The monk's life was called the 'homeless life' in contrary to the 'household life'.
So my guess is, allowing women to ordain created problems & burdens similar to the household life, such as women having to be protected, women having to live all year round in monasteries, men get angry when their wives left them for the bhikkhuni life, etc.
A good example is the Apostle Thomas, who went to India after Jesus departed. He acquired a number of female disciples and was subsequently killed by their jealous husbands.
In brief, women in the Sangha of forest dwellers & lone wanderers (rhinoceroses) could bring trouble and burdens, similar to that of the household life.
Kind regards
:smilec:
Below is my post from another site, to which a Thai member agreed with about the qualities of Thai culture.
Please check out these links!
http://www.sravastiabbey.org/photogallery/2006/dec06interview.html
and
http://www.sravastiabbey.org/founder.html
Shalom and Hugs
I don't get it. Women really have the capacity to be more than just loving mothers and gentle caregivers
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I don't understand the justice in thinking that it is better if women did not ordain because their husbands might get angry and kill each other. Lol
Same goes to the Bhikkuni Vinaya: http://www.buddhistchannel.tv/index.php?id=70,2666,0,0,1,0
This is horribly sexist and I cannot believe for once the Buddha enforced these. I understand certain rules like this:
2. A nun is not to stay in a residence where there is no monk. (A monk may take an independent residence.)
Understandable. Women need more protection and support in harsh conditions so there is a reason for them to stay near the monks rather than isolating themselves in the forest. But what justification can anyone give to the following rather than pure sexism:
1. A nun, even if she has been ordained for 100 years, must respect, greet and bow in reverence to the feet of a monk, even if he has just been ordained that day. (Monks pay respect to each other according to their seniority, or the number of years they have been ordained.)
It's a joke to say the least. Most of all it clearly looks like an addition from Hindu influence.
All in all, there is a visible resistance at least from certain cultures to female ordination.
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Thanks Bob
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Thai society is hierachical, with monks at the top. Most Thai's do not wish to have bald women dressed in burkas at the top of the tree.
:smilec:
Ajahn Chah said the environment for practise should be "good enough for enlightenment".
Some monks maintain the monastaries & the teachings, etc, and the rest of us practice with them for enlightenment.
If the bhikkhunis work out in Australia or the USA, then fine, because the Western society can probably accommodate it better.
But the basic issue with most Western Buddhists is they have not spent extensive time living in monasteries. When they hear or see a monk, like Bhikkhu Bodhi or Thanissaro, they automatically regard these monks as enlightened.
If one lives in monastaries and has some dhamma vision, one sees many monks and nuns are just like us, namely, ordinary people struggling with their minds and unenlightened.
In a monastery, there are monks, nuns, laymen and laywomen. Some of the monks, nuns, laymen and laywomen gain some enlightenment and some of the monks, nuns, laymen and laywomen do not.
I have personally seen nuns attached to monks like a wife is attached to husband.
Bhikkunis in the West are fine because Western people are hyper-sensitive to superficial notions of "injustice", "sexism", etc. This is just worldly distraction. Religious people generally enjoy distraction.
Having bhikkunis teaching you Dhamma will still not help your mind get enlightened. Many monks & nuns are caught up in worldliness in monastaries, being the teacher, etc. Their distractions are many.
In the West, meditation centres were generally run by laypeople, including many women.
In the end, it all does not make much difference.
:smilec:
I certainly do not have any intention to take the robes but I find it a missing page that women who are willing to do it, do not have the necessary facilities or the encouragement as the men have in most cultures. Once again this is not a matter of debate whether this is important or not this is a matter of personal choice.
It's like the good old days where people thought "It is not that important for women to have higher education"
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Irrelevant.
Sorry, that's not accurate, Allan. There were indeed fully ordained nuns in Tibet when Buddhism first came there (via Padmasambhava and Shantarakshita, who performed the first ordinations in Tibet). However, during the suppression of Buddhism by King Langdarma the nun ordination lineage (gelongma) was lost because those who carried the ordination lineage were either killed or forced to drop their robes. There is a lot of interest in Western Vajrayana nuns to rekindle that lineage. The main problem is finding a pure lineage that still exists in, say, Chinese Buddhism or whatever. Some, like Thubten Chodron, have received full ordination, usually in a Chinese lineage, so hopefully that will restart it. It really needs to be done.
Palzang
Palzang,
How was Pema Chodron ordained?
:):)
P.S. Same route as Ven. Thubten Chodron (Hum?) although Ven Thubten Chodron is now ordaining other women, in the USA.
At least, that's my understanding from several sources I turned to for my own education in the Dhamma.
'Western Bhiksunis in the Tibetan Traditions
Western women ordained in the Tibetan traditions have led the way in receiving full bhiksuni ordination. Among the earliest to do so were Ven. Freda Bedi, Ven. Pema Chodron, and Ven. Tsultrim Palmo. Ven. Tenzin Palmo who was ordained a samaneri in 1964, travelled to Hong Kong for her higher ordination in 1973. Ven. Karma Lekshe Tsomo recieved full bhiksuni ordination in South Korea in 1982, Ven. Jampa Tsedroen in Taiwan in 1985, Ven. Thubten Chodron in Taiwan in 1986, Ven. Jampa Chokyi in Hong Kong in 1987/8, Sanghe Khandro and a few others at Hsi Lai Temple in 1988 and '89, five at the International Buddhist Meditation Center in Los Angeles in 1996, and eleven from Samye Ling in Scotland at Bodhgaya in India in 1998. Venerable Bhiksunis Karma Lekshe Tsomo and Thubten Chodron, now elders, participated as preceptors in the 1998 Bodhgaya bhiksuni ordinations in India.
Venerable Karma Lekshe Tsomo has broken new ground in International Women's Buddhism in establishing the Sakyadhita Conferences on Buddhist Women around the world, and Venerables Pema Chodron, Tenzin Palmo and Thubten Chodron have become well known for both their extensive Dharma teaching and for their efforts in establishing Centers for women's monastic education and practice: Bhiksuni Pema Chodron at Gampo Abbey in Nova Scotia, Bhiksuni Tenzin Palmo at Dongyu Gatsal Ling Nunnery in India (see above) and Bhiksuni Thubten Chodron at Sravasti Abbey in the State of Idaho in the Northern United States.' bhikkhunicommittee.googlepages.com/World_Bhiksuni_Sangha_History-_by_Yeo_Kwang.doc
(sorry don't know how to get a direct link on this - I just googled 'Bhiksuni ordination sravasti abbey' and got lots of stuff)
:):)
Palzang
To deny the fundamental right to make any choice, much less one as important as this to more than half of the world's population is indefensible. To completely dismiss it out of hand is abhorrent.
I don't understand what you're trying to say here. First of all, you simply don't know how most Western Buddhists regard monks but that's irrelevant to this thread anyway. So is the fact that monks and nuns are just like us and struggle just like us. The point is, women have the unalienable right to struggle with their minds as nuns just as much as men do as monks.
If you're trying to say that most Western Buddhists who have not spent much time in monasteries have idealized views of monastics, so what? What has that got to do with the issue of women being denied the right to ordain? Are you saying that if we ignorant Westerners knew how unenlightened and like us most monastics are we wouldn't care about the issue as much as we do? I hope not because that would be an arrogant way to view others who don't know as much as you think you do.
But in any case, it's completely irrelevant to the issue.
Gee, that's a nice anecdotal note. What are you thinking? Why on earth would you add this to your argument? I don't care if you've personally witnessed nuns begging to lick the ground at the feet of monks. As I see it, it's only relevance is to illustrate the issues you have with women in general.
We must live in the world and so must monastics. The mere fact that you view fundamental human rights, justice, and the universal, monumental amount of suffering caused by sexism since time immemorial as superficial notions and just worldly distractions is pretty appalling. (I imagine you meant to say that religious people generally don't enjoy distraction.)
Oh, come on. Monastic teachers don't help us along the Path? Please. That's just plain insulting. Insulting to our intelligence and insulting to monastic teachers. Uh, huh. Not to you it doesn't. Clearly.
You know, DD, I haven't responded to your other thinly veiled sexist remarks on this board before because I was hoping it was just a surface issue with you and I didn't want to get into a discussion about sexism. But your remarks on this thread have forced the issue and this time they're not going to go unprotested.
You've stated twice that the issue of female ordination is 'not important' and 'does not make much difference'. To back up your argument you've tried to trivialize not only the monastic life but the worth of the monastic teacher. These things may be inconsequential to you but they are not so to others. I think you'd be pretty hard pressed to find a Buddhist monk anywhere who would agree with your assessment of how they've chosen to live their life or their teaching.
You've also used your impression of Thai society and your interpretation of enlightened Thai masters to illustrate why you think female ordination is not important in Thailand.
Okay. Fine. Maybe you're right. We all know how the monastic Thai patriarchy responded to the recent female ordinations in Australia. I've been following that particular issue very closely and I've read responses to it from around the world. I've also discussed the issue with many people. I have yet to come across anyone who agrees with the attitude of the monastic Thai patriarchy. Not one. So using Thai attitudes to bolster your argument is worse than useless. It devalues it.
There's a lot more I could say about your remarks on this thread but I've spent enough time on it already. I just wanted you to know how deeply disappointed I am.
You haven't proven your original statement that the 'reasoning behind some of the extra vinaya rules and the subservient role to bhikkhus was not of discrimination or unworthiness.' In fact, the way you chose to prove your statement actually disproves it.
Palzang
Regarding Tibetan Buddhist nuns, there are quite a number of fully ordained Kagyu nuns at the Kagyu Samye Ling Monastery in the UK. As far as I remember they went to Sri Lanka and also to a ceremony in India with the abbot in order to take their Bhikkhuni or Gelongma vows.
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These people have to go all around the world to get ordained? That sucks Can't they ordain people directly in the UK? If not, why?
I have been missing in the forums for some time and just returned to see your replies. I was actually disappointed earlier why at least the few women here didn't retaliate to some of the obviously sexist comments.
Which is exactly my point. There are so many countries (including my own) where the majority are Buddhists and there is so much support to buddhist monks but when it comes to female ordination they just turn a blind eye and dismiss it as "not important" or ask the women to fly to China if they want to take the robes.
All of these things boil down to the fact that there is still a very irrational resistence in most societies to Bhikkuni ordination. It doesn't make any sense to deny 50% of the population the right to ordain as a monk. I don't think in this modern day and age there is any solid justification as to why women are not supported enough in this regard.
There is no Bhikkuni sangha in India and Sri Lanka. Only nuns and most of them do not even get enough arms food in their monasteries
Here are some references which mention ordination taken in Sri Lanka and India.
http://www.thubtenchodron.org/BuddhistNunsMonasticLife/a_new_possibility.html
AND
http://www.london.samye.org/london/kagyu/teachers/lama_zangmo.shtml
Kind wishes,
Dazzle
I am sorry Dazzel I actually don't have much time to go through that. My job is killing me
But I have been staying in Sri Lanka for some time now so I know there are no ordinated female monks here. Only nuns and they do not get much support either
Contact Bikkuni Kusuma at:
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gothami uyana
obesekarapura
rajagiriya
0112 882 198
you will be able to know about Bikkuni sangha in sri lanka
I'm not entirely sure I'm correct but I thought men who ordain are called 'monks' (bhikkhu) and females who ordain are called 'nuns' (bhikkhuni). I've never heard of female monks before. Am I missing something?
Palzang
Upekka, there are no ordained Bhikkunis in SL. There were long time back but no more. We have only nuns who attend to 10 sils (dasa sil). Just because they wear the robes doesn't mean they are ordained.
An ordained Bhikku/Bhikkuni attends to 200+ sils plus regarded as above the nuns who are not ordained in so many ways. However this is not a major obstacle to practice the Dhamma but because females can only be nuns who are not fully ordained they do not get enough acceptance and support from the society as the monks do which is the problem.
Fully ordained Buddhist nuns (bhikkhunis) have more Patimokkha-rules than the monks (bhikkhus). The important vows are the same, however.
As with monks, there are quite a lot of variation in nuns' dress and social conventions between different Buddhist cultures in Asia. Chinese nuns possess the full bhikkuni ordination; Tibetan nuns do not; and in Theravada countries women renunciates are discouraged from even wearing saffron robes. Disparities may often be observed in the amount of respect and financial resources given to monks viz. nuns, with nuns receiving less of both in all countries with the possible exception of Taiwan. Despite barriers, some nuns succeed in becoming religious teachers and authorities.
"A nun, even if she has been ordained for 100 years, must respect, greet and bow in reverence to the feet of a monk, even if he has just been ordained that day. (Monks pay respect to each other according to their seniority, or the number of years they have been ordained.)"
Hi Deshy,
You will see from my previous post that this has now changed in the case of Tibetan Buddhist nuns - although they have had to sometimes travel long distances in order to get full ordination . (See my link # 31 mentioning Lama Zangmo)
Kind wishes,
Dazzle
Thanks Dazzel. Yep we can always say that even Asian women can travel to China (or some other country) and get ordained but the point here is that many cultures do not have the necessary support as there should be. But I guess there is little point in emphasizing that here in an Internet forum anyway.