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How are we meant to be tolerant when people like this exist?
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You're supposed to be Compassionate, Wise and accepting.
Tolerance infers a certain amount of critical judgment. An appraisal to how far you are prepared to put up with something, and at what point you put your foot down and declare the line has been crossed and the boundary breached.
This is of course something we should be aware of, when something directly involves us, like for example, if we have young children, and a lodger who's an ex hard-drugs addict, but still smokes weed in his spare time. We tolerate his desire to smoke weed, providing it does not impinge upon our family life, and providing he never indulges under our roof, in front of my children.
He knows the score, and we tolerate his craving - up to a point.
This does not eradicate compassion, however.
Acceptance is for precisely the thing you show in your link.
There's not a blind bit we could personally do about it, and it doesn't affect us, even though he preys on the gullible.
Furthermore, even if we could reach out to him, and try to affect his behaviour positively - would he listen?
2 chances of that: Bob Hope and No Hope.
We can only look upon him with compassion, kindness and the fervent hope that those he preys on, won't take the bait....
We have to practice non-judgmental acceptance. We can evaluate his behaviour as decidedly unskilful, but to condemn him is not our place.
I don't see what was portrayed in the film as much different from Tibetan beliefs that glimpsing the black hat of the Karmapa can bestow instant Enlightenment, or that the Medicine Buddha ceremony can heal. (I have no doubt that in some cases it can; faith and devotion can work wonders.) The difference is that the "pastor" on TV is more blatantly seeking donations.