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Teaching Dhamma As Idle Chatter

edited June 2011 in Buddhism Basics
I started re-reading Ajaan Fuang's "Awareness Itself" yesterday and agreed with this passage so much I thought I'd quote it here and ask you all if you agree with it or not?

"Mind What You Say

§ Normally, Ajaan Fuang was a man of few words who spoke in response to circumstances: If the circumstances warranted it, he could give long, detailed explanations. If not, he'd say only a word or two — or sometimes nothing at all. He held by Ajaan Lee's dictum: "If you're going to teach the Dhamma to people, but they're not intent on listening, or not ready for what you have to say, then no matter how fantastic the Dhamma you're trying to teach, it still counts as idle chatter, because it doesn't serve any purpose" (http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/thai/fuang/itself.html#say).

May all beings find the causes of true happiness within.

bucky

Comments

  • I totally agree with that. I'm sure there's also a "middle way" involving speech.
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited June 2011
    I'm sure it cuts all ways... we're all guilty of hearing but not listening, so I think it's a piece of advice that everyone would, could and definitely should take to heart. Even the person saying it. Teaching is all very well, but it means nothing if the things we say are different to the things we actually do....
    I've had teachers like this.

    We can all learn a whole lot of stuff if we put personal opinion aside, and merely really listen to what is actually being said.
    I think interpretation has a lot to do with that, too.
    So it's important to use the ears and mouth in proportion, and engage brain before putting mouth in gear....

    :)

  • I think interpretation has a lot to do with that, too.
    So it's important to use the ears and mouth in proportion, and engage brain before putting mouth in gear....

    :)
    Hi Federica,
    I agree...and aren't a lot of the Buddha's teachings about the skillful use of interpretation?
    May all beings find the causes of true happiness within.
    bucky
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    Yeah. Enough said, do you think? ;)
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