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Caring sucks. I see why most of the world doesn't care about things beyond their little humdrum lives. Turn on the news and nothing but bad things are happening. There's a news show on the internet that I watch. Top stories for the past couple of days:
NYC Fire Dept. Sued
Threesome Turns Deadly
People Arrested for Fraud in Florida
Perry and Bachmann Hold Radical Religious Ties?
BART Shuts Down Phone Service in LA to Stop Protests
Lifeguard Fired for Frivolous Reason
Life Sentence for Drug Possession?
Cops Shoot Dog in Wrongful Raid
Wall Street Crimes Covered Up?
Students Working for Hershey Exploited
Goldman Sachs Government Corruption
- And then there's the UK riots.
And people being arrested for planning LEGAL protests.
People being arrested for having squirtgun battles.
People being arrested for ANYTHING.
Hell, I even read on here that a woman was arrested for simply helping a wheelchair bound woman.
Its like the world is out to get you. Out to get me. I can't stand it. Maybe I should stop caring? Stop watching the news? Stop worrying about the outside world? I can't do that. That's a big part of me. Its just recently I've been thinking like everything just sucks and the entire world is out to ruin my life eventually.
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Horrifying stories with action sell. It gets people's attention. Many good things happening in the world is less likely to get the same attention on the news.
I stopped watching news channel on TV for a while. But sometimes I happen to sit next to the TV while someone else is watching the news channel, I can't bear all the negativity being aired one after another, someone murdered, shooting, bombing, brutality, disaster here, disaster there.
If you wanted to improve things, maybe pick one area that is close to your heart and take action. You can't solve all the problems in the world.
If more people keep the 5 precepts, then many of the problems in society would decrease.
Look around your neighborhood, your community, and find something worth building, joining, working on.... and BE the news.
And when they tell you you're on in 3, don't look directly into the camera, but just slightly off to the side of it; you'll be framed better that way.
The social spectrum of politics/human rights. But that's a pretty big area, dontcha think?
there is suffering outside.
there is suffering inside.
most of us run away. buddhism is telling us to face suffering directly.
the buddha did it and so can you.
If each person ( or a lot) do that ( or keep the precepts) than many issues can have more chances of improving.
It is easy to get burn out if you try to take on a lot of issue one after another.
But yes, your point that compassion sucks when you're surrounded by hurting people holds true. The price you pay for caring about people is that you hurt along with them. So we do what we can while not being able to do very much at all as an individual.
Wht's the alternative? Do you want to become one of those selfish, greedy people who don't care about anyone else? The world has enough of them, I think, and they suffer just as much as anyone. Only they tend to suffer alone.
Like Cinorjer said it's part of the news to only report the bad things, you won't find many good news stories because in this world full of negative people that is the only kind of energy they can take after a while.
Reduce the amount of news that you take in. It hurts but being loving means that you will hurt when other's hurt.
But don't be afraid to make change
Personally, I avoid MOST news these days because of how it can distort one's perception, and therefore easily lead to despair because it can become so overwhelming.
Life is, after all, dukkha. And as bodhisattvas-in-training, the first of the four vows is to alleviate it, in whatever way possible.
http://buddhism.about.com/od/mahayanabuddhism/a/bodhisattva-vows.htm
Have you seen "YES!" magazine, MG? It's a magazine devoted exclusively to GOOD news! People doing good things in the world, doing projects that work, and that help made the world a better place. The mainstream media focuses on bad news because they (the media) live on sensationalism. So it provides a skewed view of life.
And if all the bad news gets you down, look around for an organization you can volunteer with that's Doing Good Stuff. So you can feel like you're helping turn the tide, in your own small way. That's important. You won't feel so helpless, then.
Hey, nobody said the world wasn't samsaric.
that being said, one of the best things ive ever done for my emotional well being was to stop watching the news. now i watch maybe 30 mins per week just to keep up with current events.
i think the key is to remember they are airing these negative stories on purpose, because that is what the sickened mind finds to be attractive and entertaining. it is not, imo, conducive to maintaining a positive state of mind to be constantly bombarded with severe negativity.
As Static stated, the world has many problems, it always has and will continue to. We can do those little things in life to help others who suffer, but sitting your ass infront of the news doesn't really help anyone apart from capitalism.
Goff even said in a very depressive manner not long ago that after the many millions raised by band aid and live aid, turn on your TV and see if he changed the world, he said no.