From Thich Nhat Hanh's
Plum Village website. Enjoy!
The Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings are the very essence of the Order of Interbeing. They are the torch lighting our path, the boat carrying us, the teacher guiding us. They allow us to touch the nature of interbeing in everything that is, and to see that our happiness is not separate from the happiness of others. Interbeing is not a theory; it is a reality that can be directly experienced by each of us at any moment. The Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings help us cultivate concentration and insight which free us from fear and the illusion of a separate self.The First Mindfulness Training: OpennessAware of the suffering created by fanaticism and intolerance, we are determined not to be idolatrous about or bound to any doctrine, theory, or ideology, even Buddhist ones. We are committed to seeing the Buddhist teachings as a guiding means that help us learn to look deeply and develop understanding and compassion. They are not doctrines to fight, kill, or die for. We understand that fanaticism in its many forms is the result is the result of perceiving things in a dualistic or discriminative manner. We will train ourselves to look at everything with openness and the insight of interbeing in order to transform dogmatism and violence in ourselves and the world.
The Second Mindfulness Training: Non-Attachment to ViewsAware of the suffering created by attachment to views and wrong perceptions, we are determined to avoid being narrow-minded and bound to present views. We are committed to learning and practicing nonattachment from views and being open to other’s insights and experiences in order to benefit from the collective wisdom. Insight is revealed through the practice of compassionate listening, deep looking, and letting go of notions rather than through the accumulation of intellectual knowledge. We are aware that the knowledge we presently possess is not changeless, absolute truth. Truth is found in life, and we will observe life within and around us in every moment, ready to learn throughout our lives.
The Third Mindfulness Training: Freedom of ThoughtAware of the suffering brought about when we impose our view on others, we are determined not to force others, even our children, by any means whatsoever – such as authority, threat, money, propaganda, or indoctrination – to adopt our views. We are committed to respecting the rights of others to be different, to choose what to believe and how to decide. We will, however, learn to help others let go of and transform narrowness through loving speech and compassionate dialogue.
The Fourth Mindfulness Training; Awareness of SufferingAware that looking deeply at our own suffering can help us cultivate understanding and compassion, we are determined to come home to ourselves, to recognize, accept, embrace and listen to our own suffering with the energy of mindfulness. We will do our best not to run away from our own suffering or cover it up through consumption but practice conscious breathing and walking to look deeply into the roots of our suffering. We know we can only find the path leading to the transformation of suffering when we understand the roots of suffering. Once we have understood our own suffering, we will be able to understand the suffering of others. We are committed to finding ways, including personal contact and using the telephone, electronic, audiovisual, and other means to be with those who suffer, so we can help them transform their suffering into compassion, peace and joy.
The Fifth Mindfulness Training: Compassionate, Healthy LivingAware that happiness is rooted in peace, solidity, freedom and compassion, we are determined not to accumulate wealth while millions are hungry and dying nor to take as the aim of our life fame, profit, wealth, or sensual pleasure, which can bring much suffering and despair. We will practice looking deeply into how we nourish our body and mind with edible foods, sense impressions, volition and consciousness. We are committed not to gamble or to use alcohol, drugs or any other products that bring toxins into our own and the collective body and consciousness such as certain websites, electronic games, TV programs, films, magazines, books and conversations. We will consume in a way that preserves compassion, peace, joy, wellbeing in our bodies and consciousness and in the collective body and consciousness of our families, our society, and the earth.
The Sixth Mindfulness Training: Taking Care of AngerAware that anger blocks communication and creates suffering; we are committed to taking care of our energy of anger when it arises, to recognizing and transforming the seeds of anger that lie deep in our consciousness. When anger manifests, we are determined not to do or say anything, but to practice mindful breathing or mindful walking to acknowledge, embrace, and look deeply into our anger. We know that the roots of anger are not outside of ourselves but can be found in our wrong perceptions and lack of understanding of the suffering in ourselves and the other person. By contemplating impermanence, we will be able to look with the eyes of compassion at ourselves and those we think are the cause of our anger, and to recognize the preciousness of our relationships. We will practice Right Diligence in order to nourish our capacity of understanding, love, joy and inclusiveness, gradually transforming our anger, violence, fear and helping others do the same.
The Seventh Mindfulness Training: Dwelling Happily in the Present MomentAware that life is available only in the present moment, we are committed to training ourselves to live deeply each moment of daily life. We will try not to lose ourselves in dispersion or be carried away by regrets about the past, worries about the future, or cravings, anger, or jealousy in the present. We will practice mindful breathing to be aware of what is happening in the here and now. We are determined to learn the art of mindful living by touching the wondrous, refreshing, and healing elements that are inside and around us, in all situations. In this way, we will be able to cultivate seeds of joy, peace, love, and understanding in ourselves, thus facilitating the work of transformation and healing in our consciousness. We are aware that happiness depends primarily on our mental attitude and not on external conditions, and that we can live happily in the present moment simply by remembering that we already have more than enough conditions to be happy.
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14 Mindfulness Trainings
Comments
@AMH I did that too.
@weighted You're more than welcome.
If I am presented with the opportunity to lie, but instead I am honest, even if I endure other forms of punishment, the fact that I have followed the rule-governed behavior of maintaining the precept is more reinforcing than the punishing consequences and thus the frequency of my behavior increases in future opportunities to lie.
However, the mindfullness trainings are not simple enough to provide this type of reinforcement and often times leave people feeling like the rule cannot be upheld. Not to say that it would be impossible, in fact many people are able to follow the 14 trainings diligently, but for many common laypeople, it's simply asking too much.
Following the training rule to uphold the sanctity of life, or to practice compassion, or to control anger is far too vague and all-encompassing to be applied to the complexities and difficulties of living the householders existence.
The Buddha said, refrain from killing. That's easy to understand and can be easily reinforced. When given the opportunity to take life ... don't. Not only will you be immediately reinforced through the udnerstadning of the rule, but this prevents an unskillful action from occurring and thus prevents the future presentation of an aversive stimuli brought about as fruition of unskillful karma. Namely, it is an analog to an avoidance of an aversive condition contingency and will thus decrease the behavior in question (killing).
I love thich naht hanh and I think he is a very wise and insightful person, and I think the mindfulness trainings are a very intelligent and compassionate way of living one's life, but they are certainly not a replacement of the original 5 precepts.
I may be in disagreement, or in denial about my own actions, but I think these are acheivable in the life of a lay person. There are different levels of intensity in each area of course, but I think that as each area supports the others it is possible. So for example to deal with our anger we are well supported if we are compassionate, see beings as interdependant and are non-attached to our personal views. That makes handling anger much easier. Living a healthy lifestyle without alcohol or other mind altering substances makes following right conduct with relationships and specifically sex, much easier.