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there are ants all over my room...
I left the window open... now I have ants swarming on my desk and dresser and walls...
I kind of freaked out and started squashing them..now I feel like shit.. I haven't had to kill a bug or any creature for years since i started to practice hard...what choice do I have? was there a way i could have transported 100+ ants out of my room? shit..maybe a vacuum? if I dont act and kill them or transport them my Mom will absolutely show no mercy..and I think vacuum-ing a bunch of ants one by one is a little too hard for me...i have to sleep and go to work u know ..so what I'm doing is just saying sorry and squashing them with kleenex... what could i do...?
I know now to keep my window closed...
are ants sentient?
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they are really hiding them selves from my view now THEY KNOW it makes me feel so bad... Is my attachment to not killing causing me suffering? When's an appropriate time to kill?
You have a responsibility to not repeat this incident again if you can.
Did you notice and follow a specific line of them going to a specific location..
I have used a watery sugar mix just outside of an infestation area to specifically attract them back out side but then you will definitely need to keep your window shut after they leave until they no longer associate the area with food.
You can also take the filter out of your vacuum, attach another vacuum hose to the vacuums outlet that then goes out the window and Voila.. Turn it on you've created your own instant ant transport system.
All he said was "Do you think they feel pain? ", and then walked on. I remember being simply staggered by the magnitude of what I'd been mindlessly doing.
It made me watchful from then on, where I put my feet.
hypocritical note..Mosquito's in my tent at night are mercilessly squashed but I do everything I can to not set up a situation where that happens.
i just gave up...i saw one and i said ..screw it I won't keep killing you guys..
just my initial reaction to them it wore off.... since then all the ants came to me, they stopped hiding as if they knew it was my resolve not to kill them again..it was quite beautiful..
for about 140 minutes i haven't seen a single ant but i know i let many live..i feel ashamed of killing some in the first place..i should get a kick in the nuts eventually..
If that fails I just lay out poison.
If you are a spiritual person, I highly recommend the following:
1. Ask the ants to leave. Seriously--I've seen this work in multiple cultures, multiple religions, with multiple creatures (head lice [mine], snakes in woodpiles, etc.)
2. Pray in whatever way you normally pray--offer incense, if you are Buddhist, and pray to the deity you feel closest to, or to the universe in general.
3. Give the ants a few days.
You can of course grease the wheels by following other advice in this thread--keeping surfaces clean, installing sonic devices, etc. But I have personally witnessed some amazing and rather mind-blowing creature exoduses after the spiritual approach.
Years ago while living in a old two story log home, I started getting many large carpenter ants in the house. The house was slated to be demolished so I wasn't worried about the carpenter ant damage but I was concerned about stepping on them.
I expressed my wish that if they stayed on the walls or baseboards, I wouldn't accidently step on them.
From then on, for at least a year until I moved out, they never strayed onto the floors again.
I didn't mind them taking residence at my house, but they left pheremones which could be quite headachy. One day I commented on it and washed the floor. Then I realized perhaps I was sending them the wrong message, for they did disappear for a while. So, I asked for their forgiveness. I didn't mean it. I told them, I was just making the place better. They could come back if they wish. They did come back. But stray cats and as the kittens grow up, they must break away from the nest and make their own way. I miss them. Lolz. Sure, I'm not suppose to be attached. But consciously, I would not keep pets, though.
i had ants problems too.
it was bcos i didnt keep my room clean.
tiny bits of food , coffee spill attracts ants.
so dont blame the ants.
and dont give yourself excuses when you kill them.
Most creatures in fact are very Zen and meditate all day and most of all they completely live in the NOW.. HOWEVER, if their gate was left open and you entered their home, im guessing they would also freak out and KILL you.. They'd probably eat you up to make sure there is nothing left of you..
My point is; you freaked out and killed ants. Its not like killing them one by one was turning you on. You aint a mass murderer. Just be and accept. Always learn from every action.. Most importantly dont worry too much, buddha isnt gonna be mad at you or anything.
If a tiger killed you, it wouldnt suffer afterwards. So why should you?
Be a tiger my friend..
Does Buddhism lead to gullible-ism?
Oh my! (stashes the DVD copy of "Arachnophobia"....)
It's a subject where folks get to exchange their observations with others..
I'll leave the teasing concern for my ego to fret over.
(see my first post)
LOL
Feel the same about bedbugs?
Poisonous snakes?
Poisonous spiders?
:om:
Vinlyn asked about poisonous snakes, and spiders... obviously we know your point.
I would dislike killing them just as much, but if I saw a black widow I might kill it quicker without being just....etc..
but I just had a great realization.. part of our job is killing too.. every precept can be flipped and unavoidably applied.
killing, stealing , lying , sexual misconduct and intoxication..
if any of these are skilfully applied I believe they can have purpose..they just have a really low percentage of being skillful ...but u know if u only live in the 90% and don't understand the 10% first hand, how can u say that u are really 100%
i have a feeling if u are TOO pure you can't realize enlightenment..
i remember hearing someone say something like, realization of delusion is enlightenment, realization of enlightenment is delusion.. or something..