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What can motivate us to practice?
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Dukkha.....Plain and simple.
Initially my motivation was the sense of peace and calm I got from meditation. It is what established a habitual practice for me (in regards to sitting and studying). I find great joy in practicing but it is a different type of joy from the "Oh I'm so happy" kind of joy we find in pleasurable things. It's more a joy in knowing I am taking care of things. Kind of like brushing my teeth. The joy is a motivation but at the same time it isn't really what keeps me coming back. The only thing that keeps me coming back is the results. The people I know who have practiced for many years, or even most of their lifetimes, exude it. As I read, a Dharmic person is obvious. You can tell when someone has trained themselves. I find that to be true, and that also motivates me. Not to be just like them, but to know it is possible.
Just do it every day for a month. It soon is a habit.
I liked reading Adyashanti youtube because it inspired me since Adya meditated in his past so much.
Another reason is that I believe in what Buddha teaches. My heart is in faith.
The weariness of its alternative.
Results.
Subtle.
Need time.
Prostrations, metta bhavna or chanting if meditation too hard . . .
I'm just starting out in meditation - the biggest problem I've had is trying to keep my mind from wondering. Sometimes I count my breath, other times I I think about why I feel a certain way about a subject.
I've had best results with meditating a few minutes at a time, stopping, and then resuming once I've got my mind "back on task." That goal is to extend it to a full period of course, but easing in with baby steps is an excellent starting point. (At least for me, but I hope it helps everyone else too!)
You have a mind? [lobster faints] Wish I could find 'one'.
Gentle refocus. Turning back to practice. Again and again. Kindly. Patiently. Way to go . . .
That sounds exactly like some of my meditations after 13 years of practice.
@Jeffrey
Have you practiced everyday for 13 years?
No, shanyin.. You mean meditate? I think I had refuge for the last 13 years though. But for awhile it was hard to break the skin to meditate. It had like a skin of dread to cut through.
I have meditated every day for at least 30 minutes for the past two years. And I have been steadily going through a long distance (with lama) course since 2006. I finished the course and am studying Trungpa and Pema Chodron's teachings on lojong (tonglen) right now. When I finish I will take my Lama's second course.
@shanyin don't feel discouraged if you aren't practicing for some period. There is a space. Always a space to practice. One day the penny will drop (with faith) and a person has less impediments to practice. IMHO YMMV TLDR