Welcome home! Please contact lincoln@icrontic.com if you have any difficulty logging in or using the site. New registrations must be manually approved which may take several days. Can't log in? Try clearing your browser's cookies.
Recuperating from Surgery
Hey guys! Wednesday I had my breast reduction. It went great. I'm still sore, but not nearly as bad as I thought I would be. They took out the drains this morning and that was the worst part overall. Now it's R&R for me 
0
Comments
Here's me wishing you a speedy, full and comfortable recovery!
Brings a whole new meaning to 'lighten up'!! Well done you!
Loads of love 'n' hugs, (not too tight...!)
Federica :bigclap:
DharmaKitten,
I wish you a speedy recovery. It's good to hear from you.
Adiana
I'm sure it helps relieve some back stress, those things are no joke
If you don't mind, can you let me in on all the nitty gritty of the op? I am looking at having the same thing done in about six months...
Well, it wasn't as bad as I thought. I'm sore, but painkillers help. In fact, I haven't even need them for the past couple days. The worst part was having the drains taken out, but they did it quickly. In the procedure that I had, the doc basically cut off the nipple except for a stem of nerves and mammary tissue, then trimmed it down to size and replaced it further up. Then he cut the tissue below and reform it. I'll have a circular scar around my nipple, one vertical below it, and then one horizontal at the base. None of it will show in a bikini and it's all done under general anesthesia in a few hours. I was home the same night.
The best resource for me has been the community "breastreduction" on http://www.livejournal.com. I've been posting there about my day to day experiences. There's quite a few other people on there at varying stages both pre- and post-op.
If you have any further questions I'm happy to answer here or on LiveJournal.
Nope, not too bold at all. I'm an open book. I got a redux because I was a 38 G (same as a DDDD). Seeing how most women when they get an augmentation go to a C, that's pretty big.
Honestly, it was a hard decision because I didn't know how I'd feeling letting go of a part of myself like that. However, I've had constant back pain for the past few years and I couldn't jog or do anything bouncy even with the best sports bra on. It's really sad since I pretty much stopped riding horses after puberty despite having two back home (they're now deceased, unfortunately).
Other secondary bonuses are that cloths are going to fit better, I'll be able actually find nice cloths that fix, I won't have to buy bras at specialty stores, etc. Plus, I've found that guys really do treat large chested women differently. When I was 12 I looked like a porn star. Guys thought I was in my 20's and must be loose since no one was that skinny and had boobs that big naturally (or so they thought). I've always had to watch how I dress to avoid too much attention.
For the record, I'm doing great. I'm still swollen and sore, but I'm getting back to my normal routine slowly but surely. Fortunately, I've had the wonderful support of my mom, hubby, and mother-in-law - as well as a bunch of dear friends (and I count you all in that group). I'll keep you posted.
I am so glad to hear that your convalescence is going well.
It is sad that the cosmetic use of reconstructive surgery for fashion has given it such a bad name. It is vital for so many people. I have always said that anyone with a belief in "Intelligent Design" should come and look at the tens of thousands (probably millions) of children born with physical or mental challenges. They should look at how often the body grows in unskillful ways. If that is "Intelligence", we may have to change the definition!
Just think of the fun you will have, choosing new clothes. And you may have some conversations with men who actually look at your face!
Glad to see you're in good spirits! Like I told you before, my wife when through the same thing as you, and over 10 years later, is still happy she did it.
Treat yourself to the Melting Pot or something when you fully recover!
Simon.....unfortunately, most men do not look at your face regardless of your breast size! I am small, and some men still seem to look right there rather than at my face!
Dharmakitten - glad to hear you are doing well!! And like Simon said, I am sure you will have a great time shopping!
I drove by there tonight (actually my mom did the driving) and thought how much I'd love to go. I went once and loved the food. Unfortunately, the first and last time we went my hubby didn't enjoy the experience as much as I did. Our waiter was awful and my hubby didn't find enough meat to fill him up. I wish he wasn't such a picky eater! Maybe I can convince him because of the surgeries, though. Wish me luck. It'd be worth it just for desert.
You can always just go there for a yummy desert! They do amazing things with chocholate
I can feel your pain...somewhat. I have always been small, but when I was pregnant and breastfeeding - OH MY! It looked like I had implants! I went from a small B cup to a big D cup. It was awful. I tried to go running and I couldn't. I was so uncomfortable. Now that I am done breastfeeding, I am back to my normal size and very happy about it! I can only imagine how hard it is to have large breasts all the time!
Melting Pot - YUMMY! My hubby and I love that place and have gone there several times. Their desserts are definitely the best!