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Cessation of Suffering Can't Happen In Your Life
I was reading a Sutra (a handout I got from a Zen lecture) called "The Essense of Mahayana Practice" by Bodhidharma (with annotations.) In one of the annotations, it said "to have a body is to suffer. Birth, aging, illness, and death are all afflictions of the body that are unavoidable as long as one has a physical body."
And this is all true. Who would deny this? How can we even think we can end all suffering? Perhaps the Four Noble Truths are there to minimize suffering? Or cessation can happen, but not while we're alive?
Let's hear your thoughts.
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I think those who have learnt, understood, known and accepted the 4NT are capable of perceiving what their suffering is. And whilst this is all we have, and as such, must suffer in this way, we don't have to suffer in every way.
Instead, let's understand that the primary goal of Buddhism is immediate: to end suffering now. How do we suffer? By taking things the wrong way. This is mental. We suffer because we are ignorant of the true nature of reality, and in our ignorance our mind creates a false self and supports it with attachments. This self desires permanence in an impermanent reality; inevitably, it is always disappointed.
What you call suffering of the body is just life. You can't live and not feel pain; pain is there for a reason. All things are. This is something to be embraced as a part of the experience that we get to have. True you should avoid the harmful, but do not misunderstand it.
Dukkha, which is better called "unsatisfactoriness", is an attribute of the entire universe and all of its component parts. We don't "get away" from all forms of dukkha, but we can end that which is purely of our own delusion. That is liberation. That is true freedom.
We can end suffering through our perception of it and our attitude towards it and through the results of our meditation practice.
An enlightened being ceases to suffers mentally.(while alive)
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It's simply a question of understanding the concept of the two arrows.....
Liberation in the Dhammic sense is freedom from mental not physical pain. The aggregates are still there.
Nibbana with remainder is used to describe this state and parinibbana with the final death of the arahant.
That's all it is? Understanding it? You never experience pain as dukkha then?
I experience pain as pain. But I don't attach any 'woe is me' misery to it.
I get pain, it intensifies, I notice I hurt, it fades, it passes.
What's so difficult about that?
Of course the body feels pain, and the mind will always recognize its presence. That doesn't mean that the pain has to trigger or involve us in emotional, aversive responses.
(Pulling the motherhood trump) ... I gave birth naturally, with no medication, and I observed the pain and let it do its thing but it didn't carry me along. I did not experience it as painful, but I watched the interplay of pain and fatigue, and the rise and fall of attempted-instinctive responses to pain. I visualized myself as a cork, floating on the ocean, rising and falling with the waves, but staying in position and not moved by them. And this was just plain-old cognitive attitudes ... I can only imagine what it must be like for an enlightened one.
I don't know. Ask a cancer patient.
Physical pain is not suffering (debatable definitions sure). When there is no I-ing happening, the pain is alone. The pain is only happening to the pain. There is no suffering, no little captain, no little sufferer. People who have heard the Dharma and digested it, during a serious illness involving pain can sometimes spontaneously "give up the ghost" and realize non-suffering in the midst of it. My partner who was a cancer patient last year went through this.
You're making an assumption I'm not one.
Pulling this trump is not a reasonable argument.
First of all, it's not a pain that can be common to all.
Secondly, childbirth pain is different for every woman, and it cannot be used as an accurate measure of pain.
My labour with my eldest daughter lasted seven hours from the waters breaking, to her being born at 7-and-a-half pounds..
Her labour lasted 22 hours, and she needed a caesarian to deliver her 11lb boy. .
Two completely different experiences for two genetically-connected women. never have I seen such a disparity in experience!
Thirdly, it is a pain that can be forgotten. I personally have spoken to many women who have had children, and we all agree that the type of pain peculiar to childbirth cannot be remembered in any significant detail.
Whereas the pain I felt when I broke my ankle five years ago, still makes me physically sick to think about it.
I know and understand the two arrow parable. There are times when I can actively practice it. Sometimes it isn't enough, and pain can become so severe that I still find my mind agonizing over the physical pain even if in only the subtlest ways. As Richard said: "Suffering can be ended now. The moment you put it down. You pick it up again, but then you put it down again. It goes on like that, putting suffering down over and over again, tending to pick it up less over time."
But you're making it sound like it's a total non-issue as if simply knowing that there are two distinct elements to pain - the physical and mental - and that they aren't mutually exclusive is enough to totally eliminate the needless mental suffering that we tend to tag on to the experience.
Perhaps I'm wrong and you would be able to experience even the most severe forms of torture in perfect equanimity. I admittedly doubt it, though.
:skeptical Wait a minute...
That is because we are not enlightened beings? We still cling to the ego in the most subtle ways thus when physical suffeirng arises we pick it up as mine?
actually, sometimes it may help. the extreme pain make it obvious.
Where you can truly detach yourself for the body and simply observe it.
I've had this experience with a severe migraine during a retreat (away from my then vital prescription meds .
Something that helped me was that at one point, i figured that even if the pain would intensify by a thousand, and stay forever, it will never affect me (the observer). So after that i could look at the pain, and truly be okay/indifferent with it to stay for as long as it wanted.
Soon after the pain completely dissipated.
I've had migraines since i was 3 years old (one of my first memory was to be in the hospital getting 30 electrodes inserted in my skull...)
Usually completely disabling me for the day, throwing up and in complete misery. Just a pain that i always consider unimaginable for someone who never experience something like this. I always thought that if somebody who did not know that such pain was possible, if that person would get one of my migraine, this person would believe that he was dying, would freak out and be in a ambulance shortly after.
But I did not suffer any migraine ever since the day i truly let go of my craving for controlling the pain, and it dissipated.
Ajahn Brahm had a similar experience with a serious tooth ache.
(scroll down and read Ajahn Brahm tooth ache story)
http://lola-jameson.com/painrelief.html
Yours in the Dharma,
Todd
Yes, childbirth comes in all forms and packages. Not only does the course of labor itself vary, but the experience of that course varies too. I taught childbirth classes for 6 years, and coached many a woman through her labour and delivery. As for my personal experience, I never spoke of as a teacher, because my mandate was to help each woman find her own footing with it.
You will notice that I spoke in this forum only from my own experience. If it does not match your own experience, that does not invalidate it. And yes, I do remember it all in great detail, perhaps because I was mindful and unmedicated and not trying to run from it. At your request, I can supply the details.
Not so simple I'm afraid.
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http://www.dhammaweb.net/Tipitaka/read.php?id=178
And found it to be the most overwhelmingly incredible experience I have ever had. It's matchless, in my opinion.
No argument here.
And I don't. This is what I practice. Whenever I feel intense pain, I consider the point of origin, and try to visualise what is happening within my body at that point. And I tell myself that "THis too shall pass, it's only pain".
No, it's not a total non-issue. Until we make it so. Pain in the physical sense, and pain in the mental sense are not synonymous. One can feel mental anguish without physical anguish. Therefore to permit one's self to feel mental anguish at the same time as physical anguish manifests, is unnecessary.
Right now, so do I. But I have the deepest of respect for those who can and have. If they can do it, why not I?
yes, that's why I highlighted that it makes me physically sick.
The pain of my breaking my ankle was so intense that actually it succeeded in wiping all thought from my mind, for at least a minute. It was so intense, I turned grey, and actually vomited. And I can still 'feel' that pain. And when I think of the level of pain I experienced, it makes me nauseous.
Just as seeing a needle goes into somebody's arm, does. Watching pain being inflicted onto another being (for whatever reason) is stomach-churning to me, and if done on purpose, it's a reprehensible action.
They say you good never overcome suffering if you only chop at the branches.
That is why in meditation you chop at the root. Even with a body if the root is chopped away you will experience pain as sensitivity rather than suffering.
You suffer as long as you think end is near. For that, the cure is detachment. You know that one day you'll age and die, and you'll be reborn again (if you haven't reached Nirvana, and if rebirth is real) but don't add too much sentimental value to it.
That's the way I like it, uhh huh, uhh huh:)
Sorry to be goofy, but total cessation of suffering is the point. Not someday, but now.
Who is in harmony with what? Who is the temporary owner of the skandhas? Wha? This seems like a different kettle of fish than you've posted before.
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That essence will always be compassion
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I think your assumptions are misguided. I think if you are open enough it might be useful to find a real life teacher and sangha. Be open enough though. You can continue meditating of course but the point about death is not consistent with any Buddhist teachings, and Buddhas' are in the business of enlightenment.
Best wishes.
Isn't the purpose of meditation to clear your mind of all thoughts? The only reason we experience pain and displeasure is because of thought. Pain comes in the form of electrical signals to the brain.
http://newbuddhist.com/forum/showpost.php?p=88382&postcount=1
And the point of that is to bring the mind into harmony with the true nature of reality, and in such a state there is no mental dukkha because of this full understanding that has been developed in meditation. The mental processes are changed on the fundamental level, at the root; at the core. Because the very base foundation, the beginnings of all mental fermentation, has been transformed... nothing unwholesome can arise in the mind.
We are removing the conditions for mental dukkha by supplanting our ignorance with correct understanding. That is Right View. That is Wisdom. It can not be given, not be told, but must be developed because the mind must change one step at a time. It takes longer for some than for others, because all is based on conditionality.
Because if they noticed it were thoughtless that noticing itself would be a thought....
Nirvana is not thoughtless. Rather there is equanimity towards thoughts. Thoughts are not angels or devils. (not saying there is no discernment however)
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Actually, total cessation of suffering is precisely The Middle Way.
Total ignoring and denial of suffering is unreal.
Extreme pandering to suffering is too engrossed and clinging and grasping.
Cessation of suffering - that is, understanding it and knowing it, dealing with it without attachment - Is the Middle Way.
Oh, and incidentally, it's -
"That's the way uhh huh, uhh huh I like it, uhh huh, uhh huh"
If you're going to quote great 'KC and the Sunshine band' timeless classics, at least get them right....:rolleyes:
That's the way I like it, uhh huh, uhh huh
Was bhikkhu Channa enlightened?
No clinging to 5 khandhas as me, mine and myself.
It doesn't seem like he was enlightened. He was merely answering venerable Sariputt's questions. If he was enlightened then the other two monks probably had no reason to give him advice on not-self don't you think?
This is a perfect example of the view that is to be avoided. Ordinary physical death and Nirvana are not even comparable situations.
What makes you feel that a state of thoughlessness is something you need to achieve?