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Atheism

How is it like to be an Atheist? How do you justify being one, and are people judgmental towards you because you dont believe in relgion?
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  • edited September 2005
    I suppose that would have to depend on the area you live in...

    Hm... a thought just occured to me.

    Are Buddhists Atheists?
  • SimonthepilgrimSimonthepilgrim Veteran
    edited September 2005
    Being an atheist is just like anything else: some get very hooked on it and 'preach', others simply get on with their lives. There are all sorts of atheists and, if you trawl the Net for discussion boards, you'll find that they/we have as many arguments about non-existence as the theists do about existence of 'God', 'gods', 'devas', and who knows what.

    From an a-theist (I can explain that later if you like) point of view, the whole 'god' thing is a Supreme Irrelevance and requires no justification. Anybody with a ha'porth of sense can see that we are not governed by some big old bloke in the sky who loves us unconditionally, so let's just get on and do the best we can. This 'best' can, and is, illuminated by great and holy thinkers and (possibly mythic, certainly legendary) figures like Plato, Moses, Jesus, Gautama, Gandhi, MLK, Homer, Rumi, Padmasambhava and countless others from every culture.
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited September 2005
    "I'm an aetheist - I can't help it: it's the way God made me."

    (Attributed to Lucy in "Peanuts, featuring good Ol' Charlie Brown!" But others may have different ideas....!)
  • edited September 2005
    I pretty much agree with Simon. Personally, I don't see much to justify. Being an atheist simply means I don't have a belief in a diety. It seems like a rather logical, default position until I come across convincing evidence to the contrary. Of course, I used to be a Christian. The change happened when I realized that all the arguments in support of that deity - or others - seemed pretty circular, silly, and/or hollow. I can't really say much about what it's like to "be an atheist" because on the whole it feels a lot like it did when I wasn't an atheist. Even as a Catholic there were people telling me I was going to hell. The big differences for me is that I personally don't have a belief in an afterlife - something that takes a while to deal with, and I now realize that little voice in my head is just me talking to myself - something I wish a lot of wacko extremists out there would figure out. I do feel a bit more discrimination, but I generally don't go around telling people an atheist. I'm more likely to say that I'm Buddhist than atheist. Both are true (yes, you can be both), but Buddhism comes closer to being an actual religion than atheism does.

    While I don't experience too much personal discrimination, I am more sensitive to discrimination to atheists in general. At least in the U.S., atheists are portrayed very poorly in the media - especially when the pledge of allegiance or religious displays on government land are brought up. It's as if we're all mean people just looking out for ourselves and trying to ruin everyone else's fun - which is certainly not the case. I occasionally get emails forwarded to me talking about how all the atheists (as well as other non-Christians) should all "sit down and shut up" since the majority of the country is Christian. It presents an awkward situation since some of those emails have come from family members who don't know I'm atheist - and I don't plan on telling them, either.

    In general, though, since we are a minority here - and a rather silent/invisible one at that - I think a lot of people forget that we are just normal people, too.
  • buddhafootbuddhafoot Veteran
    edited September 2005
    ... Anybody with a ha'porth of sense can see that we are not governed by some big old bloke in the sky who loves us unconditionally, so let's just get on and do the best we can...

    Oh really, Mr. SmartyPants.

    Ever see this dude?

    -bf
    god.JPG 15.8K
  • SimonthepilgrimSimonthepilgrim Veteran
    edited September 2005
    Very small, flat and fuzzy, isn't he. Not much to worry about there, then!
  • buddhafootbuddhafoot Veteran
    edited September 2005
    Very small, flat and fuzzy, isn't he. Not much to worry about there, then!

    I just couldn't find a bigger picture of him on the internet and my copy of Month Python and The Holy Grail is at home.

    My bad.

    -bf
  • edited September 2005
    "Stop grovelling, stop it! Everytime I try to talk to someone. it's always sorry this and forgive me that!"__God
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited September 2005
    Isn't it typical that on God's one day off, we pester him all the time.....

    "What?!? It's my Day off, for My sake! Oh, look.... just leave a message, I'll get back to you....OK???!!???"
  • edited September 2005
    Im not sure what to believe anymore but I found buddhism to be quite intersesting I guess I would call my self a "weak athiest" one who doesnt deny the existence of a supreme being or beings but just simply doesnt believe. This isnt agnosticism though.
  • SimonthepilgrimSimonthepilgrim Veteran
    edited September 2005
    This is, I think, NirvanaNoob, what I call a-theism. When I am in this 'place', I neither believe nor disbelieve, belief in a Supreme Being is irrelevant.

    It is at times of a-theism, that I remember and enjoy some of Voltaire's last words. He was asked by a pious friend if he did not think that, dying, he ought not to ask God (in whom he had gravest doubts) for forgiveness. Voltaire replied: "Of course he'll forgive me. C'est son metier (That's his job)"

    It is quite possible (perhaps actually easier) to live a full human life when the whole 'God' thing is seen as irrelevant.

    I have spent the better part of my life studying spirituality, religion, history, legend and myth. It is a most wonderful pastime but not serious, like being a baker or raising a family. It's no more (nor less) important than a passion for jazz or postage stamps. But I do think it's important to have a passion.
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited September 2005
    Voltaire also pointed out that

    "it should be no more surprising to be born twice than it was to have been born once!"

    Methinks this man was well-versed in more matters than prose....
  • buddhafootbuddhafoot Veteran
    edited September 2005
    That's a great quote, Fede. Thanks for posting it.

    I have to say that I have a hard time wrapping my mind around the thought of "reincarnation" without a little smirk.

    I also think quite a bit about how a bunch of muscle, bone and tissue can recognize itself as being "Me".

    This kind of puts the idea of reincarnation in a better light for me.

    If it happened once - why can't it happen again?

    -bf
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited September 2005
    buddhafoot wrote:
    That's a great quote, Fede. Thanks for posting it.

    I have to say that I have a hard time wrapping my mind around the thought of "reincarnation" without a little smirk.

    I also think quite a bit about how a bunch of muscle, bone and tissue can recognize itself as being "Me".

    This kind of puts the idea of reincarnation in a better light for me.

    If it happened once - why can't it happen again?

    -bf

    No problem.... :)

    Don't forget that there is a distinct difference, definitively, between 'Reincarnation' and 'Re-Birth'....

    And it's not the Muscle bone and tissue that is 'you'....
    If (Heaven Forbid - sorry to use the phrase in the atheism thread - !!) you were to lose an arm.... you'd be no less 'you' than you were with it.... putting aside the obvious emotional distress and adjustment you'd have to make, in essence, you'd still be Buddhafoot.... if you wear glasses to read, you are no less a person when you take them off... Your physical 'You' is not who you are..... It is your "Mind" that determines 'who' you are.... your emotions are not you: they are phases you pass through...you're not angry or happy or sad ALL the time, are you.....? So.... Who are 'You'? ;)
  • buddhafootbuddhafoot Veteran
    edited September 2005
    And it's not the Muscle bone and tissue that is 'you'...

    My point exactly.

    On another thread, I was making the point about how a lump of fat (which is what our brain is - albeit a specialized piece of fat) allows us to recognize ourselves. It's just tissue - so why doesn't the fat around my waist do the same thing? Or why at all?

    But, I guess it's a good thing the fat around my waist doesn't act like my brain. It's gotten to big, I'd have mutiple personalities by now...

    -bf
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited September 2005
    Oh! You have a BuddhaBelly too - !! :p:lol:
  • SimonthepilgrimSimonthepilgrim Veteran
    edited September 2005
    Whence comes this delusion that you only have one personality, BF/Jason?
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited September 2005
    "Whence"..... lovely word, 'whence'.....!)


    I was going to ask them the same question....
  • buddhafootbuddhafoot Veteran
    edited September 2005
    Well,

    At one point I would have said, "Because I know I only have one personality."

    But now, it really doesn't matter how many personalities I have. That's my middle-way response. I think I only have one - but why form an attachment or label to however many I have.

    On the other hand, you referred to me as "Jason" - so maybe I do have some issues... :)

    -bf
  • edited September 2005
    buddhafoot wrote:
    .

    I also think quite a bit about how a bunch of muscle, bone and tissue can recognize itself as being "Me".

    -bf

    i quite like what Shakira (the Columbian pop singer) said: atoms that have come together to ponder the fact of their existence.
  • edited September 2005
    I've latched onto another way of saying the same thing, which I got from Carl Sagan. Astomomers say that ll the atoms bigger than hydrogen were fused inside stars (hydrogen is just one proton). We and everything around us is made out of stuff that was made in stars. Some time after I heard the idea in an astronomy class, I was stargazing and suddenly got the overwhelming sence that all those stars were my relatives (I think this idea was my first notion of interbeing :wow: ).

    Hence, we are starstuff that knows it exists. ;)
  • edited September 2005
    twobitbob wrote:
    i quite like what Shakira (the Columbian pop singer) said: atoms that have come together to ponder the fact of their existence.

    That's weird. My hubby came up with pretty much the same idea. Sounds good to me.
  • edited September 2005
    question

    i looked at a globe today (its been a while) it was weird to see usa and iraq/afghan on complete opisite sides of the globe like that. and then the first two things to come to my head are the bible and qoran. it really made it clear even for a dumbass like me that something had to happen and better now than before every country has nukes or whatever the future brings it only takes one country to divide the world or at least thats what it seems. or would other countrys setting good examples bring understanding/peace before that time came? anyway that little moment i had with myself got me lookin at the countries near the USA and Iraq and their religions. you can just see it pan in some places. i found http://www.adherents.com/Religions_By_Adherents.html
    googled buddist and ended up here & d/led some of the audio for later. are christianity and islam the only two with a big fat book to read and find the awnsers youre looking for? or the only 2 ''religions''sorry if youve all done what im doing already but this is just new for me. they all want peace, and theres the zeta reticuli
  • SimonthepilgrimSimonthepilgrim Veteran
    edited September 2005
    Welcome, Basedonfaith!

    You say
    it was weird to see usa and iraq/afghan on complete opisite sides of the globe like that.
    and, indeed, that is true. Afghanistan, Iraq and, more importantly today, Iran, are so far away from the USA that it is impossible for them to deliver a nuclear weapon onto US soil. Even at the height of the Cold War, ICBMs were so expensive that only the US and the USSR had funds to divert to such fripperies.
  • edited September 2005
    Even though Ive held an interest in buddhism and athieism/agnosticsm I have decided Im going to go back to christianity. I guess im really a christian at heart.
  • edited September 2005
    Even though Ive held an interest in buddhism and athieism/agnosticsm I have decided Im going to go back to christianity. I guess im really a christian at heart.

    I wish you well.
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited September 2005
    I guess it doesn't matter what you label yourself as, providing you are above all, True to yourself. I hope you don''t mean you're going to stop visiting though... it's always nice to have you here and read your posts. :)
  • ajani_mgoajani_mgo Veteran
    edited September 2005
    May the Force be with you. You will always be welcome still in our e-sangha.
  • edited September 2005
    thank you all for supporting my decsion. That is what the world needs it needs more religious tolerance. If we had more tolerance of other relgions, there would be less bloodshed and more peace. Not many christians do but I repect all relgions as long as they do not promote violence. It doesnt matter what relgion you are. As human beings we all should stop making judgements and strive to make the most of are lives.
  • edited September 2005
    Good luck, wherever your path leads :)
  • SimonthepilgrimSimonthepilgrim Veteran
    edited September 2005
    (I don't think you'll abandon Buddhist thought that easily, NN! It does not conflict, at bottom, with Christianity. May your time of studying the Dharma illuminate your path and may Lord Jesus be your door, as long as you need Him!
  • edited September 2005
    actually federica I might not ocme back to the forums for quite some time my mom doesnt like my sudden interest in buddhism and eastern relgion.
  • buddhafootbuddhafoot Veteran
    edited September 2005
    Hmmm... that doesn't sound like a choice that was made of "free will".

    Whatever the case - if we don't see you - I'm sure you know we wish you the best in whatever path you choose.

    -bf
  • NirvanaNirvana aka BUBBA   `     `   South Carolina, USA Veteran
    edited January 2006
    "If it turns out that there is a God, I don't think that he's evil. But the worst that you can say about him is that basically he's an underachiever." --Woody Allen

    Anybody seen Match Point yet?

    Here are more: Woody Allen Quotes

    I believe many of us have atheistic strands in us that bob up to the surface when people foist their unthinking, platitudinous words on us. I remember Gilbert O'Sullivan's song from the 1970s, "Alone Again, Naturally." It had a verse:

    "To think that only yesterday,
    I was cheerful, bright and gay,
    Looking forward to, but who wouldn't do,
    The role I was about to play
    But as if to knock me down,
    Reality came around
    And without so much as a mere touch,
    Cut me into little pieces
    Leaving me to doubt,
    All about God and His mercy
    For if He really does exist
    Why did He desert me
    In my hour of need?
    I truly am indeed,
    Alone again, naturally."

    A country singer changed the words and said "I know that he exists." This really bothered me on esthetic grounds, since it completely ruined the poetry, i.e. the meaning of the song for me. The impossibility of the notion to doubt God for even an instant is JUST PHONEY and harmful to the spirit of truth. And Jesus said we should worship "God" "in spirit and truth."

    Atheism, in my opinion, need not be "being against God" or "against Belief" per se. For me, it mainly means "being against the grain of cut-and-dry Theism." Theism, as I see it, accomplishes nothing, save the clouding of the eyes to perhaps greater and simpler truths. If people want spiritual awakening, they should listen to the words of the spiritual teachers, and not to the labels of their followers.

    Sincerely,

    Nirvana (curious worker bee)



  • edited January 2006
    NN, I really would suggest not even thinking about Buddhism for a few years, but have a feeling you'll ignore this advice and be back within nine weeks.
  • edited January 2006
    Perhaps NN (or his Mum) had reached his own Nirvana too easily? :tonguec:
  • edited January 2006
    I'm just going to publicise my new Anti Label Movement - apart from on foodstuffs! Too much energy is wasted on fitting ourselves into pigeonholes. It's not black and white, it's any number of shades of any colour and we are made up of all of them.

    I would imagine very few people on here were brought up Buddhist from the beginning so we bring shades of colour from all our previous spiritual experiences so we'd all have to cover ourselves in sticky labels saying "Ex catholic, pagan, buddhist" etc which is patently silly.

    My first reaction on meeting a new person isn't what sexuality, race, religion, nationality etc etc they are ... it's ooooh new person, how exciting! (but then I don't get out much!)
  • BrigidBrigid Veteran
    edited January 2006
    Bravo, Knitwitch. I'm in total agreement. Labels are useful up to a point. But when we let ourselves be defined by them they become a barrier.
    I remember when I was writing and playing songs, just me, my guitar and a mike, for benefits and folk festivals and Take Back the Night concerts about ten years ago. For the Peterborough Folk Festival (in Canada) the organizer was writing short biographies of all the performers and he was running them by us before he got them printed. For mine he had written that I was a feminist songwriter and he was so off the mark. I asked him to just call me a songwriter because none of my music was political in any way. It was strong music and he mistook that for feminism. I wrote a lot of my songs with the intention of having men hear them, not just women. The last thing I wanted was to marginalize my own music. It was SOO not feminist. It was just written from a female perspective. That's all. He was very gracious and understood immediately. He had a lot of experience with artists. I am many, many things on the surface of my current being. My identity was already narrowed. I couldn't let it become THAT narrowed.

    On a completely different note, can anyone tell me what this smiley means? Is it rude?
    :PWNED:
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited January 2006
    I asked that... it's Technology-speak... it means 'owned' in other words, that whoever sends it to you has claimed the topic as their own, and they're right in their argument... and they 'own' you because they're having the last word.... or something.... I think... I dunno... who cares....?? :lol:
  • NirvanaNirvana aka BUBBA   `     `   South Carolina, USA Veteran
    edited January 2006
    Doesn't everybody look at the date a post was entered? September 29th, the date of the post before mine, seemed pretty dead to me, so it never occurred to me to treat with NirvanaNoob's original "issue" (Besides, I've seen fresh posts by him since I found this site on 29 Dec.). I don't mean to be nitpicking here, therefore I mean the OPEN QUESTION sincerely and with no intention of getting anyone's dander up. Besides, I've noticed with some DELIGHT that lots of people here kinda change the subject.

    NONETHELESS, I WAS NOT SPEAKING ABOUT MERE LABELS. I'm speaking about disingenuous thinking or believing. It's simply WRONG to preach that there's a subject which cannot be questioned. Such preaching, by word or example, crushes the human spirit's integrity.


    MYSELF wrote:
    The impossibility of the notion to doubt God for even an instant is JUST PHONEY and harmful to the spirit of truth. And Jesus said we should worship "God" "in spirit and in truth."
    Now, if people are so insecure in their "religious opinions," that they cannot for a second question them, what we have is more akin to Fascism than to mere labelling or party factioning. Just my opinion.

    Sincerely,

    Nirvana
    The Luminous Sun Is Always Shining.
    Those Who Say It's Not Are Merely Deceived
    By the Clouds
    Or by
    Being on the Wrong Side of the Gentle Earth
    At Their Particular Time.
  • edited January 2006
    Good point Nirvana, but aside from being off as to timing, I'll stand by what I said.
  • NirvanaNirvana aka BUBBA   `     `   South Carolina, USA Veteran
    edited January 2006
    AS WELL YOU SHOULD, friend ZenMonk Genryu!
  • JasonJason God Emperor Arrakis Moderator
    edited January 2006
    All,

    Language is not necessarily a villain. The conventions of the world are often quite useful. Without them we could not communicate. Even the Buddha himself used worldly conventions when he taught [if nobody has already noticed there are thousands of Suttas!]. The only problem is that when we attach to those conventions out of avijja (ignorance) we help to condition our own fetters to suffering. This forms a sense of self, an "I", me, mine that becomes associated with those conventions. When we have a view of self, we have craving arise out of that--craving to get, craving to remove, and craving to stay the same. Once the false shroud of self is cast off like a dirty rag, however, there is no longer anything left which produces suffering. Why is that? Because we can then clearly see phenomenon as they truly are. In and of themselves, words have no inherent existence. When words are perceived as they actually are, they are only perceptions [their meaning to you], mental formations [when thought], and sound [as heard].

    :)

    Jason
  • edited January 2006
    A Few Entertaining Atheist Quotes I came by earlier!

    You believe in a book that has talking animals, wizards, witches, demons, sticks turning into snakes, food falling from the sky, people walking on water, and all sorts of magical, absurd and primitive stories, and you say that we are the ones that need help?
    - Dan Barker, Losing Faith in Faith :bigclap:


    "The hope of science is the perfection of the human race. The hope of theology is the salvation of a few and the damnation of almost everybody."
    - Robert Ingersoll


    "If a person wants to be atheistic it's his God-given right to be an atheist."

    —Michael Patton


    Hehe....Just thought I'd share...
  • edited February 2006
    Buddhism is a form of atheism, viz the lack of belief in creator(s). Rather it is a pragmatic (and practical) philosophy on finding a solution to the ills of life, viz an end to suffering.
  • NirvanaNirvana aka BUBBA   `     `   South Carolina, USA Veteran
    edited February 2006
    OK, OK, so I'm not really an Atheist. DUH.

    But I sure do have a HUGE Atheistic streak in me, dog-gone-it!

    I LOVE ATHEISTS BECAUSE THEY ARE THE MOST TRUTHFUL PEOPLE IN THE WORLD.

    DOG GONE IT!!!!!!

    GOD- BE- WITH- YOU- ALL- AND- MAY- HE- BRING- YOU- TO- THE- BUDDHA'S- TRUTH-!!!!


  • edited February 2006
    LOL!
  • edited February 2006
    When we have a view of self, we have craving arise out of that--craving to get, craving to remove, and craving to stay the same. Once the false shroud of self is cast off like a dirty rag, however, there is no longer anything left which produces suffering. Why is that? Because we can then clearly see phenomenon as they truly are. In and of themselves, words have no inherent existence. When words are perceived as they actually are, they are only perceptions [their meaning to you], mental formations [when thought], and sound [as heard].

    'View of self' is a technical term in Buddhism. It means precisely to mistake the five aggregates as being the true self. From the commentary to the Sutta-Nipata we read:

    Destruction (uhaccati) of view of self (attanuditthi) means removing the view that one’s being is the body (sakkayaditthi). — SnA 1126

    When we cling to what is not ours, namely, the five aggregates we come to suffering. By the same token, when we don't cling to the false self (the five aggregates) saying na me so atta (this is not my self), we begin the true course of liberation.
  • JasonJason God Emperor Arrakis Moderator
    edited February 2006
    mujaku,

    And, exactly what is ours?

    ;)

    Jason
  • JerbearJerbear Veteran
    edited February 2006
    I am someone who came to Buddhism as my interest in Atheism grew. I had belonged to an Agnostic/Atheist group and one of the members said I sounded more like a Buddhist than an Atheist, as I was claiming to be at the time.

    Atheism is the lack of belief in a Supreme Being

    Agnosticism is one that isn't convinced of the existence or non-existence of a Supreme Being.

    Theism is the belief in a Supreme Being.

    Whatever you believe, the Buddha exhorted us to "Come and see" what he had found. That sentence resonated inside and that's whatever "I" am is drawn to. My philosophical perspective is one as an agnostic. I'm not afraid to question both sides of the issue of a Supreme Being. Like Simon, it is a passion of mine. But, it does nothing to get me further along the Middle Way at this point.

    Nirvana,
    I wish you well in any pursuit you take philosophically. I'm glad you are questioning. It's a really good thing.
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