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Sin and Puritanism in Buddhism

DakiniDakini Veteran
edited January 2011 in Philosophy
The term "Puritanism" has been bandied about this site loosly on occasion, but so-called Puritanical views are not exclusive to Christianity; they can be found in Buddhism as well. Below, a brief comparison, for the sake of discussion. As Mahayana is the source of my instruction, that's the basis of the info representing the Buddhism side.

Christianity:
1) sex is sinful and should be for procreation only

2) Babies are born as sinners

3) Sin originates in the estrangement from the Divine principle. "Sins" (moral errors) are committed as a result of clinging to worldly, rather than spiritual, values.

Buddhism:
1) "Sex is for procreation" --HH the 14th Dalai Lama (www.gaytibet.blogspot.com/2006/12/dalai-lama-and-sexual-minorities.html) Using orifices for sex other than the vagina, or using the hand, is for pleasure and therefore increases attachment. Sex during daytime is prohibited.

2) As soon as a child is born, he/she starts becoming conditioned to the world of illusion, the material world.

3) A "sin" is defined as an unskillful or unwholesome action originating from the erroneous belief that the material world is the true reality. (estrangement from the true nature of reality)

Is a certain amount of "puritanism" inherent in the nature of religion?
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Comments

  • SEX IZ BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I NO LIKE VAGINAS!!!!!!!!!
  • Why say something just for the sake of discussion? I can also find similarities between a ballon and a grashopper if I want to, but is there really any use?
  • Seriously wtf people are starting discussions for the sake of discussion on a discussion board??? What has the world come to...
  • I can find similarities between a ballon and a grashopper
    What's a "ballon"? Is that French? The mods would like us to stick to English. ;)
  • SabreSabre Veteran
    edited January 2011
    It's Dutch for grasshopper. :grumble: :nyah:
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    'non-harming' is the essence

    best to be careful with words like 'unskilful', 'unwholesome', 'sinful', etc

    :)
  • DakiniDakini Veteran
    edited January 2011
    buddhism encourages 'non-harming':)
    Yes, that /is/ a refreshing approach, compared to other religions, for sure, but I was surprised to find that it also seems to encourage non-pleasure (i.e. non-attachment).
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    buddha always encouraged pleasure

    buddha advised there are two kinds of pleasure

    http://www.metta.lk/tipitaka/2Sutta-Pitaka/4Anguttara-Nikaya/Anguttara1/2-dukanipata/007-Sukhavaggo-e.html

    :)
  • DakiniDakini Veteran
    edited January 2011
    Cool, thanks! These other rules are from later commentators, as I plan to elucidate on a new thread coming soon to a computer near you!
    buddha always encourage pleasure
    http://www.metta.lk/tipitaka/2Sutta-Pitaka/4Anguttara-Nikaya/Anguttara1/2-dukanipata/007-Sukhavaggo-e.html
    :)
    But...um...isn't it true that pleasure leads to attachment?

    I checked out your reference, briefly, and he does advocate for ("encourage") renunciation of pleasure and of "pleasantness" as the better choice.

  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    buddha does not "advocate"

    buddha simply said one kind of pleasure is better than the other

    :)

    If by renouncing a lesser happiness
    one may realize a greater happiness,
    let the wise one renounce the lesser,
    having regard for the greater.
    Dhammapada 290

  • So there is such a thing as better?
  • DakiniDakini Veteran
    edited January 2011
    buddha does not "advocate"

    buddha simply said one kind of pleasure is better than the other:)
    Well, yes. Implying that the path to follow is the renunciate path, no? I don't see that as "encouraging pleasure".

  • You can twist anything to resemble anything if you want to. What's the point? I'm not going to become a Christian, but I'm going to continue to study the Dharma and practice Buddhism regardless of whether or not it resembles Christianity in any way, shape, or form.

  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    But...um...isn't it true that pleasure leads to attachment?
    yes

    but the Buddha was not Mahayana. the Buddha did not say the path of non-attachment was suitable for all. the Buddha did not have fantasies about 'saving all sentient beings'

    in the following suttas, the Buddha certainly advocated sensual pleasures in the proper way

    :)

    http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an04/an04.062.than.html
    http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an04/an04.055.than.html

    Having followed the Dhamma here in this world,
    both in tune in precepts & practices,
    they delight in the world of the devas,
    enjoying the pleasures they desire. :nyah:
  • When the Buddhist concept of sin was explained to me, I found it extremely helpful for understanding the Christian concept of sin. It helped to strip the word "sin" of its baggage and to see it as it really is. The concepts are pretty much the same. That was a revelation. We can learn a lot from comparisons.
  • DakiniDakini Veteran
    edited January 2011
    Thank you, Lama DD. :)
  • edited January 2011

    Implying that the path to follow is the renunciate path, no? I don't see that as "encouraging pleasure".

    Why would it not be pleasant to be without desire and attachment?

    .
  • DakiniDakini Veteran
    edited January 2011


    Well, yes. Implying that the path to follow is the renunciate path, no? I don't see that as "encouraging pleasure".

    Why would it not be pleasant to be without desire and attachment?.


    Right, but that wasn't the point DD was trying to make, as I understood it. He was saying the Buddha encouraged sensual pleasure, but said renouncing it is better. The texts he provides are primarily on "householder pleasure".
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    did i say that?

    :-/
  • edited January 2011

    :buck:
  • Why do you all believe that your way is better than someone else's way??? Are you better than them???

  • There's a huge difference between being "good" so that God doesn't disapprove of you, vs. being "good" to reduce your own suffering. The first is based on external validation and fear, the second on simply being healthy.
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    by "better" is meant more sublime, more free, independent, less costly, more within control

    if we can gain more blissful pleasure, at no cost, from mere meditation, surely that is "better" than having to depend on whether my squeeze is horny and still loves me, who I must buy gifts for, take out to expensive restaurants, etc

    buddha said the pleasure of sensuality amounts to 1/16 the pleasure of renunciation

    have we not discovered this for ourselves?

    :om:
    Why do you all believe that your way is better than someone else's way??? Are you better than them???

  • by "better", is meant more sublime, more free, independent, less costly, more within control

    if we can gain more blissful pleasure from mere meditation, surely that is "better" than having to depend on whether my squeeze is horny and still loves me

    :om:
    Sadhu, sadhu !

  • edited January 2011
    Or perhaps the highest form of happiness is simply accepting whatever comes to you as it is. If your squeeze is horny, then have sex with her. You want to. Isn't not doing what you want when the opportunity presents itself suffering? All of these teachings are so you can get to a point where you understand that there is no "bad" situation. There is no "good" situation for you to strive for. All there is is right now. Enjoy it to the fullest!!! Go ahead, break the rules if you feel you must. If you repress something it will simply show up somewhere else. Don't desire things that are not reality, though. Only allow yourself to enjoy what comes into being naturally, or what you can bring into being without attempting to force it.
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    if we can drink the best wine whenever we want, say Domaine Romanée-Conti, why would we drink cheap $2 plonk?

    if one finds the highest happiness, one has no inclination to partake in lower happiness

    for example, the Buddha taught it is not possible for a fully enlightened being (an arahant) to engage in a sexual act

    believe me, if you actually enjoy sex, there will be withdrawal symptoms - guaranteed

    :)
  • if we can drink the best wine whenever we want, say Domaine Romanée-Conti, why would we drink cheap $2 plonk?

    if one finds the highest happiness, one has no inclination to partake in lower happiness

    :)
    Why not enjoy all forms of happiness?
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    often, human beings gain sadistic pleasure from beating up other people or hunting animals

    :-/
  • edited January 2011
    if we can drink the best wine whenever we want, say Domaine Romanée-Conti, why would we drink cheap $2 plonk?

    if one finds the highest happiness, one has no inclination to partake in lower happiness

    :)
    Why not enjoy all forms of happiness?
    Because there is no desire to do so. Lower happiness isn't 'enjoyment' if one finds the highest happiness

    .
  • if we can drink the best wine whenever we want, say Domaine Romanée-Conti, why would we drink cheap $2 plonk?

    if one finds the highest happiness, one has no inclination to partake in lower happiness

    :)
    Why not enjoy all forms of happiness?

    Because there is no desire to do so.
    Then don't. You enjoy whatever you want. I will enjoy the bliss of being without craving, and enjoy the bliss of all that comes with being alive. You can choose whatever you would like.
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    The mind grounded in the stream of Nibbana in meditation knows rapturous pleasure is not happiness. In experience, it is actually very disturbing.

    :rockon:
  • All that I know is happiness. I don't know what this "disturbing" you talk of is.
  • edited January 2011
    "You can choose whatever you would like."

    Thanks very much.


    :)
  • if we can drink the best wine whenever we want, say Domaine Romanée-Conti, why would we drink cheap $2 plonk?

    if one finds the highest happiness, one has no inclination to partake in lower happiness

    for example, the Buddha taught it is not possible for a fully enlightened being (an arahant) to engage in a sexual act

    believe me, if you actually enjoy sex, there will be withdrawal symptoms - guaranteed

    :)
    :thumbsup:

    In Buddhism it known as aggregates, or skandhas, refer to the five aggregates, which are the five components of a sentient being: rūpa (form), vedanā (sensory reception), samjñā (perception), samskāra (mental processing), and vijñāna (consciousness). Skandha means that which covers or conceals. Of the five skandhas, the first one is physical and the remaining four are mental. Since these four are non-form, thus in name only, the five aggregates are summarized as name and form. An ordinary being perceives the existence of a self founded on these five constantly changing skandhas (see sixty-two views). This self-view is a fundamental delusion which hinders one's realization of the truth.
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    I don't know what this "disturbing" you talk of is.
    Obviously

    :om:
  • I don't know what this "disturbing" you talk of is.
    Obviously.

    :om:
    K. So enjoy suffering and disturbing, while I enjoy happiness.

  • K. So enjoy suffering and disturbing, while I enjoy happiness.
    In all fairness, Journey: you may be enjoying happiness as long as your girlfriend is with you (for example). But what happens if she starts seeing someone else, and the relationship with you gets messy? Or she leaves? Suddenly, pain (suffering) enters the picture. DD (following the Buddha) is saying that one can avoid all that drama, and one can experience a much greater bliss by following a more renunciant path (if I got that right) and meditating. And if we haven't tried that path, then how can we bring a legitimate argument against it? We're not able to speak from experience, in order to compare a worldly life with a renunciant life. DD is able to do that. We, on the other hand, truly can't knock it if we haven't tried it.

    He's not "enjoying suffering and disturbing"; to the contrary, he's given it up as a way of life (as I understand).



  • There is only suffering when there is clinging. I can enjoy my girlfriend, but not be attached, and therefore when she leaves me I will equally enjoy my new circumstances.
  • There is only suffering when there is clinging. I can enjoy my girlfriend, but not be attached, and therefore when she leaves me I will equally enjoy my new circumstances.

    Impressive. :bowdown: You really think you won't feel any pain? Have you ever been dumped before?
  • edited January 2011
    I have been dumped. I did not understand things very well at the time, and I was very upset. Since I have understood, bad things have happened to me. They have not affected me though. And yet I still do what I want. I enjoy life to the fullest, doing everything I feel will be good for me or I will enjoy. And yet I do not try to assert my will over anyone else's or over the world, and therefore I do not believe what I want is better than the way things are, and therefore I have no attachment to anything. Because I have no attachment, I can only lose my happiness if I choose to. And here's the funny thing. When you truly understand, good things start happening to you. But ONLY if you are humble and do not try to assert yourself over the world. If you truly live this way, then your desires will naturally manifest in the world. But yet because you live and think this way, you understand there is nothing to attach to. Therefore you get all of your desires, and yet you have the bliss of non-clinging. You get everything. There is nothing that you do not have.
  • :bowdown: :bowdown:
  • edited January 2011
    :bowdown: :bowdown:
    lol. It's not for everyone. Like I said, we're all on our own paths. Many people on this site are attached to staying away from worldly things. Therefore they cannot have what I have. But they can have what they want, so I'm not trying to change them. We're all gonna get what we believe in/want. Buddhists, you will get your nirvana and your pure land. Christians, you will get your kingdom of God. Me, I will get the world that I've always dreamed of. I already am getting it.
  • ...I can only lose my happiness if I choose to...
    To lose happiness is unhappiness.

    To believe "non-clinging" to unhappiness is "bliss" is surely folly.

    :rolleyes:
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    Many people on this site are attached to staying away from worldly things.
    There is a difference between staying away from worldly things & having the view they are unsatisfactory.

    For example, dog shit. Most intelligent people CHOOSE not to step in it.

    :)

  • edited January 2011
    Many people on this site are attached to staying away from worldly things. Therefore they cannot have what I have.
    I do not recall ever wishing for whatever it is you think you have.

    :)

    [quote]But they can have what they want, so I'm not trying to change them. We're all gonna get what we believe in/want. Buddhists, you will get your nirvana and your pure land. Christians, you will get your kingdom of God. Me, I will get the world that I've always dreamed of. I already am getting it.[/quote]

    I don't want you to have what I have. I want you to have what you want.
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    I don't want you to have what I have. I want you to have what you want.
    Then why did you talk down to others, as follows, saying they were "attached"?
    "Many people on this site are attached to staying away from worldly things."
    There is a difference between "staying away" from worldly things and being "independent" from worldly things.

    Example, an infant needs a pram. But when they grows up, they walk on their own two feet.

    Similarly, to some, worldly things are like the "pram". Simply not needed anymore.

    :)

  • I don't want you to have what I have. I want you to have what you want.
    Then why did you talk down to others, as follows, saying they were "attached"?
    "Many people on this site are attached to staying away from worldly things."
    :)

    I was not talking to you. If you don't like what I have to say, simply ignore me. You can even think i'm stupid, retarded, crazy, or anything. I do not care. You are perfect. Right now. There is nothing that you have to strive for. I don't talk down to people. You just don't understand what i'm saying. Let me be clear, and restate what i've said over and over and over again. YOU ARE PERFECT!! Everyone is. There is no thing that is not perfection. Therefore I have no desire to change anyone. I simply put myself out there as a resource to help people IF THEY FEEL I CAN HELP THEM. If not, then they are right I can not. Therefore they should move on, I have nothing to offer them. Or not, it doesn't really matter. Like I said, you can think anything you want about me. I don't care what people think about me. I'm just trying to be happy and help others be happy.
  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited January 2011
    You are perfect. YOU ARE PERFECT!!
    Then why do you need to have a girlfriend & copulate with her if you are perfect?

    :-/
  • Why do you think you need a girlfriend?
  • OK. I changed the question

    :-/
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