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getting drunk is dumb

VincenziVincenzi Veteran
edited March 2011 in General Banter
I tryed it once out of curiosity, and it was really not worth it.
why do anyone will think getting drunk is a good idea?

a few glasses is fine, but getting drunk is no special in any way.

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  • Getting drunk enough that you "loosen up without throwing up" can be entertaining in a social environment. It depends on the person....me personally, I get quite electric sometimes.

  • Some people use it to try and forget about the day/life when they dont have the ability to do it themselves.
  • I am sure there are literally millions of people who would gladly argue with you here Vincenzi. There is being drunk, then there is being wasted which is a state not everyone will enjoy, and then of course you have the state people get themselves into where they are hugging the toilet.

    Alcohol has been enjoyed by humans for thousands of years and I am quite sure it won't change any time soon. I enjoy being drunk, but am choosing not to be as being sober is more skillful. People get drunk for pleasure and through sheer ignorance
  • VincenziVincenzi Veteran
    edited March 2011
    @Willowberry

    that's really sad.

    @ThailandTom @Epicurus

    according to my dictionary (the one included in Mac OS X) drunk is:
    "affected by alcohol to the extent of losing control of one's faculties or behavior"

    so, drinking alcohol in moderation (what you are referring to) is not getting drunk.
    but drinking to the point of losing balance and clear judgement? why would so many people want that?
  • I have been in that state and more drunk and enjoyed myself. I have been drunk to the point I cannot walk and am on the floor laughing in hysterics. Maybe you are too young, maybe you just don't understand. But yes, it is unskillful drinking to the point of being drunk
  • @ThailandTom

    or maybe I never saw it as useful/smart/skillful?
    ...I tought that there were more people that shared this opinon.
  • ThailandTomThailandTom Veteran
    edited March 2011
    O I do now, it is unskillful of course it is. But I am also sure the vast majority of people have gone through a phase in the teen years where they have enjoyed getting totally rat assed.

    If you wan the science, alcohol actually works on many parts of the brain which induce pleasure, slight euphoria, decrease inhibitions and relax the consumer. I saw a documentary once and some scientist stated that alcohol was similar to a variety of different drugs in one drink because it effects the brain in multiple areas
  • Not everyone know when to stop.
  • ZaylZayl Veteran
    Of course it's dumb, but its also fun. Me, when I drink (which is very rare) I only drink enough up to the point where I feel a bit livelier. I may sway from side to side a bit when standing and my face may be flushed, but I'm not slurring my words and I am still aware of what I'm doing. I also sing :D
  • I like being drunk. Getting together with family or friends and (safely and sanely) drinking yourself stupid can be fun.

    But the 'safely and sanely' part is often ignored by many people. And find that I cannot meditate properly if drink the night before. I think on some level alcohol saps the spirit. All that joviality is somewhat false, and if we drink heavily, we find ourselves depressed. Its because we have lost our connection to others. We have lost that real connection of bodhicitta, and replaced it with something false. And that makes use sad.

    I don't avoid alcohol altogether, but I see it for what it is. Its a false escape. One that will only lead to delusion and unhappiness if abused.
  • Yes, the affects alcohol is somewhat fake. The things you say or do towards people which you come to regret the next day. It clouds your judgment and makes you do things you normally wouldn't if you consume too much at times.

    I remember once going back to my teens when I was 17 I was at a local pub with a few friends. It was the only pub that would serve us as we were a year under age, but I had 5 pints of this strong cider named 'black rat'. That stuff really did get you drunk, but it also made me 'rowdy'. On the way home I saw this parked car for sale and I decide to try and run up onto the bonnet (hood) and over the whole car, however I slipped on the wet surface of the bonnet and cracked the entire windscreen. How unskillful and stupid. However, I was in fits of laughter at the time.

    Often alcohol will only increase the current mood you are in at the time of consumption. So if you are depressed and decide to get bladdered, you may end up in tears the whole night. If you are in a lively good mood, you may be loud and more than merry to say the least, depending on how much you drink of course.

    There was a study done on monkeys that correlated to the human brain. In a monkey enclosure they left little pots of alcohol. The found that 50% of the monkeys would go an drink from these pots rarely and not become heavily intoxicated, 25% of the monkeys maybe tried it once or twice or not at all, and 25% of them would drink from it every day. They came to a conclusion that if given the chance, the ratio is similar with humans, 25% of the population would drink every day
  • I have no clue why people do it... I'm not anti-alcohol or anything, so i try out drinks i haven't had before or champagne or such at special occasions...

    But as for getting drunk, if i drink some amount of alcohol that has an effect i just feel that i can't really think clearly, kinda like when i'm sleepy. People told me that might have been because i don't drink enough to get to the 'good' effects so at one party there was wine and i drunk loads of it, i really wanted to see how it was to get drunk, since many of my friends do it quite often and they always seem to enjoy it. Well i got no major effect. The sleepiness was a bit worse than normal, i don't see how that would make a party better...

    So nowadays i intentionally try not to drink unless theres one of the reasons i mentioned in the beginning - which can suck too because some people will just keep on pushing it as if they can't understand that alcohol is really a sleeping pill to me =/ Why would i make myself tired intentionally? Kinda like if you told people you don't like chocolate, people don't really believe its possible^^
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    getting drunk is dumb
    I completely and resoundingly agree.
  • Alcohol is quite the demon. I still feel shame and embarrassment for things I'v done in the past while drunk. Day by day, I fight that demon. No more alcohol for me, and I would not recomend alcohol to anyone for either leisure or escape. Find a healthier past-time.
  • Most things considered fun are dumb when see via a Buddhist lens. Just saying.
  • I've had a lot of stupid fun while drunk. Eventually though it lost any attraction to me. I guess maybe I got tired of hugging the toilet the next morning. As plastered as I've been however I've never gotten so drunk that I lose control of myself or awareness of where I'm at. I still drink every once in a while, but pretty much never more than one beer at a time.
  • I agree that "getting drunk is dumb", but I don't remember doing it because I wanted to show off how smart I was. I just wanted to have a good time, escape the stresses life, build courage and any number of unskillful reasons that seemed good at the time. Eventually it was just because I didn't know what else to do and I was addicted to it. Thankfully, I do have a better way today but I keep in mind that not everyone does. I'm not sure it makes them "dumb", just not as lucky as me, I guess.
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    Most things considered fun are dumb when see via a Buddhist lens. Just saying.
    Having worked in a pub or two for a collective period of around 5 years, and watched otherwise erudite, articulate, sensible and intelligent people gradually turn themselves into incoherent, idiotic, gibbering wrecks, trust me - my opinion has nothing to do with "seeing things via a Buddhist lens"....

  • Most things considered fun are dumb when see via a Buddhist lens. Just saying.



    :rarr: but at the same time :clap:
  • Most things considered fun are dumb when see via a Buddhist lens. Just saying.
    Having worked in a pub or two for a collective period of around 5 years, and watched otherwise erudite, articulate, sensible and intelligent people gradually turn themselves into incoherent, idiotic, gibbering wrecks, trust me - my opinion has nothing to do with "seeing things via a Buddhist lens"....

    But those people are extreme. Every overindulgence is questionable even when it comes to Buddhism.

  • edited March 2011
    Well so long as people don't turn violent or start causing real problems for others, I really don't have a problem with people drinking every now and then.

    Sure, it's not skillful. I've been tipsy a few times in my life and it's never really cause me much suffering. And certainly not to other people. Like a lot of other stuff, it's all a matter of doing it responsibly or not. Knowing you're not going to drive and stuff like that.

    Something categorically "dumb" would be something that caused lots of problems for you or others, and when it comes to drinking (to a certain extent..."near-KO" is not cool) I think that depends a lot on the drinker and the circumstances.
  • avoid any intoxicants that pollute the mind. Buddha didn't drink. why should I? enlightenment is the goal after all. :)
  • CloudCloud Veteran
    It's really a "worldly" thing, chasing happiness (sometimes at the expense of others, for instance driving drunk and killing someone). In moderation, it's usually okay for a normal person. No alcohol is okay for an alcoholic, IMHO.

    As far as someone trying to follow a Buddhist lifestyle, or to see reality clearly and stop craving/attaching to sense pleasures, it doesn't seem skillful at all to drink. Maybe every once in a while, not regularly/habitually or excessively.
  • I am 20 now... At 14 I was a heavy binge drinker who had been hospitalized for alcohol poisoning near death. Recently I used to have a glass of wine with dinner. More recently I quit drinking. I do believe there is a difference between tipsy and drunk. However I also believe that any amount of alcohol affects our minds and mindfulness. No matter how minute of an effect, it's an effect. This thread, though is about drunkenness. I don't know if I would use the word dumb. Perhaps unproductive, unskillful or unhelpful. I have chosen to abstain for drinking to help me along my Buddhist path. To each his own I say.
    <3:D
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited March 2011
    avoid any intoxicants that pollute the mind. Buddha didn't drink. why should I? enlightenment is the goal after all. :)
    yeah...I tried this approach in the "Truth" thread. "Avoid false speech idle chatter and unskilful speech" The Buddha didn't lie. Why should I?..."

    That didn't go down too well there....... :lol:
  • CloudCloud Veteran
    I've always thought drinking was "dumb", since there's a bar close to where I live and people get in accidents and stuff. Who's bright idea was it to let people drink in public and drive away? It's not like you can stop them from driving their own car to and from...
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited March 2011
    Let's pump up the ante, a little bit:

    Cigarette and alcohol advertising are respectively, banned and heavily controlled in the UK.
    Smoking is toxic, potentially lethal, and to some, ultimately fatal.
    use of it also affects those around us adversely, and is a noxious substance to those even who don't smoke.
    Alcohol in constant excessive quantites, destroys lives. I refuse to call it a disease, because it's a self-inflicted ailment and as such, completely avoidable.

    why are these substances not banned outright?

    £$£$£$£$£$£$£$£$£-> Government.

    What do our adverts for alcohol on TV mean, when they ask viewers to "drink responsibly"...?

    "Drink in moderation, but keep buying the stuff, because it keeps Government coffers full, enabling us to channel funds towards expenses we see as reasonable and justified"...?

    So really, there are other, extremely pressing reasons as to why getting drunk may not be skilful.
    N'est-ce pas?
  • ThailandTomThailandTom Veteran
    edited March 2011
    That is a given, they do make a hell of a lot of money on tax fede, but on the flip side, they have to fork out on police work every weekend in the UK due to drunken and disorderly, which actually takes 60% of the polices time at weekends. Then there is criminal damage and violence, crime that equates from drinking. You can advertise all day long about drinking responsibly, but there will ALWAYS be those who don't.
    Government scientists stated they would make alcohol a class A drug if it was being introduced in the modern day. Going along with the money side of things, if they why don't they legalize cannabis, or any other drugs and tax the hell out of that?
    At university we had to deconstruct an advert by the NHS about smoking and one about drinking. The NHS seem to care about your health because they care about you, but in fact what the government wants is a healthy, large work force to buy commodities and keep the wheel of capitalism rolling.
  • I like to have about 6 and laugh with my friends.. don't really think about it as "drunk!" just drinking...
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited March 2011
    That is a given, they do make a hell of a lot of money on tax fede, but on the flip side, they have to fork out on police work every weekend in the UK due to drunken and disorderly, which actually takes 60% of the polices time at weekends.
    Ah. That would account for all the police Station closures, redundancies early retirements and department mergers then.

    http://www.thevisitor.co.uk/community/police_cuts_bombshell_1_3186173

    http://www.walesonline.co.uk/cardiffonline/cardiff-news/2011/01/20/worries-over-police-cutbacks-91466-28019091/

    http://www.thisisoxfordshire.co.uk/news/8252949.No_clues_yet_on_Oxfordshire_s_2011_police_cuts/
    (. . .) At university we had to deconstruct an advert by the NHS about smoking and one about drinking. The NHS seem to care about your health because they care about you, but in fact what the government wants is a healthy, large work force to buy commodities and keep the wheel of capitalism rolling.
    And many health authorities will not treat patients with associated illnesses, if they're still smoking/drinking.... And quite rightly too....

  • It's a commonly known situation that the police are fed up of having to deal with drunken brawls, domestic violence and general drunkenness every weekend in the UK. You only have to watch one of those TV programs where they follow the UK police around to notice that they are stretched because of this.

    The cut backs as you also probably know is due to the economical financial situation, but still, drunken disorderly conduct and the affects it has on society is a big spender to the government.
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    Something's crazy in the big house, huh....?
  • seeker242seeker242 Zen Florida, USA Veteran

    Alcohol in constant excessive quantites, destroys lives. I refuse to call it a disease, because it's a self-inflicted ailment and as such, completely avoidable.

    why are these substances not banned outright?

    The US tried that back in the 20's. It was a complete and total failure. In other words, banning it does not stop people from using it. Before the US started it's "war on drugs", drug addiction levels were around 1.3% of the population. 40 years later, drug addiction levels are around 1.3%. Prohibition theory is a flawed theory. It looks good on paper but it simply doesn't work in real life. In other words, we tried banning it, it didn't work. :)

  • Fighting drugs starts at home. Its hard to be an evangelical anti-drug. I think the frying egg 'this is your brain on drugs. Any questions'. That was a good one though I was doing drugs and all I thought was ummm I want some bacon too. I agree that drugs shouldn't be advertised strongly, but still the attitudes of drinkers are built in bill boards. Like the cool guys all have flash cars.
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator

    Alcohol in constant excessive quantites, destroys lives. I refuse to call it a disease, because it's a self-inflicted ailment and as such, completely avoidable.

    why are these substances not banned outright?

    The US tried that back in the 20's. It was a complete and total failure. In other words, banning it does not stop people from using it. Before the US started it's "war on drugs", drug addiction levels were around 1.3% of the population. 40 years later, drug addiction levels are around 1.3%. Prohibition theory is a flawed theory. It looks good on paper but it simply doesn't work in real life. In other words, we tried banning it, it didn't work. :)

    Yeah, I forgot that - you're right.
    Still, I can't help thinking that the Government reluctance to ban these products is not entirely based on "it wouldn't work" though..... call me a cynic, but I still think the profit margin is too attractive for them.

  • hermitwinhermitwin Veteran
    edited March 2011
    Criminalising it makes it extremely profitable. I think the profit
    margin is like 1500%.
    Marijuana grows like weed in some countries.
    Education is key. We need facts not emotional pleas.
  • Imagine the UK if the government banned alcohol and or cigarettes... I think society would collapse within a week
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    That long.......?
  • hahahaha, yea I was going to write a day, but then retracted my thought.
  • mithrilmithril Veteran
    edited March 2011
    I think trying to make alcohol illegal would be really expensive, since it can be so easily made at home, or can even be made by accident when some things would be left to spoil. Also, it is possible to search for drugs when they are only where people intentionally put them (like, its quite unlikely that one day you woke up and your fridge be full of cannabis by itself) while some levels of alcohol can be in everyday food, not to mention amounts in food or drink that got spoiled, so how would you even track it out? Even if you trained a dog you'd just have false positives all the time...

    All that would happen is that people would then be making it at home.

    I had a discussion with someone the other day, and we came to the conclusion that the Buddha saw a sick, old, and a dead man (i hope i remember it right, although here its irrelevant if its exact or not). So when you see one of those in greater detail than the next person your common sense will probably be different than his.

    Thing is, in our society people don't really see the sick man (or only briefly while they visit the hospital, no people dying at home for months without painkillers like it used to be; but only when the person is well enough or its the only option to see them for a short time in a "non-optimal" state); they don't see the dead man (the rigor mortis setting in - even if they get to see it the person seems in a normal position, as they never try to turn him and thus see how strange this is; or even a rotting corpse or such, the nearest would be finely prepared bones or organs; or dead zombies in horror movies, as if death is something supernatural); they don't see the old man, or only briefly, since they are put in nursing homes and out of television and such.

    My point is, you just cannot expect people to try to prevent getting into a situation they don't actually believe they could ever get into.

    Yeah, cigarettes cause lung cancer. For most people this means dying young and beautiful and quick without any major inconvenience, at least as opposed to not smoking the next cigarette while not having anything else to do. Its just 5 years difference what does it matter.

    All that while general education is changing its meaning to knowing the most fairy tales and their authors by heart, and the improved ability to run quick in a sport.
  • Most things considered fun are dumb when see via a Buddhist lens. Just saying.
    Not my Buddhist lens thanks!
  • It's really a "worldly" thing, chasing happiness (sometimes at the expense of others, for instance driving drunk and killing someone). In moderation, it's usually okay for a normal person. No alcohol is okay for an alcoholic, IMHO.

    As far as someone trying to follow a Buddhist lifestyle, or to see reality clearly and stop craving/attaching to sense pleasures, it doesn't seem skillful at all to drink. Maybe every once in a while, not regularly/habitually or excessively.
    I am going through a stage where I know i drink more than I should and it definitely hinders my practice. It's so far the biggest distraction ive witnessed on my meditation. I'm from Ireland originally where, since you were 15 or so, you where chasing drunkenness like a rabbits tail. It was fun, it was a hell of a laugh, but man it doesn't work with Buddhism. That I am finding out and I have come to a crossroads. it seems if i can do it in total moderation then one of them has to go because they cant co-exist. shame really because I love them both lol.
  • I got very drunk last night. I agree it was dumb, though. Took me until about mid-day to feel right.
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