When I was a young cructacean with a fixed idea of reality, LSD broke that rigidity.That it's not true or helpful?
I believe we can add to that, "And even when they do think of you, they seldom ever judge you so harshly as you imagine they would or so harshly as you judge yourself.""You wouldn't worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do." (Eleanor Roosevelt)
Well- As a fat/size acceptance advocate and a HAES (Health At Every Size) activist, now you've stepped into MY territory! So I just gotta say, with all due respect:I don’t know where your friends are coming from; but this is the thought that came up:
The idea of accepting ourselves sounds nice but obesity is a serious problem. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity
Real compassion is not always being nice and compassion for oneself can also include facing a painful truth and taking responsibility for the amount of calories we put in our body.