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What Scares You?

zombiegirlzombiegirl beating the drum of the lifelessin a dry wasteland Veteran
edited April 2012 in General Banter
I am curious about the scariest thing to you personally... be it something you saw in a movie, experienced in real life, or just have irrational phobias about.

I was in Chicago last weekend and apparently met a fan of mine that I had never knew I had. We were talking about horror movies and whatnot and I showed him a picture of my most recent zombie costume and he flipped his shit, said he had seen pictures of my costume off a mutual facebook friend's page, and demanded that I do the makeup/costuming for his life's mission of creating the scariest short film ever. Exciting. :)

So, I love to be scared. I love watching scary movies, but they hardly ever ACTUALLY scare me, which is disappointing. When I was younger, my friends and I would break into abandoned "haunted" houses and even an abandoned "haunted" insane asylum. Around Halloween, I love to go to those "haunted" houses that are full of actors who are paid to scare you. I usually end up laughing the whole way through because, for some reason, it's fun to be scared in a safe situation.

So, I'm thinking about the scariest things I can think of...

In the Exorcist, the demons in the shadows always creeped me out. I love in movies when there's messed up stuff in the background that they never acknowledge. For some reason, the fact that they don't even reference them scares me.

I think the 'unknown' is always scarier than the 'known'. Thus the reason that the dark is so terrifying. In a lot of movies, the suspense and scare factor is minimal once the creature is actually known.

Seeing an eye through a hole. Just an eye. Watching.

The scariest place I've ever been was in the underground tunnel of the abandoned insane asylum we broke into. Pitch black. Lots of debris and paint peeling... lots of random sounds... plus, there's always the possibility of encountering animals or crazy homeless people.
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  • ThailandTomThailandTom Veteran
    edited April 2012
    It depends what you mean by scare I guess. You can be scared for 2 seconds about a prank spider, but then you could be scared about death for the rest of your life.. The sacriest thing I can think of is probably, well there are so many variables. Torture would be scary, so would a huge tsunami. But if I had to choose on fear above all that I had ti would have to be at present the death of my mother in all honesty.

    I also think fear is largely simply not knowing, which could quite nicely move on to the fact of impermance and the fact that life is incertain. If you cultivate this teaching, then far begins to dismantal. Thanks for this post, I know see why many highly aclaimed monk and nuns do not fear things.
  • Invincible_summerInvincible_summer Heavy Metal Dhamma We(s)t coast, Canada Veteran
    I always have bad dreams about being completely lost somewhere, isolated from the people I care about - I can feel the panic and fear when I'm in my dream... quite real. I do tend to panic when I feel like I'm lost and have no idea what to do. That's definitely one of my biggest fears.

    Deep water also scares the crap out of me. I am a terrible swimmer, but I freak out when I try to practice swimming because I feel like I'm gonna drown.

    Heights also really scare me. When I went up the CN Tower w/ my gf, she wanted to stand on the glass floor. I was so goddamn scared I felt my heart beating in my throat, my knees were literally shaking, and I almost felt like I was going to cry. :lol:
    It sounds funny/lame when I say it, but I was so absolutely terrified.

    Here's a really specific, odd phobia I have: rusty, sharp things near my neck/wrists/ankles. I can just imagine being cut by it and getting all sorts of nasty shit in my blood while bleeding profusely.

    I'm pretty scared of needles too, but I'm overcoming that - i actually donated blood for the first time a couple of weeks ago!
  • I always have bad dreams about being completely lost somewhere, isolated from the people I care about - I can feel the panic and fear when I'm in my dream... quite real. I do tend to panic when I feel like I'm lost and have no idea what to do. That's definitely one of my biggest fears.

    Deep water also scares the crap out of me. I am a terrible swimmer, but I freak out when I try to practice swimming because I feel like I'm gonna drown.

    Heights also really scare me. When I went up the CN Tower w/ my gf, she wanted to stand on the glass floor. I was so goddamn scared I felt my heart beating in my throat, my knees were literally shaking, and I almost felt like I was going to cry. :lol:
    It sounds funny/lame when I say it, but I was so absolutely terrified.

    Here's a really specific, odd phobia I have: rusty, sharp things near my neck/wrists/ankles. I can just imagine being cut by it and getting all sorts of nasty shit in my blood while bleeding profusely.

    I'm pretty scared of needles too, but I'm overcoming that - i actually donated blood for the first time a couple of weeks ago!
    these are all quite cliche but fear none the less. Go talk to those afraid of clowns or bananas LMAO. I use to be afraid of having some deadly disease for years, convincing myself I was dying. That was horrible as it would never go away. You can go away from heights or needles, but this would never leave. Now I am afraid of myself haha.... blah.
  • Mr_SerenityMr_Serenity Veteran
    edited April 2012
    Even though I'm not scared by much. I don't sleep in the pitch dark. I do believe that spirits are more easily to manifest in the pitch darkness. My girlfriends father told a story where he said one night he was attacked in the darkness. He said his blanket and eventually his feet where being pulled so obviously it woke him up. So much so that he thought it was someone who was actually there doing it.

    It was a terrifying encounter that he described like something was trying to pull him into the darkness. He fought it and yelled till his partner turned on the light. It was only then that the struggle ended and the entity disappeared. So it's stories like that, that make me prefer to keep on a candle or night light to see my surroundings as needed.

    It's the same reason I prefer to sit with the door in view or my back against the wall at restaurants. I just feel I can keep my self and those with me safer that way.
  • ZaylZayl Veteran
    edited April 2012
    Getting shot at.

    Shit sucks man, I hate going through it.

    OH! but on a serious note? How will I take care of and support the family that I start? that thought paralyzes me. It is an honest and true sense of fear that is not as easy to overcome.
  • Getting shot at.

    Shit sucks man, I hate going through it.

    OH! but on a serious note? How will I take care of and support the family that I start? that thought paralyzes me. It is an honest and true sense of fear that is not as easy to overcome.
    i know many young guys say, "I will never have kids etc" but I really mean it. There are too many kids around already, plsu I want to lead a full life with the time I have, I am sure kids are a blessing to some people, but to me kids = life stops and changes dramstically. No thank you. I want to be able to go and do what I wish without worrying about the lil kiddies!
  • ZaylZayl Veteran
    @thailandTom I do see where you are coming from but... I feel that I was made to be a father one day, strange as it sounds. I am not about to rush into having kids. If I ever do have them, it will be after much consideration and preparation. I think that having a child or two, and raising them, having them find their own paths in life. Something about it draws me, I cannot explain it.
  • ThailandTomThailandTom Veteran
    edited April 2012
    Oh nono @Zayl I do not try to influence my ideas about me on other people. I really am happy for people who rejoyce in having a family. I hope you manage to find on dude. The thing is, everyone has their own ideas and paths in life. I am quite content to look after myself with no attachments to kids. It is true life changes a whole lot when you have a child, it is probably the single most important resonsability in the world for human beings. I just do not see myself as a father, maybe it has roots back to my father which has roots baxck to his. I am very good with my GFs kids and kids in general, but to be tied down is not for me you know. I feel like I would be able to go wherever I want without the link there if you understand.

    Also you words speak to me and they say that you would make a good parent. Nothing enforced on them, let me be their own person and mature, but of course show them a way to live life free of stupidity and danger that can be avoided in a skillful manner.
  • ZeroZero Veteran
    Fear is only the body's fight or flight response - most people are not accustomed to this reflex and it can be overwhelming - with training, fear is first understood, then controlled and finally harnessed - its also an extremely astute early warning indicator...

    Fear creeps in when its allowed in - in this way, I dont attach to fear but rather observe it arising - its linked to so many things from walking down a dark alley to starting a risky venture.

    I love watching horror movies alone in the dark - take the rollercoaster ride of being prey without the consequences - movies that have seriously freaked me out include the shining, japanese ring and grudge, texas chainsaw original, nightmare on elm street original, exorcist 1, Omen 1, poltergeist 1...
  • You forgot all of the paranormal movies zero :p They are REALLY jumpy. I have not jumped in many many years during a movies, but they really make you hop out of your seat ;)
  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    @ThailandTom scares me... he just asked me to 'come out of the closet'... does he know something I don't - ?! :eek2:
  • Cockroaches scare me - I am ok around mice, rats, other creatures known as rodents, spiders and do not have any problems with other insects ... just cockroaches - especially the big ones I have seen in other countries. Here in Australia there are mostly small.
  • @ThailandTom scares me... he just asked me to 'come out of the closet'... does he know something I don't - ?! :eek2:
    Come on federica, come on out of the closet, come on, it is no harm :) lol

    Okay another suth park clip, PLEASE WATCH!!!

  • Republicans.
  • ZeroZero Veteran
    You forgot all of the paranormal movies zero :p
    Yeah - the jumps were pretty cool - the movies I posted messed with my mind more though... maybe I watched them too young! Parts of the shining still follow me around today :D the grudge I never really got over!
  • genkakugenkaku Northampton, Mass. U.S.A. Veteran
    Martin Luther King, Jr., the civil rights clergyman, once observed, "It's not what's wrong with the world that scares people. What really scares them is that everything is all right."

    I agree with that notion... or at any rate, it can scare the crap out of me.
  • A tax audit notice.
  • Certain physicians and surgeons I have to work with. And you know who you are. My job is to protect my patients and their families from these people. They frighten me a lot!
  • BonsaiDougBonsaiDoug Simply, on the path. Veteran
    Republicans.
    Ya beat me to it! :D
  • personperson Don't believe everything you think The liminal space Veteran
    Trusting another person for my happiness.
  • Republicans.
    Best answer yet.
  • HondenHonden Dallas, TX Veteran
    Scorpions...growing up in the deserts of West Texas, they'd always find a way to sneak in.

    *shivers*
  • What scares me is pretty much everything that is "NEW"... I have a habbit of getting comfortable with people, places and things and then suddenly when things change or get taken away I get into a panic mode for a while... then i'm like "Oh, that wasn't so bad, it was actually a good thing for a change"... then I get comfortable again and so on... i'm getting good about change though and almost welcome it... i do try to find things i'm afraid of and face them...

    such as sky diving, extreme survival and probably thinking of joining a dojo to learn how to defend myself...i am also squimish about blood but i have a desire to go to school for nursing...

    well see.
  • The movie The Ring scared me, the way the girl seemed like an unstoppable force. And how there wasn't any reason for her to kill people except she was just evil.

    The exorcist scared me too, it was the atmosphere that got me.

    Something scary to try is night hiking in a group all in one line and the only person allowed to have their flashlight on is the person in front. He/she would have to communicate to everyone what to watch out for. Did that in a middle school camping trip, it was pretty scary.

    What really scares me in real life is how rich and powerful people like corporation leaders and politicians blatantly tell lies and get away with it. It's scary that even with their amount of power, they still don't take responsibility for anything. Now that's scary.
  • ArthurbodhiArthurbodhi Mars Veteran
    People scare me sometimes...live people by the way.
  • zombiegirlzombiegirl beating the drum of the lifeless in a dry wasteland Veteran
    @ThailandTom and @Zero Cool observation about fear.

    I like watching horror movies in the dark as well. Actually, playing the original Silent Hill game for the PS2 in the dark... alone... was probably one of my scariest memories as well. That game scared the crap out of me. The movie didn't really translate it quite as well as I had hoped.

    I actually have a lot of irrational fears. The only things I cannot watch in movies are people being stuck with needles or throats/wrists being slit. It makes me physically ill. I also cannot get an IV or have blood drawn or I will throw up.

    Heights scare me too, @Invincible_Summer So I understand. Vertigo... I think for me, I have this irrational fear that I will trip or throw myself off or something. Standing close to an edge gives me this very strange sensation of instability.

    @Mountains Certain doctors scare me too! I recently went to the doctor (first time with this man) for something and he didn't even give me an exam, just straight up gave me a referral to a surgeon and then rushed out of the room before I could really question it. It pissed me off because I had the same conversation with the nurse who made the appointment and they could have easily told me that he wasn't the right doctor if they felt that way. But you know... it's all about the money. He even asked me, "Should I do a blood test or anything? Do you need anything else checked out?" which seemed suspiciously like, "So, anything else I can bill your insurance for?" Blargh.
  • Republicans.
    And Democrats :)
  • Flesh eating bacteria... we have had several cases pop up in Hawaii recently.
  • zombiegirlzombiegirl beating the drum of the lifeless in a dry wasteland Veteran
    Flesh eating bacteria... we have had several cases pop up in Hawaii recently.
    Oh yes. One of my friends works cleaning hospitals. That stuff is everywhere... Turns out I was right to be paranoid of touching anything when visiting.
  • ZeroZero Veteran
    Silent hill on the PS2 was properly freaky!!
  • Invincible_summerInvincible_summer Heavy Metal Dhamma We(s)t coast, Canada Veteran

    Heights scare me too, @Invincible_Summer So I understand. Vertigo... I think for me, I have this irrational fear that I will trip or throw myself off or something. Standing close to an edge gives me this very strange sensation of instability.
    Yes!! This!!
  • Republicans.
    And Democrats :)
    Yes, but not as much.
  • This is so different from what everyone else has said, but so be it.....I am afraid of growing old and no longer being looked upon as "desirable" (losing my looks). It's so horribly shallow and vain and Buddhism has me being able to get over it, but it really was difficult for me to come to terms with. I feel really foolish writing this, but it is raw honesty and a REAL fear. Oh, and replublicans.
  • MountainsMountains Veteran
    edited April 2012
    This is so different from what everyone else has said, but so be it.....I am afraid of growing old and no longer being looked upon as "desirable" (losing my looks).
    Speaking as someone who has never had "looks" to begin with, I can confidently state that:

    A.) You can survive it

    B.) Some chicks will still dig you

    and

    C.) It's gonna happen, so get over it

    :)


    PS: It even happens to Republicans. Look (if you dare) at Newt Gingrich. Now look who he's married to (this time).
  • @Mountains - umm chicks will still dig me? So I should turn lesbian? Neat.

    Haha I guess you assumed I was a dude?
  • personperson Don't believe everything you think The liminal space Veteran
    Being possesed by a demon and being aware of whats going on but not being able to do anything about it as the demon goes around hurting all the people I care about. Seriously, just losing the ability for self control.
  • @ThailandTom and @Zero Cool observation about fear.

    I like watching horror movies in the dark as well. Actually, playing the original Silent Hill game for the PS2 in the dark... alone... was probably one of my scariest memories as well. That game scared the crap out of me. The movie didn't really translate it quite as well as I had hoped.

    I actually have a lot of irrational fears. The only things I cannot watch in movies are people being stuck with needles or throats/wrists being slit. It makes me physically ill. I also cannot get an IV or have blood drawn or I will throw up.

    Heights scare me too, @Invincible_Summer So I understand. Vertigo... I think for me, I have this irrational fear that I will trip or throw myself off or something. Standing close to an edge gives me this very strange sensation of instability.

    @Mountains Certain doctors scare me too! I recently went to the doctor (first time with this man) for something and he didn't even give me an exam, just straight up gave me a referral to a surgeon and then rushed out of the room before I could really question it. It pissed me off because I had the same conversation with the nurse who made the appointment and they could have easily told me that he wasn't the right doctor if they felt that way. But you know... it's all about the money. He even asked me, "Should I do a blood test or anything? Do you need anything else checked out?" which seemed suspiciously like, "So, anything else I can bill your insurance for?" Blargh.
    When I was younger I use to be scared of tomb raider lol. Mainly because it was jumper and the music kicked in when you were being attacked. You never knew what would come your way and where from.
  • Horror movies.
    Clowns.

    Horror movies + clowns? Don't even think about it.
  • ThailandTomThailandTom Veteran
    edited April 2012
    Horror movies.
    Clowns.

    Horror movies + clowns? Don't even think about it.
    I guess you won't want to watch the movie 'It' then LMAO
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  • edited April 2012
    PS: It even happens to Republicans. Look (if you dare) at Newt Gingrich. Now look who he's married to (this time).
    I would like to quote something I saw on Reddit.

    "His wife looks like a pickled Thai boy."

    Whatever that means.
  • edited April 2012
    > I am afraid of evil. Like, an embodiment of evil - such a demon or Satan. Even if I don't believe in them, the thoughts still haunt me; especially the thought of being possessed.

    > Mirrors. Mirrors scare me. They terrify me.

    > Going insane. The idea of going mad drives me... crazy.

    > The spare room in my house as a child. I had nightmares about that room my entire life. There is nothing particularly creepy about the room, but it still scared me.

    > Being alone in the silent darkness.

    > This idea: Every night aliens come in my room and abduct me, and I feel the horrible pain of it all and I am terrified, but they erase my memory and put me back in room... just to do it the next night.

    > This idea: This reality isn't real and one day I will wake up in another reality - or somebody else will wake up and I will cease to exist.

    > Dolls. Dolls were scary as a child. Not so much anymore. Well... I haven't spent time alone with a doll in recent years, so I don't know.

    > Seeing a face/eyes in the darkness or in a window.

    > Seeing a dead family member (as a ghost)... or anyone that's dead.

    > Republicans.
  • t
    > I am afraid of evil. Like, an embodiment of evil - such a demon or Satan. Even if I don't believe in them, the thoughts still haunt me; especially the thought of being possessed.

    > Mirrors. Mirrors scare me. They terrify me.

    > Going insane. The idea of going mad drives me... crazy.

    > The spare room in my house as a child. I had nightmares about that room my entire life. There is nothing particularly creepy about the room, but it still scared me.

    > Being alone in the silent darkness.

    > This idea: Every night aliens come in my room and abduct me, and I feel the horrible pain of it all and I am terrified, but they erase my memory and put me back in room... just to do it the next night.

    > This idea: This reality isn't real and one day I will wake up in another reality - or somebody else will wake up and I will cease to exist.

    > Dolls. Dolls were scary as a child. Not so much anymore. Well... I haven't spent time alone with a doll in recent years, so I don't know.

    > Seeing a face/eyes in the darkness or in a window.

    > Seeing a dead family member (as a ghost)... or anyone that's dead.

    > Republicans.
    You're due for a mental meltdown ...we all have to reach the limits of our own sanity
    ..better young than never. It's not that bad, I've been there. So has @zombiegirl and @dandelion. A few others. If you survive it, and many do, you come away with a fresh perspective and even become a little more insightful.

    Go a little crazy! It's wonderful!
  • @Mountains - umm chicks will still dig me? So I should turn lesbian? Neat.

    Haha I guess you assumed I was a dude?
    This is so different from what everyone else has said, but so be it.....I am afraid of growing old and no longer being looked upon as "desirable" (losing my looks). It's so horribly shallow and vain and Buddhism has me being able to get over it, but it really was difficult for me to come to terms with. I feel really foolish writing this, but it is raw honesty and a REAL fear. Oh, and replublicans.
    @rained...first, :wave: I know how you feel so go ahead and start cultivating your inner life and spirituality...it will help. Not to mention it will age you gracefully.

    Thankfully we age slowly and are given time to ease into it.
  • Invincible_summerInvincible_summer Heavy Metal Dhamma We(s)t coast, Canada Veteran
    Horror movies.
    Clowns.

    Horror movies + clowns? Don't even think about it.
    I guess you won't want to watch the movie 'It' then LMAO
    The intro scene where the woman is hanging up the clothes outside was filmed at my friend's house!
  • zombiegirlzombiegirl beating the drum of the lifeless in a dry wasteland Veteran

    When I was younger I use to be scared of tomb raider lol. Mainly because it was jumper and the music kicked in when you were being attacked. You never knew what would come your way and where from.
    This made me laugh because I know exactly what you mean. Also, old school Tomb Raider was sort of like a nightmare where you can't run or walk properly to get away. The handling on those games were so pitiful, she ran into a wall or something all of the time and made this really sexual grunt, haha.

    @Bekenze I think you've given me some new things to fear, haha. But actually, I have trouble looking outside my window at night. Always have. Too afraid there might be a face there.

    The idea of possession also scares me. Although I am pretty positive it's not real... it's a horrible thing to believe could be possible...
  • ZeroZero Veteran

    old school Tomb Raider was sort of like a nightmare where you can't run or walk properly to get away. The handling on those games were so pitiful, she ran into a wall or something all of the time and made this really sexual grunt, haha.
    You are so awesome @zombiegirl!!! like you reached into my brain and took out the very memory of original lara croft, sexual grunts and all...!! much love to you oldskoolgamer :buck:
  • @Bekenze - Yeah, I totally get the doll thing....I remember a few years ago, I entered a neighbours house, and though I only stood in the doorway, I could see dolls EVERYWHERE and it scared the shit out of me! They were up on shelves looking down, all over the floor, on tables, etc. I found the whole thing disturbing.

    I think many have questioned their sanity at some point in their life. There is an old saying that psychiatrists say...."If you question your sanity, you are sane. The insane don't realize they are insane and so never question it".
  • edited April 2012
    Oh shoot, I trid to post the Family Guy episode where Stewie is terrified of the cover of the Queen album "News of the World', but it wouldn't post.
  • What scares me the most.

    Although it is inevitable, dieting and leaving my wide behind, and the idea that one day, in future rebirths, we will not be together again. (even if we don't know it)
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