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Keeping one pointedness of mind, or empty mind
Sometimes During amazing meditation I reach a point where my mind is wrapped around a single thought or thing, and if its goin real good absolutely nothing....the problem is I can't maintain this state for long, one way or another a thought arises, and I lose concentration,
I imagine how amazing having a blank mind would be for say an hr, or a day, week, it would be extremely pleasant.
Any tips on maintaing single pointedness?
Thank u
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Party pooper alert!
This is pushing the river in my view. Consider that concentration in itself is not the same as the "right concentration" of the 8 fold path. Each spoke of the 8 fold path has the ability to bring different phenomena to light but it's of little worth compared to the equanimity that results from the deliberate development of all 8.
Special states have their worth in their own time and to see them as attractive is to be expected but don't expect spiritual balance to be the result from the indulgence in any single one.
The issue is that no matter WHAT the experience is.. it is impermanent, it will come and go according to causes and conditions and we should work towards lessening our attachments to these experiences.
I remember the first time I had the cessation of the monkey mind. I was doing my usual walk break at work around the office and my mind wanted to sing sweet caroline.. so I let it.. then all of a sudden like a wall smacked me in the face.. I noticed there was no thought, no racing mind.. no .. nothing.. This lasted for maybe 30-40 seconds the first time and it was such a profound experience that I even had to go through 2-3 monastics before I got an answer I was "satisfied with" as to what it was.
it was through that experience that I was told by Bhante G.. it is just phenomenon.. observe it arise and pass away.. and let it go when it does.
now my mind enters into the quiet not when I wish it too.. or ask it too.. but whenever it wills. It is not an "oooh ahhh" experience anymore, I just observe when it comes and when it goes. I will admit though when I had the 30 minute experience I was amazed that it lasted so long, but I was able to let it go without too much fuss.
Part of why people have such 'difficulty' with meditation is they tighten, focus and tense what needs relaxing. We all start from a life of dukkha. We just need to sit still and be attentive - chill. Just the simple return to the breath as already suggested or watching/observing the monkey mind, without obsessing. Don't do something, just sit there . . . meditation, it's not what you think . . . etc . . .
How do you mean?
Ego, as usually referred to in Buddhism, is a snare and a delusion, tripping up even the most wary of travelers. But ego, as usually referred to in Buddhism, is a myth in its own right... "there is no abiding self."
It is one thing to parrot these words or strive towards their meaning, but practice leads beyond all this... to some sort of recognition/actualization of the fact that where there is no abiding self, there is no need to diss or despair of ego. So-called ego just comes along where something needs to be done and there is no need to either flee or embrace it. As with the eyes, definitions and explanations and praise and blame are unnecessary ... we just use them. Likewise confusion and great calm ... finding the difference is a fool's errand.
Practice can work wonders when it comes to straightening things out.
The eight spokes of the 8FP are always preceded by "right" because these same spokes, left bare of this qualifier,( and usually when take on their own) can lead one to ignorance. This "right" is essential!
Concentration (for example) on its own can be utilized for either compassion, love and wisdom or
greed, hatred and delusion. Skillful utilization's of these spokes are "right" as opposed to a unskilful alternative.
Missing that "right" is why a European sniper could assert how Buddhism's 8FP helped him with his task.
We be talkin about the dark side now.
Awareness is the objective state, of self-recognition. Sorry can't define it better
Self is a relative attribute that with insight refers to, compliments and acknowledges, but can't fully conceive or realise the objective nature of the self-recognising state of awareness.
Knot, bless you, that I can know anything.