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Is it okay to practice Uposatha only partly?
I'm fine with most of the precepts, but I have trouble with not eating after noon and not sleeping on high beds. Mainly because of my health. I'm afraid of fasting because I'm very underweight (7 kg lighter than I should be), and also I live with my grandma and she will very unlikely accept a fasting grandchild. I wouldn't mind sleeping on the ground, but I have asthma which is induced by allergy of dust mites. The floor is clean and my asthma is well-controlled, but it is not reccomended for asthmatics to sleep on the floor or close to the ground. Maybe if I sleep with my dust mask?? What do I do? I won't take the precepts because I fear I won't be able to keep them all, I'll only train with the others. Is it wrong to do so? In this site I saw it is called niggantha-uposatha. It ellaborates:
"The niggantha-uposatha is the partial or incomplete observance of the Uposatha. In connection to the first precept, those who observe this Uposatha might refrain from taking life in the direction of the west but not in the other directions. They may refrain from killing their own mothers, fathers, relatives, friends or certain animals which are dear to them, but they do not refrain when it comes to other beings. The other precepts are practiced along these lines. In short, this group keeps the precepts as they like. This observance is called niggantha-uposatha."
Can someone please illuminate me? I very much want to practice uposatha correctly! Thank you!
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That does not however mean it's better or worse - it just is.
If you had no legs, walking meditation would be a pointless dream - if you had no eyes, your other senses would grow stronger.
Deal with the cards you have the best way you can.
The 5 are best kept as a method for accumulating great merit and personal morality.
No...
1. Killing
2. Stealing
3. Lying
4. Sexual Misconduct
5. Intoxicants
Take a look:
The Bodhisatta once took service under Suciparivāra of Benares, in whose household everyone kept the fast on uposatha-days. The Bodhisatta, not knowing this, went to work as usual on the fast day, but, on discovering that no one else was working and the reason for their abstention, he refused to take any food, and as a result of his fasting died in the night. He was reborn as son of the king of Benares, and later became king under the name of Udaya. On meeting Addhamāsaka (q.v.), Udaya shared the kingdom with him, but one day Addhamāsaka, discovering that he harboured a desire to kill Udaya, renounced his kingdom and became an ascetic. When Udaya heard of this he uttered a stanza, referring to his own past life, but no one could understand the meaning of it. The queen, anxious to learn the meaning, told the king's barber Gangamāla how he might win the king's favour, and when the king offered him a boon, Gangamāla chose to have the stanza explained to him. When he learnt how Udaya had won a kingdom as a result of having kept the fast for half a day, Gangamāla renounced the world and, developing asceticism, became a Pacceka Buddha. Later he visited King Udaya and preached to him and his retinue, addressing the king by name. The queen-mother took offence at this and abused Gangamāla, but the king begged him to forgive her. Gangamāla returned to Gandhamādana, though urged by Udaya to stay in the royal park.
Ananda was Addhamāsaka, and Rāhulamātā was the queen.
The story was related by the Buddha to some lay-followers to en-courage them in their observance of the Uposatha
(http://www.palikanon.com/english/pali_names/g/gangamaala_jat_421.htm)
In my opinion his actions are so extreme and reckless, but it bore a good fruit, so it is confusing. Is this even entirely canon?
This is not altogether true but it is most significantly true in this particular instance, in my mind.
As I read the story I thought, "If rebirth is on the cards, I'd be content in this very life I have now".
Be kind to yourself.