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Is entertainment a 'bad thing'?
So, I've begun to consider entertainment a 'bad thing'. I'm not sure that I'm actually right thinking that, but I find myself feeling guilty playing video games or watching a movie lately. I feel like I'm escaping when I could be experiencing.
I'm not wailing or gnashing my teeth or anything. Just sometimes on the train home when I'm playing a game instead of meditating, I feel qualmish. Maybe this is what happens when a Catholic goes Buddhist.
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Try giving it up for a week and see how you feel and notice how your mind feels when you reengage and see if you can't notice the suffering of craving involved in entertainment.
Bloody hell man... If you wanna play video games then play video games..
Ur only gonna be here once mate, do whatever u want to do! (Perhaps with consideration for the 5 precepts)
1. Do not kill
2. Do not steal
3. Do not lie
4. Respect others
5. Dont take drugs
Its not hard... And you dont need buddha to tell you this, its pretty much common sense unless you wanna end up behind bars (prison)
So just do your thing man, and use your common sense!
EDIT:
P.s , entertainment is NOT 'bad'!!!
If entertainment is an unknown you will get a message from the mandala messengers that something is off. I think you need to strike a balance.
If you can feel happy about it, steering away from these video games and movies can be helpful. But be careful not to over do it. Don't get angry at yourself. Don't think "I'm no good because I don't practice enough". Take it easy always.
I have a history of some mental health issues - started with pretty terrible OCD when I was about 10, then depression in my late teens and twenties as I tried to address my anxiety. About five years ago I was diagnosed with Adult Attention Deficit Disorder. I share many of the same traits as folks with that diagnosis (always losing things, getting lost, etc) though I'm not sure how useful the diagnosis really is aside from shining some light on attention and how it affects almost everything. When I started practicing mindfulness and insight meditation, I thought I might have stumbled onto my rosetta stone.
The first time I took Adderall, it was a mind blowing experience. I could see how quickly my mind would flit to different, more interesting, things even while I was involved in mind-heavy work. I'm a computer programmer. I've always been a little different than my peers - they tend to use command line while I tend to use guis. I never could figure out why until that day I took that pill. Guis offer many more visual and compelling cues. I realized that often when I'm working, I'm continually having mini cycles of getting lost and reorienting myself without even knowing it. With a command line interface, that's almost impossible to do. It's like doing math with a pencil and paper vs. on a tablet computer with fancy interfaces.
I'm not sure if that made sense to anyone, but it lead to a major perspective change. With that and with the insight I've gained from my practice , I've come to believe that the difficulty I have maintaining attention is one of the main components at the base of my anxiety and depression. There are times when I'm able to treat the symptoms, and that treatment is mostly entertainment and keeping a mindful eye on things. But to treat the actual problem, I feel like the practice is the way to go. My problem right now is that I just moved, just had a son, have a three year old daughter and a new job. So, I've been trying to not pressure myself to practice. There are times when I'm so mentally exhausted that playing a video game is the only thing that can get my mind moving again.
Thanks for reading. Sorry this became a mind dump. I guess I'm looking for a little validation or constructive criticism.
It sounds like you are using entertainment as a tool to feel a little better. Like I have already said there is a balance. Who do you want to win? Meditation win or entertainment? Or can there be a balance. Already you have to balance family, work, etc.. So you should be able to balance this unless you are divided on view of awareness practice. That would be one self saying "I want peace (or whatever) and want to practice meditation" meanwhile the other side is saying something of wanting all the attention from the awareness (practice) to go somewhere else.
If you're happy without the entertainment then let it go but don't feel that you need to let go because it's something 'bad'. Maybe once your mind develops you will 'grow out of it' like I think I have.
I heard a teacher classify things as being "on the path" or "off the path". I found this to be useful. A horror movie for example is almost always "off the path" for me. Same goes for gratuitous violence. In the rare case that I watch such a movie (if it has some attractive power), I try to be be mindful and study the effect it has of pulling me off the path.
No 'Off'
This 'Teacher' wears the blindfold of dogma and earplugs of doctrine
No 'Path'
Dualism=Illusion
Check!
I think that games such as Grand Theft Auto actually have a negative impact on society and I really do believe that we accumulate heavy karma by killing other people in video games, even though it is just a digital image. And like you say, the more we entertain ourselves, the more we want to entertain ourselves with movies, TV, and video games. I think that modern entertainment is addictive in nature, compared to more wholesome activities from the past such as reading, playing a musical instrument, or even activities that many young people used to enjoy such as building plastic models. It was more satisfying in nature and didn't feel you with a strong urge for better, more intense sensations.
I also think that the content of a book has as much to do with negative or positive impact as the type of video game. Models and instruments however teach skills like patience and I think their virtue is in that.
Despite our morbid interests, though, this is one of the least violent times in history, so I'm not really sure there is a correlation.
I used to run and swim all the way to the country. Avoiding cars and other potential violent encounters. My greatest moment came when I found flowers, which I tried to give to a policeman but he pulled a gun on me, so I ran but he chased me . . . probably not thanking me for the flowers . . was karma catching up . . .
On the Wii, the only 'games' I play are yoga fitness routines. I look at games on the Ipad and know they are addiction. So just can not be bothered with them.
I prefer silence to music entertainment/distraction.
My distraction at the moment is films. I watched 'Wrong'.
Was it wrong? Are our minds entertaining enough?
You guys are entertainment enough. What happens if you all find silent awareness 'entertaining'?
Might have to find the world is a game . . . New Game? :wave:
I personally don't agree that we can accrue karma with beings that don't even exist. I think the mindset we can develop in playing violent games and watching movies and listening to music and even participating in relationships and conversations, obviously can have a karmic effect. But killing a being that doesn't even exist in the real world (say, a goblin) doesn't seem to me it can reap karmic results.
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Sixth Precept: I undertake the training rule to refrain from eating at the forbidden time (i.e., after noon).
Seventh Precept: I undertake the training rule to refrain from dancing, singing, music, going to see entertainments, which are stumbling blocks to wholesomeness, and wearing garlands, using perfumes, and beautifying the body with cosmetics.
Eighth Precept: I undertake the training rule to refrain from lying on a high or luxurious sleeping place.
So we can see that under the seventh precept, the Buddha advises against entertainment (dancing, singing, music and entertaining shows) for those who wish to achieve significant progress with meditation because they are "stumbling blocks to wholesomeness".
According to Ñanavara Thera, the commentaries say that the listening to or singing of songs is a breach of the seventh precept, "except with such ballads as contain Dhamma that causes faith to arise as well as arousing weariness with the suffering of our life". He then referred to an example of the story of a monk who heard a slave woman singing about life's troubles. When the monk heard this, he saw the tediousness of suffering and achieved attainments on the Path. He thus concludes that this type of song can be listened to and is not detrimental. By analogy, this exception can be applied to movies or any other form of entertainment that actually "causes faith to arise as well as arousing weariness with the suffering of our life".
I think it's probably safe to say that Buddha, if here now, would add a WHOLE lot more things to his list in the 7th precept, including talk radio, tv, most of the internet and maybe even cell phones. That's one area I think Buddhism doesn't always get it right. Where the people taking further the precepts can refrain from music/dancing but if they look at the reasoning for doing so, it seems reasonable to infer that there are things that were not present in Buddha's time that we should refrain from for the same reasons. Do people take it farther? Or do they limit themselves to the concerns Buddha had 2500 years ago?
'The Bucket List' maybe?
'Life Is Beautiful'?
'Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter... and Spring'?
If u are having fun, u dont have hindrances at the moment (other than your typical craving residue). When u get serious wandering "i should be more ascetic" it when the problem starts...
On the other hand, I don't think it's always "bad". Many times a song has helped me get through a bad day. A movie watched with someone, even if silly, can strengthen the bond. Not to mention that one can actually learn something from some forms of entertainment, such as art.
It's all about balance, finding that middle way. Good luck to us all!