I would like to occasionally do a short offering at the altar, mostly before going out in the morning, or even in the evening. But the tea light candles I use burn for about 3 1/2 hours, and the incense agarbathi sticks burn for about 1/2 hour. I don't like leaving things burning, nor extinguishing them. Even though my partner is home, I don't feel right about lighting candles and incense then leaving; it just feels creepy. It's like inviting someone to dinner, throwing the food on the table and saying "by the way, I have to go out". :-/
Soooo... I realized I had small cone incense and birthday candles. I put one of each into the brass bowl that contains the decorative sand I stand the agarbathi in to catch the ashes. I lit the candle (I think maybe I should use three?) and the incense cone in the sand, sounded the bell, poured water into the small offering bowls (I found some adorable Chinese tea cup-type bowls in JCPenney for 2.99 ea.
), said the refuge prayers, bodhisattva and bodhicitta prayers, some recitations of Namo Amitabha Buddha, dedication prayers, spent a few minutes and then went about my routine. By the time I was ready to leave the house, the candle and incense burned down. I felt like I started the day on the right note.
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I've always liked that saying and it makes me think of what makes natural selection select.
Usually, "they" are just bunches of us.
There are several places I'll be using that now...Thanks!
Oh, but don't use the little plastic holders. Since birthday candles are usually blown out before they burn down, they never reach the holder... which melts.
That's why I use tea lights. BTW, I think IKEA has the best tea lights.
BTW, an offering of incense need not be lighted.
I didn't know oil could be scented. I use canola oil when I do use an oil lamp:
I'm clumsy at times, and afraid I'll knock them over because they are so small.
I didn't know about the unlit incense either.
My $.02