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Good morning (in some places), Sangha. Here I go again. Let's say you have taken bodhisattva vows. Yet you also have a family.
How do you balance the needs of your family members (who of course come first) with the needs of all the other sentient beings in the entire universe that you are supposed to be helping achieve enlightenment? These needs will frequently come into conflict.
And if you do always put your family first, as most people rightly do, are you really a "bodhisattva" or just a nice person with admirable and yet entirely abstract goodwill towards all other sentient beings?