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3 gates of right speech

How do perform this when need a so called zen slap back into reality by bad people ie harsh speech as being blunt and mean. I realize I need to work on speech and behavior before I be a Buddhist chaplain

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  • KeromeKerome Lovingness is the way The Continent Veteran
    edited May 8

    This part of the Abhaya Sutta always comes to my mind when thinking about right speech:

    Now at that time a baby boy was lying face-up on the prince's lap. So the Blessed One said to the prince, "What do you think, prince: If this young boy, through your own negligence or that of the nurse, were to take a stick or a piece of gravel into its mouth, what would you do?"

    "I would take it out, lord. If I couldn't get it out right away, then holding its head in my left hand and crooking a finger of my right, I would take it out, even if it meant drawing blood. Why is that? Because I have sympathy for the young boy."

    "In the same way, prince:

    [1] In the case of words that the Tathagata knows to be unfactual, untrue, unbeneficial (or: not connected with the goal), unendearing & disagreeable to others, he does not say them.

    [2] In the case of words that the Tathagata knows to be factual, true, unbeneficial, unendearing & disagreeable to others, he does not say them.

    [3] In the case of words that the Tathagata knows to be factual, true, beneficial, but unendearing & disagreeable to others, he has a sense of the proper time for saying them.

    [4] In the case of words that the Tathagata knows to be unfactual, untrue, unbeneficial, but endearing & agreeable to others, he does not say them.

    [5] In the case of words that the Tathagata knows to be factual, true, unbeneficial, but endearing & agreeable to others, he does not say them.

    [6] In the case of words that the Tathagata knows to be factual, true, beneficial, and endearing & agreeable to others, he has a sense of the proper time for saying them. Why is that? Because the Tathagata has sympathy for living beings."

    Where are you from @paska, is English not your native language?

  • paskapaska Explorer

    So it’s a learnt subject for speech and behavior. Right time right notion. Oh boy being chaplain and being someone without tact could get me fired and sued wow. But if I am trained right shouldn’t be a problem

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