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Do you believe in ghosts?

hermitwinhermitwin Veteran
edited March 2011 in Buddhism Basics
Do you believe in ghosts?
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  • In Buddhism, there are other realms of existence eg Asura, peta.
  • Hi hermit. In my native tongue, the word for ghost is the same as the word for mind.

    :)
  • nope
  • As in a formless being capable of interacting with our manifested forms?

    I suppose you could call our consciousness a ghost.
  • thecap, is yours an indigenous culture?
  • I had a friend who claims he can see & talk to ghosts.
  • Interestingly, every language in the world has a word for ghost.
  • thecap, is yours an indigenous culture?
    No, it's only German.
  • My sister died last year. We were very close. I live in Los Angeles and she lived above San Francisco.My family and I drove during the day and found ourselves just south of the city as evening fell. We came to a place where hills rose on either side of the road at sunset and pulled over because the sky was turning orange. This was not a sunset orange in the usual sense: we could not see the horizon so it appeared as if the hills that surrounded us glowed with an intensity I had never seen before. I have never stopped for an event such as this in the past, usually we have an ocean view ( we live on the West coast after all) and have paused for many a sunset of the regular variety. I am telling you we all were agog at the color and intensity of the sky at that moment . We took photos , we were distracted from our thoughts as a result.
    My sister was very prepared for her death as she had suffered with breast cancer for ten years. She planned her own service down to designing the dress in which she would be cremated. There were four hundred people at the event and much live poetry , words and music were performed. There was also one, only one, piece of recorded music . The words were printed and distributed to the crowd. It was a song I had never heard called "Orange Sky," by Alexi Murdoch. Here are the first six lines:

    "Well I had a dream I
    Stood beneath an orange sky
    Yes I had a dream I
    Stood beneath an orange sky
    With my brother standing by
    with my brother standing by"

    In the past I had trouble ( nay , I would have no truck) with ghost stories; now I am having trouble with coincidences.

  • edited March 2011
    I had a friend who claims he can see & talk to ghosts.
    Hi hermit. Similar things happen in the process of drug abuse and mental illness. What do you think is the similarity with meditation, what is the difference here? :hair: :cool:
  • edited March 2011
    I surely do.I have photographs of them on my hand phone. One showed me her face when i told her to(her face is just beside the fire) while the other(in a black dress) put her hand into the fire to collect some offerings.See if you can spot them
  • edited March 2011
    Here are my crummy two cents. Embarrassed

    I'm sure phenomena exist but I don't want to go along with how humans generally account for those phenomena.

    IOW, To label "ghosts" as gods or spirits of ancestors is just as plausible as this: I can imagine a bunch of rowdy college kids in any of the infinite number of universes out there beer-ing it up and playing tricks on us because they've somehow tapped into the ability to mess around like that.

    See? Yes, strange stuff occurs but we have extremely dubious "explanations" of those phenomena. So? I have decided to marvel at them, and try very hard to avoid getting sucked into fearing them, they are extremely unlikely to have anything to do with what we imagine them to be.

    IOW, Because we exist in the human realm, and outside of this realm is HUUUGE, is obscenely easy for humans to be wrong about what motivates these strange events.

    Given that situation, and the basically primitive structure of the flight-or-fight survivalist human brain-organ, we're pre-wired for getting into emotional-imagination trouble!

    Bugging Out...............Faint...............Scared
  • The Avatamasaka Sutra mentions a group of four demons and another group of 10 demons.
  • patbbpatbb Veteran
    edited March 2011
    I had a friend who claims he can see & talk to ghosts.
    The mind is very powerful.

    People who go to retreats will often experience hallucinations that are more real than real life.
    The content of the hallucination depend on the content of your mind.
    (religious people may see their prophet, christian people may see dead relatives, anxious people may see terrifying things etc...)

    The thing is when you stop that little chatting box in your head which take all of your mental activities, and stop poking yourself with distraction all the time (tv, entertainment etc...) the rest of your brain get some of that energy and begin to work for the first time, which leads to raptures including hallucinations.

    Even completely untrained people who have no idea whatsoever about what they are doing will unleash the power of their brain to some extend, given suitable conditions.

    watch this documentary where they isolate some people, removing all entertainment and distractions of normal life (which keep our mind numb and busy).
    Even with no training and no idea whatsoever, some quickly begin to have incredible hallucinations and other experiences...
    http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/alone/
  • If you believe in chi, or spiritual energy, you must accept that for the positive side of the spectrum there is also a negative, and believe me, the negative will try and kill you. maybe not physically, but there are evil people in the world who have powerful minds, and can project evil energy onto others to sap the spirit for the benefit of their own. to not believe, or consider it possible is to entertain ignorance and suffering. Ironically all you need however are love and light.

  • watch this documentary where they isolate some people, removing all entertainment and distractions of normal life (which keep our mind numb and busy).
    Even with no training and no idea whatsoever, some quickly begin to have incredible hallucinations and other experiences...
    I finally get to say this: "Been there done that." High Five Verrrrry cool..., or should I say "neutral?" Actually you can't be "done" with it like in the expression above. I've done it dozens of times. It's always something unique.

    http://www.samadhitank.com/index.html
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isolation_tank

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  • patbbpatbb Veteran
    edited March 2011
    If you believe in chi, or spiritual energy, you must accept that for the positive side of the spectrum there is also a negative, and believe me, the negative will try and kill you. maybe not physically, but there are evil people in the world who have powerful minds, and can project evil energy onto others to sap the spirit for the benefit of their own. to not believe, or consider it possible is to entertain ignorance and suffering. Ironically all you need however are love and light.
    chi is simply life energy; it isn't positive or negative.

    If someone has mastered human knowledge to the point where they are free and can control chi that effectively and easily, these people are probably enlighten or close to be, and have spent a great deal of time and efforts in meditation and their spiritual practice.

    The problem for someone who would like to gain powers for his own evil egoistic desires is that this very idea, this "feeling" will block him from progressing.
    or put another way, in order to progress, he will have to eventually release that feeling and be at peace with the world.

    So the likeliness of a evil extremely powerful chi master is extremely small in my understanding. (not impossible, but not common, very rare)
    I can see many people who can develop some kind of powers and use them to hurt others but those will likely be pretty weak.
  • edited March 2011
    That's a mouthful Patbb.The hindrance is there which will curb progress.It's also like that anti-gravity meditation(elevation) stunt to impress others.That person will be stuck at that level all his life.No progress in meditation will take place
    Rules for attaining Siddhis
    (112) Do not call those fierce ghosts together and utilize them to hurt others.
  • edited March 2011
    you must accept that for the positive side of the spectrum there is also a negative, and believe me, the negative will try and kill you. maybe not physically, but there are evil people in the world who have powerful minds, and can project evil energy onto others to sap the spirit for the benefit of their own..
    With all due respect and kindness coming from me Shambhala, I can't go there. If there are such people who have harnessed negative powers and can project them against us, they are just like common criminals: essentially cowards and, except in a very limited physical arena (like physically holding us prisoner) they're _not_ very powerful. I have to assume it's very easy to detect and stay away from them. I'm guessing a fearless mind makes you immune.
    :)
  • The Dharmakaya includes the ten directions of limitless space, the three pillars of time,past, present and future, the whole entity and the whole truth, so whether we are dead or alive, whether we are Buddha,whether we still transmigrate, everything and everyone is still in the Dharmakaya.
    Thus should we not help ghosts to reflect on their lifetime and why they became ghosts by falling into sin and into the ghost realm?
  • A friend of mine who has always rejected any ideas of the paranormal started having visitations by her mother's spirit after her mother died. She tolerated these for months until she finally got up the nerve to ask her siblings if they had seen anything similar. They had.
  • Our ancestors always come to us for help and we are in a good position to help them.We can offer prayers and transfer the merits of our chanting and meditation onto them.We should have compassion for them.I mean where else could they go for help?
    The Bible says,"Naked they come and naked they go."But they actually take all the sins they have committed with them because all have been recorded by Yama.
  • edited March 2011
    But they actually take all the sins they have committed with them because all have been recorded by Yama.
    Hi deepak. May I ask who your teacher is, possibly a Hindu? :)
  • edited March 2011
    A friend of mine who has always rejected any ideas of the paranormal started having visitations by her mother's spirit after her mother died. She tolerated these for months until she finally got up the nerve to ask her siblings if they had seen anything similar. They had.
    With all due respect and kindness c_w: Your friend's fascinating experence can appear creepy or it can appear marvelous and unknowable. Like looking at a tree leaf and not being able to explain it! The leaf is marvelous and, except-in-human-terms, unknowable.

    Also: the coincidence that all the kids felt the same thing doesn't prove much except something marvelous happened which we can't explain. It certainly is not proof that the mother (or an aspect of her?) was the cause; maybe she was maybe she wasn't. Neither conclusion is more substantial than the other.

    Again, it could just as well be caused by what I suggested above: the funny example of some beer-y college kids in another one of the infinite parallel universes (?!) somewhere who got access to some "channel" and just started messing with your friend and his siblings. Maybe even the Infinite Universe version of "Girls-Gone-Wild" because they think your friend's cute!

    I'm not sure what to label myself. I could use some help. I'm not a skeptic. I'm not a [insert something "spiritual" here].

    I'm just assuming we can only know things in human terms in this human realm while we're here as humans.

    PLUS: There's poetry on one side of the brain and science on the other, if you will. Nothing in between! HAHA!

  • edited March 2011
    deleted goofed again! sorry
  • No, not a Hindu.My Master is a Buddhist of Chinese origin and I practice Theravada, Mahayana and the Vajrayana.I don't belong to any particular school
  • edited March 2011

    Also: the coincidence that all the kids felt the same thing doesn't prove much except something marvelous happened which we can't explain.
    I wasn't trying to prove anything. Just adding another ghost story to the thread, so we can all marvel at the inexplicable. :) Life is full of mystery. Enjoy the mystery.
    Again, it could just as well be caused by what I suggested above: the funny example of some beer-y college kids in another one of the infinite parallel universes (?!) somewhere who got access to some "channel" and just started messing with your friend and his siblings.
    You're not serious, right? :rolleyes: Where would we be without string theory to explain this stuff? :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
  • well I personally can hear voices if I listen hard enough at "paranormal locations". I've also seen people that I had been to their funeral . strangely though, they all seem extremely skinny. my uncle was a drug addict and alcoholic, so I think it's possible that I've seen a hungry ghost.
  • edited March 2011
    No, not a Hindu.My Master is a Buddhist of Chinese origin and I practice Theravada, Mahayana and the Vajrayana.I don't belong to any particular school
    That seems like a lot of schools you practise, friend. :)
  • well I personally can hear voices if I listen hard enough at "paranormal locations". I've also seen people that I had been to their funeral . strangely though, they all seem extremely skinny. my uncle was a drug addict and alcoholic, so I think it's possible that I've seen a hungry ghost.
    Chant more and transfer the merits onto them.I used to do 360 rounds of my mala to help my ancestors a few years ago just out of compassion.

  • edited March 2011
    No, not a Hindu.My Master is a Buddhist of Chinese origin and I practice Theravada, Mahayana and the Vajrayana.I don't belong to any particular school
    That seems like a lot of schools you practise, friend. :)
    I did the Theravada and Mahayana in my past life and I died in a sitting position while meditating by the River Ganges.In this life I started with the Vajrayana and still practice some of the great Mahayana meditations.Only one path

  • As a kid I used to see ghosts at night walking around my bedroom. I'm a sceptic though, and without any hard evidence, or at least seeing one as an adult, i don't see the point in beleiving.
  • Kids are uninhibited and very open to seeing "ghosts" and talking about their past lives (those who remember them). After they go to school a few years, they learn that that stuff isn't "real", and they acculturate to the material world more. They learn to filter out their perception of phenomena that aren't considered valid by the adults around them. This isn't as true, for example in Native American communities, where it's not considered unusual or unreal to see departed loved ones.
  • I've experienced a lot of distortion of sound and mental perspective how images look. One of few hallucinations was one of my mom's dolls hands I was afraid it would wave at me because I was so unearthed from my space. And this weird horror feeling came at me.

    But I've had a lot of sound things. Distortions of sound extreme so songs don't have the same emotional program or themes, but also voices I can hear in my head. They tell me usually yes or no or I hate or something, but I have to listen to them with respect and consideration, yet not autopilot them and let them put too much pressure without a release. So yeah sometimes patience.


  • You're not serious, right? :rolleyes: Where would we be without string theory to explain this stuff? :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
    Good one! String Theory. Soooooo enjoyable - it's almost infotainment!! :thumbsup:

    FWIW, I'm 20% serious. I mean we messed with animals in the zoo when we were kids. Try to test them, make them wonder. Nothing cruel, just for fun. Why can't "ghosts" be doing the same thing to us? They might not even know we see them as ghosts! They might even wonder if we feel "creeped out." I know a chimpanzee feels fear but would they feel "creepiness?" No biggie. Oh! compassionate_warrior: I know you weren't intending to..., I dunno..., something like "take a stand" and prove something; I know we're just talking.

    High Five


  • 'Hi hermit. Similar things happen in the process of drug abuse and mental illness. What do you think is the similarity with meditation, what is the difference here?'
    As far as I know, he doesnt use drugs and seems perfectly normal.
  • A buddhist monk told me that these beings are on lower realm than humans, just as animals are below us. So, they are fearful of people just as animals are.
  • Hallucinations caused by imperfect vision. The word Makyo I recently noted means ghost cave or nest. It seems hopefull that someone can emerge. I had a question if it had to do with shifting visions. Laughter and intoxications.
  • I understand some people can see ghosts in meditation. We are advised to ignore them.
  • From the age of 4 I've had a connection with the spirit realm. As a kid the first spirits I saw were also the most visual and obvious ones I've seen. But even in my adult years I experience phenomena that is like a build up. Where my encounter with a spirit affects my whole day on a physical level.

    They're energy and thus energy can affect many things. So it is never a "hallucination" when I encounter a spirit. It is not even close to a guessing game, it is that obvious. I am a no nonsense practical type, but I am not at all a bigot. I think to say someone is just hallucinating encounters with spirits is a form of bigotry.

    When you encounter a cat outside in the middle of the night, is that a hallucination? To me, the way I have encountered spirits is as physical as that. In my adult life I have encountered them in a way that left no doubt in my mind that they were genuine. It wasn't a matter of false identification or hallucination it was just a ridiculous encounter of something from another plane.
    I have these encounters almost once a year or more. Whenever I have these experiences I remember them in vivid detail just due to how bizarre they tend to be. When you see a tiger in the wild you would remember it forever, it is like that.

    There are a few of my accounts and a very recent one on this thread.
    http://newbuddhist.com/discussion/9688/would-you-be-superstitious-if-this-happened-to-yous#Item_42
    But I have all sorts of stories of my time dealing with genuine spirits. I call them spirits over ghosts, because I don't always believe that they're dead humans. But rather sometimes I believe they're their own entities.
  • edited March 2011
    I understand some people can see ghosts in meditation. We are advised to ignore them.
    Excellent advice. Silly ghosts!

    GhostShockedGhost
  • CloudCloud Veteran
    edited March 2011
    I've never had any kind of supernatural experience, so I don't "believe" in ghosts. And yet, neither do I "disbelieve" because there's no way to know for sure, and many other people do. Staying away from believing/disbelieving when there's no evidence either way is a good way to deal with such things, if you haven't seen anything for yourself.

    I'm the same way with other realms, gods, and literal rebirth. No clinging to things I don't actually "know" for myself.
  • edited March 2011
    I've never had any kind of supernatural experience, so I don't "believe" in ghosts.
    Yup! Nice going Cloud. That's where I want to go when/if I see one. Perhaps another way of saying it is: in the case of "ghosts" one would be wise to choose NOT to believe in the explanations.

    Hmm
  • Well you have to think out how it benefits or hinders you. If I told taiyaki that the film on George Girshwin that is recently out was very good then yall would have to ascertain whehter that was pertinent information and whether to do a wiki search or google or just say 'Jeffrey is full of it'.
  • it is possible, but I haven't seen one... I guess I scare them :p

    but a friend saw many ghosts that may be considered pretas. she haven't seen them recently.
  • zombiegirlzombiegirl beating the drum of the lifeless in a dry wasteland Veteran
    years ago, i used to work in a shipping/packaging warehouse that was quite haunted. i never had any experiences until i was promoted to a position that had me working nearly alone in another area of the warehouse. for months, i would see things out of the corner of my eye and ignore it, thinking i was tired. one time, i literally followed a figure around a corner, convinced it was my supervisor (who i had to talk to), only to find nobody there and my supervisor all the way across the department in the other direction from me. i still chalked all this up to my imagination until one time i went into the break room and a bunch of my co-workers were talking about ghosts and stuff. i asked them if they saw things at our work and they responded, "of course, you MUST see them! everyone sees them in YOUR department!" scared the crap out of me, haha. i couldn't keep lying to myself and pretending i didn't see anything after that. the worst experience was one day i was checking an order. i was facing a pathway, looking down at a piece of paper and checking off items when over the top of my paper, i saw legs running at me. i jumped, dropped the paper, and there was nothing there.

    honestly, despite these experiences, i still don't really know if i believe in ghosts. according to ghost hunters, a lot of electronic devices around you can have funny influences on your brain. they can make you feel physical sensations, like being itchy. they can make you hallucinate too. there was definitely a lot of electronics surrounding me in that warehouse.

    i guess, i don't want to be that person that says, "i don't believe in ghosts because they don't fit in with my understanding of the world!" but.. that's kinda true. combined with the fact that it doesn't really effect me either way. my best friend claims to be somewhat clairvoyant, just last night he was telling me all about the spirits he feels inhabit his work. but to me, everything he says just seems to be based on his thoughts and perception, which is INCREDIBLY unreliable. that's not a dig against him, btw, i just mean that the mind and feelings in general are not very reliable.

  • A friend of mine who has always rejected any ideas of the paranormal started having visitations by her mother's spirit after her mother died. She tolerated these for months until she finally got up the nerve to ask her siblings if they had seen anything similar. They had.
    thats always the way - never say never!
  • vinlynvinlyn Colorado...for now Veteran
    Well, this is going to sound more "Christian" than "Buddhist", but as my father was nearing death, I spent the last several days visiting him in the hospital. On the final morning before I needed to return home to go back to work, I arrived at the hospital and he was very agitated, saying that I needed to go home immediately because "they" couldn't take him until I was home. I asked who "they" were, and he replied "the airmen" (he had been in the Air Force for many, many years). "They will take me when you arrive home." I had intended to stay until noon and then head home -- about a 7 hour drive. He continued to be agitated, and I finally decided he would be better if I left for home so he could calm down. He kept saying things like, "Where the hell are they. They've been here all morning waiting for you to head home." So, I headed home, and walked in the door at home at almost exactly 6 p.m. At 6:06 the phone rang, and they informed me that my dad had passed over. I asked if they could tell me the exact time of death...it took them several minutes to get back to me. He passed over at exactly the minute I walked in the door at home..."they" took him exactly when "they" said "they" would. Maybe just a huge coincidence???
  • I think you win the prize for our ghost stories and paranormal activity stories (on another thread), vinlyn! I don't believe it's coincidence. :)
  • DakiniDakini Veteran
    I wonder why "they" wanted you to be at home when your dad passed over? That's interesting. Great story, vinlyn! You know, they say those not far from death choose the time or day of their passing. But in this case, though your dad had a general idea of how long it would take you to get home, he couldn't know exactly how many minutes; he couldn't guess the exact time you'd walk in the door. I think his ethereal visitors had an eye on the situation, and waited for you to walk in the door. ;)
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