Hi,
I'm wondering what the view is on humans who can talk to the deceased? By deseased, I mean humans who have passed away on earth who have not been reborn into the Hungry Ghost realm. I have known genuine mediums (of whom are not Buddhist) who have contacted loved ones for people; and they do not do this for the money or to rip people off, they do it to let the living know that they're loved ones are happy and at peace. I'm sorry if this sounds very out of place, since the Hungry Ghost realm is a result of a bad karmic life, I cannot believe a medium contacts the deceased from this realm when a lot of love is given by yhe spirits of humans that come through to communicate. In terms of mediumship, I'm referring to the spiritualist movement (spiritualist churches and demonstrations of mediumship).
In the last 6 months, I went with a friend to see a medium (They were happy for me to sit in). My friend had not visited this medium before or had any prior connections with them. The only communication they had was a single phone call to book a suitable time to meet. my friend has no social media accounts; so no prior snooping could have been done on the medium's part. When we arrived and sat down, the medium 'tuned in' as all genuine mediums do, and without them even saying a word the medium had accurately got the name of her father who passed away 18 years ago, their grandad and aunts and uncles. Described them perfectly and told of some of my friends past events to boot. The medium told us both not to 'feed' him as he wanted no sort of information from us; yet he managed to do what he did sincerely.
I have not described this incident to poke holes or to cause any doubt in regards to Buddhist thought; but I have a genuine belief that humans can have an ability (Whether it is a type of attachment or unhealthy practice) to contact the deceased.
What I'm trying to do is to place this practice of mediumship into Buddhist thought, cosmology and/or philosophy; as I have no reason to disbelieve Mediumship and I have no reason to doubt my Biddhist school of thought (Theravada) so I'm trying to find a middle ground here between the two which I'm confident that it exists, I just have not found it yet. Even if it's to the suggestion that the hungry ghost rralm isn't just full of greedy, tortured souls; and there are different levels - to an extent where humans become ghosts/spirits and suffer just as much as we do (possibly a bit more due to it being a lower world) but still have the power to practice and feel loving-kindness.
Any helpful thoughts and suggetions are deeply appreciated!
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Theravada doesn't deny the ability to hear/talk to beings in other realms. Such abilities seem to potentially occur naturally as a result of a contemplative life (in this or previous lives). For example, from the Akankheyya Sutta:
Or the Iddhipada-vibhanga Sutta:
That said, the Buddha always considers these lesser attainments than the purification of one's own heart and mind, and he also discouraged monks from using their abilities to do things like that in order to 'make a living':
If rebirth is indeed real, people can be born into any number of different realms, and people who are sensitive enough can see, hear, and observe them. Some realms are bad, some are good, and some are a mix, like ours.
This is interesting, @Jason, thanks. I would have said, that the Buddha discouraged "soothsaying", which mediumship could be categorized as, but I like your answer better.
Maybe it is possessed?
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Interesting enough, it's not listed as wrong livelihood for lay followers, though. ?♀️
What some call mediumship today is a inborn quality that arise when a person cultivate example the buddhist teachings to a higher understanding. But one should not attach to the ability, if it does open up it means you also have open up the wisdom eye, or 3rd eye as it is also called. But when this happens the person also know that one should not use the ability to "show off" to others. it is only a product of the cultivation of mind and body.
How does it help to "cultivate mind and body"?
I think it is something you can ask for to help like you would other things. For instance you could ask a medium, or an oracle, or spirits, elves, ring bearers or whatever (ghostbusters or ice cream) for something. If you have belief/confidence in them.
Like we have belief in medicine or the legal system and when we need the power of a doctor or lawyer we go to them.
But whatever it is you believe in does not supplant the triple gem refuge. So in the end a medium isn't the refuge (or lawyer or doctor or social worker etc).
I think I recently heard someone talk about the oracle of Delphi in history the types of answers. I wonder if it was Ram Dass or a TED talk or what have you? but the oracle of Delphi is famous for giving people cryptic answers. And it was an actual institution long ago.
You could also possibly have bad doctors or mediums etc which is probably why they are not part of the refuge in the Buddha, dharma, or sangha.
In Tibetan Buddhism the use of oracles is pretty well established, his holiness the Dalai Lama even consults them on occasion and he’s otherwise a fairly scientific man. Of course it’s not Theravāda and so maybe of limited use to the OP.
From what I gather Buddhist practitioners can 'believe' in all kinds of things...
In a nut shell the Buddha said See for yourself "Ehipassiko"....and I guess this applies to most things...including mediumship
The most essential method which includes all other methods, is to behold the Mind-The Mind is the root from which all things grow...If one can understand the Mind...Everything else is included
~Bodhidharma~
It is the other way around. Cultivation leads to spider senses ... which require great responsibility.
For example:
and now back to the hungry ghost buster realm ...
As a Buddhist, we accept first-hand experience. Not belief.
Talking to deceased people may be merely a trick of our mind ... unless of course they gave us some object that remained when they stopped talking with us. I think THAT might be proof.
And as a Buddhist we don't bother with theories or beliefs .. we work on developing mindfulness and attending to whatever is actually happening in this moment ... especially what is happening inside of us.