For an instant I missed the 'i' on the iMac and thought you were having a deliveroo burger...
federica
How as a Buddhist do I forgive this guy and see it’s just as karma influencer
You get your sangha to take the hit
… wait … think I may have gone wrong again … 
lobster

"Loving the world to me, is no chore;
My big problem's the guy next door!"
Practising Metta and distributing our love, kindness, compassion and equanimity to all and sundry is easy-peasy Japaneesy... but pick one individual, and it's as hard as a giant jaw-breaker candy ball.
What's more, our sense of righteous indignation, and desire for justice, gets in the way, like some 7-foot high and three-foot wide guy directly in front of us at the ball game, whom, no matter how hard we try, we just can't see round.
Me? I love everyone, and can wrap my arms around the world, from Ghengis Khan, to Hitler, to Saint Francis of Assisi to HHDL... But I am still bugged by the fucktard who stole my tortoises 16 years ago, in France, and I know who it was too, damnit...
Time I dropped this, right?
Exactly.
federica