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Should Temple's Charge fees?
Hi Guys,
I am about to take my precepts soon. I am attending to a Zen Buddhist Temple in Canada...
They charge fee for precept cerenomy. I wonder if this is normal. Sure I understand they need money to operate but everything should be based on donations. Especially, a special occasion like "precept taking ceremony" should be charge-free in my opinion.
Now I have a well paying full time job, so to me it doesn't matter, but a lot of students/unemployed people cannot afford it ($150)...So it kind of bothers me...PS: I know that they still charge unemployed/students but with a discount ($120)...
I really like my teacher, her style resinated with me and I am comfortable with her but this fee issue is bugging me...
Anybody who wants to become a Buddhist and wants to take the precepts should do so without a fee charge...
What do you guys think?
[Mod Edit: Moved to Sanghas]
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I was just a little surprised at the OP who disliked the idea of going through such a ceremony at a cost of $150. I don't blame her. To be honest, I would be very suspicious. I give fairly generously at temples, but I choose to do it.
There's debate on the subject, but I think you "become" a Buddhist when you internally take refuge in the Buddha, his teachings (the Dharma) and his disciples (the Sangha) as your guides to this life. Just like a Christian becomes one when they accept Jesus was the son of God and died for our sins and such. It's about your choice... if you choose to be a Buddhist, you're a Buddhist.
(Some would say you're a Buddhist if you follow the Noble Eightfold Path and observe the Precepts. It varies, but the point is it's completely on you... it has nothing to do with ceremonies or formalities, but what you do.)
I am okay to pay the money - in fact I would love to do that as a donation..
I am questioning the temples' approach here...
They should also give an option to the people who have no money....I don't want to change my temple because of this but I think their approach is too materialistic!
Check the reason why you are experiencing suffering in terms of the concept of materialism.
Check the reason why this has become your temple.
Ask if these two reasons are hindering your practice.
Then sweep the floor
So it's not the temple being gready. It's the temple trying to survive in today's world. How you feel depends on which side of the stack of bills you're sitting at. Ceremonies are important. Certainly, you don't have to do anything at all to be a Buddhist but take refuge in your own mind. But, if you have a chance, it is a memory you will cherish. And you'll be doing your part to help support an important resource for the Buddhists in Canada.
You know what I agree with what you said and I feel really bad for even thinking of this. However, I still think there could be another option. For instance, wealthy members can share the cost for those who cannot afford. I am willing to pay every month for someone who cannot afford it, and I am sure there are others who are willing to do so.
Or ceremony can be kept optional so who doesn't have the money can chose to take the precepts without attending to the ceremony.
I just have a negative feeling when I am forced to pay fees in a religious setting. In all of my time in Thailand I visited hundreds of temples...maybe over a thousand. I was always very generous when I visited a temple. Except for those which charged to visit...and they would get the 10 or 20 baht, and nothing else from me.
A fee is one thing. A suggested donation is another approach.
I might have felt similar before I was on the board and saw how things work.
For us our Ministers are not celibate monks. They marry, have families, homes, cars etc. If we want a Minister, we have to be able to allow him or her to earn a living.
Our Temple has an annual membership fee of $100. I know many temples that have a higher fee. In our case there is no charge for affirmation, though I imagine most people do make a donation. (I didn't but to be honest, I didn't realize it would be an appropriate thing to do. Sometimes I'm really not very bright)
However it is generally expected that if a Minister performs a Funeral, or Marriage ceremony or something of that nature, the family will make a donation.
To be honest I find you concerns sort of curious. You wouldn't be suspicious of a fee for a university course, or an art class, or yoga/fitness class would you? How much more valuable might this be than any of those things? I can guarantee you that having fees for some things makes the book keeping easier.
So why would specifying a modest fee for services rendered...in this case a ceremony be more suspicious than just hoping you will feel generous?
I earn my living as a music teacher in my home. I have set fees. I don't let my students decide what they aught to pay, and I know for sure I would go broke fast if I did. Why should offering religious services be any different?
You might choose to be very generous, but the next person might not. If you want the Temple to remain viable and stable, set fees is really the best way to do it.
How much do you charge for someone to read the Dhamma?
Now, you might think those are odd questions, but, "To the Buddha I go for refuge. The the Dhamma I go for refuge. To the Sangha I go for refuge." In my view, you shouldn't be REQUIRED to pray to take refuge in the Triple Gem.
A university or art class has no problem with materialistic view and they can charge anything they want...They are profit based organizations.
I still think it is wrong to make the fees mandatory!
Having set fees helps keep the cost of full time memberships down. If you start a strict "donations only" policy then people complain just as much and it's impossible to plan a budget. Believe me, I've been there. They complain that either people don't know how much to donate so they'd rather have a set fee or membership, or that it pressures people to donate what they can't afford since any "suggested donation" is treated like something only stingy people meet. And yes, we got complaints that some people were freeloading who obviously had money. And if you're part of a larger organization, your group is always being pressured to give so much to the parent organization each year.
After my last year on a board I swore that I'd never again put myself under such frustration.
The centers catering to Westerners here seem to be more commercialized, cater to yuppies and seem to promote more of "feeling good" mentality and hippiness.
I have a problem with a temple charging a fee for any kind of ceremony.
We show that we should not discriminate. For example Shit is not dirty. Shit is fertilizer which allows beautiful oxygen producing plants to grow which give us something to eat and breath. As someone who sees the financial report of my temple every month I can assure you....we are very much non-profit!
No matter how noble our teaching is, the electric company, heating company etc. still want money to provide those services to the Temple. Our Temple is often the victim of property damage by teens, homeless and racism, and that requires repairs and those repairs and or the materials required for the repairs costs money.
No matter how enlightened a teacher is, he/she still needs to eat, be clothed and have shelter...none of which are readily had in our world without money. "How much do you charge to meditate in front of a statue of Buddha?"
Well, do you have a statue? Was it free?
Is it in a building? Does that building have heat and electricity?
"How much do you charge for someone to read the Dhamma?"
Well do you have a Book of the Dhamma? Was it free or did you have to buy it?
(when you bought it, could you just make a donation to the store or was it a set price?)
You get the idea.
"you shouldn't be REQUIRED to pray to take refuge in the Triple Gem."
And you aren't required to pay (I am assuming "pray' was a typo) You can take refuge any time you want. But if you want to do it in a Temple making use of the training, knowledge, experience and time of a teacher and all the people who maintain the Temple, then yeah I think you should be required to give something back. I mean....do you value it? Some people might want to make a donation but are unsure how much is appropriate. I guess that Temple could call it a "suggested donation of $X.xx" but then it is just semantics really. The Buddhist Churches of America and Canada are very Asian (probably too much for their own future good, but that is a different discussion) and are not catering to yuppies or promoting some shallow feel good teaching.
To the best of my knowledge ALL affiliated Temple charge a membership fee.
Now you do not need to be a member to fully participate in the Temple (except to serve on the board...but that is a government law) and most people make donations in addition to the membership fee. I know for sure my Temple could not survive on the membership fee alone.
Personally I think set fees are more transparent than just donations anyway.
I do find it interesting that two of us saying there is no problem with fees, are not just going to temples, but volunteering our time to help keep the temples running, and see first hand what the financial situation for our Temples are.
Anyway I guess at the end of the day you are arguing against any points saying there is no problem with fees, so you clearly have made up your mind so I would suggest you should look for another Temple.
Then again there are temples and centers which have no sponsors, and these places have no choice but to place fees on everything they offer. It's not evil. It's just a necessity.
If you want don't want to pay fees or high rates of donations, then I suggest you look for a temple which has a board of sponsors.
Certain Zen centers like Middle Land Chan Monastery http://www.ctzen.org/middleland/english/branches.html caters to both . They have meditation, walking meditation, tea breaks, dharma class, or vegetarian meal weekly. English on Sunday, Chinese on Sasturday. It is free, people are free to donate what they want when they want. Also there are half day retreat once a month.
Maybe someone can list other monasteries that are similar so that people can find them more easily.
With metta,
Of course, there are churches that have literally gone out of business...perhaps that's a function of what a particular community can support.
And I'm certainly not saying there is anything immoral with a temple charging fees for some services...although precept number ten is to refrain from taking gold or silver. Hmmmmmm.
It is true, there is a precept in the Vinaya not allowing monastics to charge for services. It should be based on a donation basis. But then some tradition follow the vinaya more closely than others. Personally, I prefer that they abide by the vinaya. If the system of donation doesn't work the Buddha wouldn't have set it up that way in the first place. Many western monks in Theraveda abide by that precept and they function just fine.
With metta,
Here is my suggestion. If the Temple is a non-profit society and they probably are, then pay the fee you need to, get onto the board of directors (which they must have if they are a registered society) and you can bring your idealism in and change the policy.
The precept against taking gold or silver is for monks and nuns, not the laity. And almost 100% of the management of any temple is made up of the laity. Even monks and nuns have to worry about having a roof over their heads and having a decent meal to survive, let alone thinking of how to teach, the rental, the study materials, etc.
If on the other hand you decide that the people actually involved in running the Temple, and the teacher who has actually gone through training, might know more about this than you, maybe you give them the benefit of the doubt.
Either way good luck with your decision.
Consider that most would have no idea what an appropriate donation would be for such a ceremony, and many would likely be oblivious a donation was even expected. I don't think it inappropriate at all.
Imagine yourself as a homeless, how would you feel if you cannot attend the basic services because you cannot afford it?
There is absoulately no excuse to this very basic principle!
Nowadays, a group of lay people get together and make arrangements to feed the few monks at the monastery and raise funds to pay for other expenses ,so a lot of times they don't actually have to go on alms round. It can be hard to obtain food by going on alms these days in the West because there is is no tradition of giving alms . Besides sometimes people are in their houses with gates and locked doors or at work, so it can be difficult to obtain food. But if these are taken care of by a committee who chip in to sponsor the monks then the monks don't have to possess money or spend money. They can still keep their precept. The monastic life was set up to make it easier to follow the precept. The teachings and meditation classes can be offer free of charge in return.
It depends if we prefer monks that follow the precepts. If we do then keep in mind that they depend on dana. If we don't mind if they follow this rule or not then pay for the services. It is the same either way. Since that is the case, with the donation system the monks can keep their precepts and people can practice developing generosity. Also, this way the dhamma remain accessible to anyone regardless of their level of income and not just a particular class/ people who can afford it. It is less like a business transaction in this case.
With metta,
When I can afford the full suggested donation, I do so. If I can't afford the full price, I tend to donate hours of my time to help with Zendo upkeep. I have helped move stuff around, clean up, etc.
Spiny
The Buddha taught in a time and place where his system worked... it doesn't work (yet) perfectly in the west, due to such communities of support (where the community is made up largely of lay Buddhists who support the monastery) being relatively rare. Please keep that in mind before getting indignant about the costs for some services.
In effect, the 'stinginess' or non willingness to pay by some is in effect subsidised by those whom do so. So the scale may thus not be so obvious.
At Amaravati etc one will see many Thai people supporting and donating at local festivals and events. Those temples I also believe are generously supported by wealthy Thai people so again, subsidisation is in effect.
In so called Western mindsets, dana is not customarily a large part of the mindset. And buildings and centers need to be sustained, they need to pay bills, maintenance etc. Further as another poster pointed out some monks and nuns are typically paid for services if it is part of their order, and they also have families to feed and houses/flats to rent.
I would not diss out of hand donations or services to be paid. Again it is influenced by the Asian mentality but until those of us in the West do give ourself quite generously, it is probably an issue and a systematic method of payment might be one method used to render this functional.
IMO.
Abu
PS I too baulk at paying my fees - see?
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Best wishes on the upcoming ceremony! Don't feel bad about the question. But I think that the centre would most likely accomodate if anyone had any actual issues of payment (however I think ? these are usually private questions and conversations)
Anyway it was a fair question and fair debate. Hope the discussion has helped and again, best wishes on the ceremony day and in all your practice!!
Many thanks.
Gassho,
Abu
Some of you feel it's a good idea to charge people for basic Buddhist services. Okay. I understand your point of view and why. It's okay for you to have that viewpoint.
Some of you feel it's an acceptable idea to charge people for basic Buddhist services. Okay. I understand your point of view and why. It's okay for you to have that viewpoint.
Some of you feel it's an acceptable idea to have voluntary but stated suggested donations for basic Buddhist services. Okay. I understand your point of view and why. It's okay for you to have that viewpoint.
For me, I think a temple should sustain itself through the contributions of its members, while fees may be charged for special services. This is how the temples work in Thailand, but it's also the way the temples have worked which I have attended here in the States. I am not dissing anyone. I am not saying the monks at temples are cheating anyone.
May I be allowed to have my own viewpoint even if it's not yours?
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