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What is normal?

lobsterlobster Crusty Veteran
edited April 2013 in General Banter
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I read somewhere that the Buddha lived with a bunch of men in the woods.
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Well he may have been a queen, king, Hindu heretic, alien, human or whatever but what has that got to do with me? What if he had been a crazy holy man? It is hard enough being sane . . . let alone having to deal with half forgotten teachings from antiquity . . .

What happens if I am just unsuited to all this being kind, being wise etc?

Can't I just be normal?
paigenenkohaiperson

Comments

  • ZeroZero Veteran
    lobster said:


    Can't I just be normal?

    You can only be yourself.
    paigelobsternenkohaiInvincible_summer
  • I am convinced that "normality" is a product of hubris. Which is also closely connected to what is perceived as "reality."

    "Arrogance of the Third Kind (hubris)", in a word, sucks.
  • ToshTosh Veteran
    Carl Jung said, "Show me a sane man and I will cure him for you".

    I think we can infer from that, that being sane ('normal') is actually abnormal, and our normal state is one of abnormality.

    It's like one of those paradoxes eh?

    :D
    nenkohaiInvincible_summer
  • ahhh, I just caught myself. I'll let my above comment stand, but it does come from a POV of suffering.
  • vinlynvinlyn Colorado...for now Veteran
    Zero said:

    lobster said:


    Can't I just be normal?

    You can only be yourself.
    Hmm. I'd say that the purpose of Buddhism is to be better than yourself.
    paige
  • ToshTosh Veteran
    edited April 2013
    vinlyn said:

    Zero said:

    lobster said:


    Can't I just be normal?

    You can only be yourself.
    Hmm. I'd say that the purpose of Buddhism is to be better than yourself.
    I thought the purpose of Buddhism was to see beyond the (false) self?

    (Sorry for being a smarty pants)

  • vinlynvinlyn Colorado...for now Veteran
    Tosh said:

    vinlyn said:

    Zero said:

    lobster said:


    Can't I just be normal?

    You can only be yourself.
    Hmm. I'd say that the purpose of Buddhism is to be better than yourself.
    I thought the purpose of Buddhism was to see beyond the (false) self?

    (Sorry for being a smarty pants)

    I was expecting that from someone, and almost included it in my post, but then I though no, let them have their fun.

    :p
    lobster
  • ZeroZero Veteran
    vinlyn said:


    Hmm. I'd say that the purpose of Buddhism is to be better than yourself.

    Maybe.
    What I said was what I felt in response to the OP rather than a critique of the purpose of Buddhism.
  • howhow Veteran Veteran
    edited April 2013
    Normal just says that you are part of MY tribe. Just another delusive equivalent for what makes one feel comfortable or predictable.
    lobsterInvincible_summer
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