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Is it wrong to close your eyes completely?
For the life of me, I can't seem to get this whole "eyes partially closed" thing down pat while meditating. I feel like my eyes are going cross if I don't shut them. I don't feel in danger of falling asleep when I close my eyes, so is it acceptable form to keep them shut? Or is part of the practice getting over posture and form and the sort? I feel like I'm cheating by not trying to stick with it, but I used to have problems with my eyes in the past and I'm not entirely comfortable doing it. Although, who is comfortable starting out, especially trying to get into full lotus position and the sort, right?
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Stretch, sit and practise the Lotus Position - when you're NOT meditating.
Adopting the Lotus position should feel natural and comfortable.
If you have to make a strenuous effort to sit in it, maintain it and over-ride discomfort and pain - you shouldn't be doing it.
And do whatever you're comfortable doing, with your eyes.
Meditation should be a relaxed extension of your practice - not a physical ordeal that leaves you 'stressing' about what's right or not.
Thanks!
It makes walking meditation hazadorous though.
You should try walking meditation before sitting.
http://buddhist-meditation-techniques.com/meditation/walking-meditation/
Use a timer
https://insighttimer.com/
You are probabably trying to sit for too long. A mantra meditation is a good way to develop focus, calm and effects initially.
then attentive to a technique
then we can start meditating . . .
whatever is you at ease
is worth sitting for
Meditation is not an activity. It is the lack of activity. Just chill. Be attentive to the chill.
Sit more but try less.
Doing is the Western way.
Meditation is a bit like taking a dog for a walk without the dog. Or sitting by a river fishing, without a rod. Or waiting for a bus that you have no need to catch.
Hope that will open your eyes a little. Blinking is allowed . . .
Just a personal anecdote:
When I started meditating, I followed the zazen form - very erect posture, hands in a mudra, eyes half-closed and softly gazing at a point ~3ft ahead on the floor. It was fine for zazen, where the focus of meditation was more along the lines of being aware of the present moment.
However, when I began dipping my toes into the samatha-vipassana pool, I found it very difficult to develop concentration without closing my eyes. If I was to focus on the breath entering my nose, for example, it was much easier for me to have that pointed concentration when my eyes were closed.
When I tried to do zazen with my eyes closed, I found it was quite easy for me to get sleepy, as I am not really focusing on anything in particular. So it seems that certain forms are more conducive to certain meditation styles... at least in my experience.
So, like others have said, it really depends on what your meditation goals are. Since you're new to the practice, I'd say play around with what works best for you, maybe even do some reading on different meditation styles (as well as trying them out) to see what sounds more up your alley.
I never do that, but sometimes I will keep my eyes partially open, esp. if I'm in a dark room.
One reason I like to do that is I once read where certain Buddhist statues depict the Buddha with eyes half open to show that he was only minimally concerned with this life, and was mainly focused instead on nirvana/enlightenment, or something to that effect.
I agree, I find it to be a hard technique to master although it seems to come naturally to some.
Eyes closed tends to be more calming and allow more focus, because there are less distractions. (calm and focus are the same thing basically).
Eyes open is what I do when I tend to fall asleep. (or I just sleep )
^^^ Pema Chodron on working with shenpa
I meditate with my eyes fully open, if I have them closed I get drowsy. Do whatever comes naturally.
Also, don't force yourself into full lotus position, you'll damage your knees. The full lotus position causes the knees to bend in at an unnatural angle, if (like me) you're not sufficiently flexible you'll do yourself an injury. People say it's traditionally the best position for meditation, but then people have traditionally been eating tiger willies for centuries to increase sex drive, tradition doesn't necessarily equate to best practice.
~ Thanissaro Bhikkhu
. . . wait a minute that is Roshi Miyagi
"Wax on. Wax off."
Bubble Bath Meditation, cucumber slices, solve the eye problem
http://newbuddhist.com/discussion/17765/bubble-bath-meditation
In the Maha-satipatthana Sutta, the Buddha taught us to maintain mindfulness in all postures (standing, walking, sitting, lying down) as well as during all activities which he specifically includes the act of looking around with the eyes and also that of falling asleep which means we should develop the ability to remain focused and aware when the eyes are open as well as when they are closed.