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Judging people......

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  • sovasova delocalized fractyllic harmonizing Veteran
    @Vastmind sorry. Evocative examples tend to help send the message through, is all.
    lobster
  • VastmindVastmind Memphis, TN Veteran
    edited January 2014
    ^^^ I knew your motivation .... ;)
    lobstersova
  • lobsterlobster Crusty Veteran
    Made a fool of myself again,
    It is a good habit, as the Bishop said to the Actress . . .
    :o
    sova
  • lobsterlobster Crusty Veteran
    You guys . . .

    xxx

    sovaVastmind
  • VastmindVastmind Memphis, TN Veteran
    edited January 2014
    @how... lolololol ..... It's all good :)
  • ZenshinZenshin Veteran East Midlands UK Veteran
    edited January 2014
    I thought things were getting a little spiky around here earlier, but all is well that ends well.
  • NevermindNevermind Bitter & Hateful Veteran
    Spiky bad! :hair:
    lobstersova
  • NevermindNevermind Bitter & Hateful Veteran
    REAL Buddhists don't judge. Just say'n.
  • vinlynvinlyn Colorado...for now Veteran
    Nevermind said:

    REAL Buddhists don't judge. Just say'n.

    You just judged.

  • NevermindNevermind Bitter & Hateful Veteran
    Exactly. I'm not a real Buddhists. :D
    vinlyn
  • sovasova delocalized fractyllic harmonizing Veteran
    countless lifetimes of happiness insight and splendor *thwacks gavel*
  • LiiLii Explorer
    I think it is always the behavior that should be judged and not the person. Many people who we judge in an inferior way are only the way they are because they have not had people care about them enough to train them in the right way. What we consider to be easy behavior do not come easily to all people. We should judge others behavior with a mind of compassion.
    Jeffreylobsterpoptart
  • lobsterlobster Crusty Veteran
    Well said @Lii

    A behaviour in us that may be ingrained, hereditary, good karma, life opportunities etc may be very hard won by those polishing their way to BuddhaHoodiness . . .

    Our essence, in Truth is empty, void of conditions. This is why the 'Buddhas'/masters/enlightened/hereditary lamas speak with 'one voice'.
    . . . however that 'light' or pure nature may have to shine through mud or the flaws of a diamond.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vajra

    Hit me with your rhythm stick
    Hit me, hit me
    Das ist gut! C'est fantastique
    Hit me, hit me, hit me
    Hit me with your rhythm stick
    It's nice to be a lunatic
    Hit me, hit me, hit me

    Ian Dury & The Blockheads

    . . . and now back to the Dread Judge :wave:
  • anatamananataman Who needs a title? Where am I? Veteran
    edited January 2014
    @how said:

    Aaaarrrgghhhh Oh Damm @Vastmind
    Made a fool of myself again,
    I didn't realize that your prison comment was actually a quote of a previous posting.
    I'll just crawl off now.

    Don't worry @How, it's easy to lose track when there are so many opinions being expressed. I won't judge you for it ;-)
  • DavidDavid A human residing in Hamilton, Ontario, Canada. Ancestral territory of the Erie, Haudenosaunee, Huron-Wendat, Mississauga and Neutral First Nations Veteran

    betaboy said:

    Point being, it is risky to judge people by their actions, since actions may not always reflect one's true nature.

    I would agree with that. Someone said, "we are the inheritor of our intentions." Not our actions, or results, or accomplishments, but our intentions. I like that idea.

    I don't think I can agree with that. Whatever the intent, it is the final result that we have to live with. This is why compassion should have wisdom as its guide.

    A wise person once said the road to hell is paved with good intentions.

    anataman
  • seeker242seeker242 Zen Florida, USA Veteran
    betaboy said:



    I am sorry, but I disagree. Circumstances determine our actions, which is why even enlightened people like Trungpa could act in unexpected ways. Our essential nature does not change.

    Our essential nature does not change but that does not mean we always act in accordance with it. The measure of wisdom is whether or not you can act in accordance with it, in various circumstances. If you can't act in accordance with your essential nature, that means that your vision of your essential nature is clouded. It does not mean it's not there, it just means you can't see it clearly.

    A "good buddhist" is continually judging themselves to see if their actions are in accordance with their essential nature. That is one function of the precepts. The precepts tell you how a person, who can clearly see their essential nature, naturally behaves. If one has a desire to act or acts contrary to the precepts, that alone is showing you that you have yet to see your essential nature clearly and you have more work to do. Trungpa still had work to do.

    :)
    anataman
  • atiyanaatiyana Explorer

    @betaboy said:
    Consider Chogyam Trungpa as an example - people often judge him by pointing to his ... adventures. But there is a major flaw in such line of thinking. Our desires and actions are not always in sync.

    I may, for instance, have the desire to fly (like a bird). I lack the capacity to fly - I don't have wings. But that doesn't mean my desire for flight is any less authentic. I may have the desire to do the highest good - but because I lack the capacity I may end up doing the greatest evil. That doesn't mean my desire for the greatest good is a lie.

    Point being, it is risky to judge people by their actions, since actions may not always reflect one's true nature.

    There is no problem judging Chogyam Trungpa, he wasn't a Buddha, and isn't revered as a great yogi or anything. He was a wise tantric that indulged a lot, I wouldn't consider him a "mad yogi", because I don't think he was enlightened, and he sure was not renown for his meditative prowess. He was walking the path but it is pretty clear he didn't accomplish the sublimation of emptiness required to transform his experience entirely, which is why his indulgence caught up to him and harmed many people (spreading stds for example). He understood tantrayana qua base and path, but didn't reach tantrayana qua fruit.

    lobster
  • lobsterlobster Crusty Veteran

    There is no problem judging Chogyam Trungpa, he wasn't a Buddha, and isn't revered as a great yogi or anything. He was a wise tantric that indulged a lot, I wouldn't consider him a "mad yogi", because I don't think he was enlightened, and he sure was not renown for his meditative prowess.

    Wise tantric is a fair assessment.
    I agree he was neither a Buddha, great crazy yogi or enlightened. He was clever enough to talk a good talk but fell down when walking . . .

    However he was a hereditary symbol of Buddhahood. He will enter the official hagiography of Tantra. That is the way of the things. In other words people unable to distinguish between poets, rock stars and their own, others delusions, or the official lineage holdings incorporated, will venerate their own fantasy modelling . . .

  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator

    January thread: one member gone, some missing in action.... Sunk.

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